I'll admit that I'm not totally committed to the mgtow movement because I'm a sucker for the idea of falling in love with a girl. So my solution is to focus solely on yourself until your mid 40s - make money, stay in good shape, travel the world, fuck tons of women - and when you enter your 40s, start searching for a serious relationship with a woman you could see yourself marrying and starting a family with. This could take years so it might not even happen until after 50. By that age, you're closer to death so even if you get fucked over by a divorce, you'll only be a few years from dying. By following this plan, you'll have experienced life to the fullest. You'll get the best of both worlds: complete freedom in your prime and then, when you're older, the potential to grow old with the love of your life along with a couple of kids.