It's actually a tough call, because most of us have probably been exactly where you are. Talking is one thing texting is one thing spending money on her having sex with her going on dates with her is a totally different thing. I'm not sure I would worry about it unless you have been sucked back into the Vortex of her lies and become entangled again in her drama.

I still talk to my ex-girlfriend on rare occasion we exchanged text messages once or twice a week but the difference is I'm in control and I have absolutely no intention of ever being with her again.

I'll save you the time of lecturing you about the last remnants of blue pill mentality still existing... That very last part he's hanging on because of Hope. Hope that women are not really like that period that women can change and have that Shaka buku moment of realization. As long as you intellectually understand that it will never happen and you act accordingly then there are no worries.

I'll give you example of a recent conversation I had with my high-school girlfriend that I have not had sex with since I was 16 or 17 almost 25 years ago. I asked her if she could ask her parents if I could park in their driveway so I could hunt behind their house. She called me, and began with her normal neg. I negged her back and the entire conversation was all business. She tried to allude to me owing her one for simply asking her parents a very simple question for me. I told her if I got some deer meat I would give her some of it.

Like always, she tried to steer the conversation towards flirty conversation. You have to realize this is literally two days after she posted her 17-year anniversary pictures on Facebook. AWALT

The question is are you in control or do you feel like you would do something that you would later regret or are you hoping that it leads to something? If not I don't see a problem with the occasional conversation we are all human but your intentions and your motivations can only be known by you.

If deep down inside you're hoping one day something will happen you'll just get a hookup or something with her kind of History then I would say you need to look further and deeper into yourself to read more about some of the tragedies of getting roped into bad situations because of an irresponsible woman who is looking to manipulate you.

There are guys on here whose only response is AWALT and that is because they have seen and heard too many stories about guys who got tricked so just remember they post AWALT for a reason.