You're worth it. Everyone places their value in things outside of themselves - possessions, women, pussy, experiences, etc. Nobody looks inward because they're scared of facing themselves. When you have true freedom, learn to wash away outside influences you start to break down the things in your mind that have held you back as a man. "Why wasn't I good enough for that job?" "Why didn't that girl like me? Did she think I was ugly" "Why am I failure?"

In life, there really is no right or wrong. There just is. This may sound like some philosophical nonsense but in reality it's a deep truth. Stuff just exists, it's up to you to give it meaning, filter it, process it. Take human mutations for example. Let's see there is a mutation in someone's eyes that causes them to see things differently. You see a pattern of light and your mind recognizes it as a tree. You claim that is the truth - it's a tree. The other guy with the mutation sees the light and sees it as a tall shrub. Which one of you is right or wrong? Neither. You both have your own truth - your own reality - nobody can tell you it's wrong because it's what you personally are experiencing.

So getting back to my point. Don't let anyone ever tell you your value as a man - a lot of our language is subjective and relative to your reality, your environment, and how you grew up. Don't fall into the depression rathole with women or your shitty job or your neighborhood. It's easy to let the outside influence the inside. If you can absorb this then you're well on your way to going your own way and defining what it means to be a man to you.

Bless up brothers.