Another classic meme within MGTOW is the wonderful phrase “Where have all the good men gone”. It’s always a guaranteed way to bring MGTOW into fits of laughter with their latest discoveries of WHATGMG stories from the internet or from their own lives. It’s also a great fallback of conversation within MGTOW for those who are openly discussing modern marriage and relationships.
‘Where have all the good men gone’ is something which is heard from and repeated by so many women nowadays. Not dozens, not hundreds, not thousands, but likely women in the millions have said this rather infamous phrase. And men who may never have heard of MGTOW yet, and are no part of it, already know the answer to this question too. And all wised up men laugh together whenever they hear it or see it, followed usually by a face palm or a shaking of the head in the inability of the woman in not fully understanding what she is saying and her part in creating the very man drought she may be complaining about.
The Problem With Where Have All The Good Men Gone
The hilarity of this phrase is that it is so often usually repeated by women who have had a lifetime to be with a good man, that they have already met so many good men throughout their lives, and they rejected good men over and over again, often with deliberate humiliation at the very good men who had tried to get to know them in a respectable manner.
For these are the same women who so often spent a lifetime pushing away and stomping down ‘good men’, and often had great fun doing so. Only to instead chase after all the worst possible trashy men as their preference. Often spending their youth going from man to man to man, always the worst kinds of men, and always fogging off every single good man who ever came near them.
And so when these same women hit their 30s and 40s, often with children, sometimes from different fathers, often with an extremely high number count of intimate partners, and now all of a sudden they want to find a good man to settle down with…
Yet not one good man would go near them under any circumstances now.
Because these good men really are GOOD MEN, and they don’t want bad women.
These good men could have been wonderful and devoted husband and fathers for any of these women over all these years, and by this time they could have been well established together, with children, a home and a lifetime of happy memories together.
Yet the same women who ruthlessly crushed so many good men, over decades, are now complaining loudly and wondering why no good men want anything to do with them. As they behave as though they are now entitled to the very gold they spent their lives despising and stomping on.
These good men are no longer the innocents they once were. They learned from all their life’s experiences with this exact type of woman. They can spot them in an instant now, and likewise avoid all contact with them. These men are still the same good men at heart, but now they are wise, and they have so long ago learned how to categorize women into their different groups of good and bad. And they don’t want the bad.
Men speak from within MGTOW and the rest of the Manosphere how they view so many women who have spent their youths and their beauty having riding the trashy man carousel, and now some of them want to find one of those ‘good men’ they remember from their younger days. To love them, to marry them, to have children with, and to provide for them, both before and after the future divorce. And all these good men take a single look, and say no thank you.
And it is so often these same women who told all the good men to fob off, over and over again, as they spoilt their youth sometimes living degenerate lifestyles with one trashy man after another. And now as they hit the wall, with no options, either with or without children, ageing, and with no prospects of any marriage at all, and facing a long life of loneliness ahead, they cry out “WHERE HAVE ALL THE GOOD MEN GONE”.
And the good men have another laugh amongst themselves.
Because it’s all too late for these women now.
The women hailing this battlecry of “Where Have All The Good Men Gone” never wanted good men, they never wanted a good respectable life, they wanted fun with Baddy McBadBoy times 50 or 100 or more. They wanted clubs, fun, and excitement, and they got exactly everything they wanted. Including having a life free of good men!
And a life that will forever remain without “Good Men”.
Because now, the good men who remained single or are now divorced, have all wised up, they want nothing to do with these types of women, not a relationship, not marriage, and not children. The good men can spot these types of women coming, and have already left the building before she has even realized he was there.