My stats are about the same as yours, except average height and above average looks. My dating experience has been similar to yours.

• Internet dating is a sham. Simply put, a woman's SMV is easily doubled on dating sites due to the fact that there is an overabundance of men. Land whales, single moms, nutcases, SJWs, etc. are the norm. Women I can easily pick up at a bar are generally out of reach on most of those sites. Too much competition.

• OKCupid is full of nymphomaniacs. PoF is full of single moms. Match.com is a mixed bag, but most on there have outrageously high expectations.

• Before going MGTOW I was a blue pilled white knight to the core. I struck up a relationship with what seemed like a great woman on PoF (hard to believe, I know). We talked on the phone every other night and had more in common than anyone I've ever met. Great photos, too. We met in person after a few months (I travel a lot for work). She was in her late thirties and had the body of a 50 year old. Fat, flabby, horribly sun damaged skin, moles galore and a bunch of other physical flaws she hid with clever camera work. I guess she figured I'd be so enamored that I'd overlook this bit of dishonesty. Nope. She flipped out when I told her flat out I wasn't attracted to her. She explained how she was raped as a youngster, as if that would change my mind. After that, I started researching MGTOW and have never looked back.

• Laughable how many women on those sites put zero effort into their profiles. Sometimes just one word, and they still get attention. However, like you, and unlike 90% of them, I put a lot of work into it. I treated it like a fucking part time job, because I figured "this could lead to a soul mate, make it count". Carefully crafted messages 90% of the time got no response or a lazy reply.

• I'm convinced that a lot of those sites have fake profiles to drum up business. Also, there are simply a lot of really, really, really dumb women on those sites. They don't know how to respond to anything approaching an intelligent message.

• The bar scene is more of a reality check for women, but you run into the same supercilious female mentality, particularly among the women in their mid 20s. The ones in their 30s, almost without exception, have a gaggle of kids to take care of. Bottom line is, again, rampant female stupidity. They get knocked up, hit the wall, and become worthless on the dating market. I'm not going to take care of a woman's fuck up. Ding and dent city.

• I finally started to ponder the time, effort and money spent on dating and realized that it was a gigantic scam. Quality men like you and I are forced to put women on a pedestal and grovel at their feet. It dawned on me how so much of my life has been devoted to acquiring status, possessions, wealth, etc. in order to attract a mate. I was the prototypical beta bux, since I'm a nice, good looking guy with a good income.

• The thing is, women want it all. They want guys like us to care for them, but they also want the bad boy fucks. It makes sense, from a primitive standpoint. Fearless, low-intelligence men have their place just like thoughtful, high-intelligence men do. Women crave both types of men, because, I presume, evolution has mandated that both personality types exist to propagate the species. So, women get a womb full of competing sperm from both types to duke it out. It's been shown that women prefer to fuck alphas while ovulating and betas otherwise. That says it all right there.

I'm rambling here, but in summary, I sympathize with you and embrace you as a brother. I've more or less given up on finding that unicorn. All women are wired to behave like this and frankly I've got better shit to do with my time than chase after people who see us as little more than a vending machine. It really doesn't matter what country they're from or how they were raised, this is all hard-wired behavior.