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I'm an incel. AMA (self.TheBluePill)

FriendshipAdvice00 が 投稿

So lack of sex/intimate relationships have caused me to be highly mentally unstable. Why is it so bad to be bitter/resentful if you feel so unwanted by women.

I feel like there's not much you can do, so what do you expect us to act like? Just be fine with it? I am ugly ass sin, I am deformed and look like a deformed person. If I am so unattractive and unchangeable, what should I do?

I have no fucking hope. I've been told that I am insufferable due to my attitude, yet look like Golum. I'm subhuman and am in my mid-twenties without a relationship.

People make me stop and stare, and my looks alone scare people off. I'm also not getting any younger, and the older you get, the harder it is to find love. Fuck TheRedPill, both men and women hit the wall... Why am I not allowed to be bitter?

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[–]like300 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

It sounds like you have legitimate mental health issues. I don't mean that like "wink and a nod, this guy should be dismissed as illegitimate" or whatever.

It sounds like you blame other people. It sounds like you believe you would be OK if someone else changed their behavior to do what you want.

That is the problem that people on this sub tend to have: its' not with you feeling bitter, feeling ugly, depressed, or whatever. The problem arises when you believe that the solution lies with the behavior of another person; as if you are entitled to them changing.

If you truly have no hope then see a doctor. Keep seeking help. You'll likely be dismissed a number of times, and there's nothing I can do with that. At the end of the day your issues are not caused by someone not having sex with you.

[–]FriendshipAdvice00[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

Nope. I've been told by multiple people that "No offense, but based on your looks is going to make it nearly impossible to find love due to deformity "

At the end of the day your issues are not caused by someone not having sex with you.

Yes they are. Why else have I started becoming more mentally unstable to lack of intimacy after the years have passed.

[–]like300 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

I can't compete with "nope". Perhaps you're just an asshole?

[–]FriendshipAdvice00[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm not an asshole. I swear, lol.

I can't just make myself non-deformed.

Maybe if I was younger and plastic surgery, maybe ,just maybe. But nah.