I have been wanting to become a father for quite some time now. I am in my early thirties and it seems the sperm quality reduces after 36-37, hence would like to store my swimmers for later when i would want their service. I have been to a fertility clinic and have gotten my blood tested and have to get my semen analysis done tomorrow.

The lady doctor apparently counseled me to get married as that is the supposed way of becoming a father according to the society. She doesn't seem to answer my specific questions on quantity, sperm washing etc. Also the laws are not in favor of a single person(male/female) becoming a surrogate parent in India.

I want to know more about surrogacy and how i can go about it. Are there any websites or any other information resources on the same. I would like to have 2 boys(so the x chromosome needs to be inactivated).

Has anyone been through the same, and successfully had a kid at least ? I am looking for info on the same mainly related to laws and cost.

Adoption is not an option as i want my own dna to spread. I saw some videos by victor_knight and am not sure i would wanna go down that path.

Looking forward to the comments, thanks