If you are a male and crave a lot of attention, you are wasting your time and acting like a woman.

Attention matters greatly to women because having a lot of it significantly increases their chances of finding a mate by being highly visible, since being more visible increases the chances of a man finding and approaching them.

This is why women hate to feel invisible, why they want to be noticed so badly, and why, all over the world, women wish they were taller. Not necessary tall, but taller than the other females in their area, which is why they like high-heeled shoes so much. This is also the reason the world is full of drama queens—females who try to turn even trivial matters into huge issues—because they like to be the center of attention, and it is why they love being photographed and have tons of pictures of themselves in their cell phone.

However, a male wishing to get the girls he wants should not focus on attracting a lot of attention and then hope for women to approach him. That is what women do, that is how women think, and it is a poor strategy to get a particular woman. Selecting and approaching the woman you want is not only the best strategy to end up with what you want, it is also what women expect and prefer from a man, which makes being passive or indirect even less effective.

Attention is not attraction; hence, you do not need to break dance, make balloon animals, take your shirt off, wear big head phones, play loud music from your car, dress like a cowboy, spray champagne, throw money around, do magic, wear large jewelry, gather a posse, greet everyone, cover your body with tattoos, show off all your shiny gadgets, or do anything else that males commonly do to bring attention to themselves.

There is no difference mentally between a young boy who joins the same class as the girl he is interested in, an adolescent guy who goes to the gym every day to beef up, and a middle-aged male who arrives to a nightclub in his colorful sports car. They all think like women; that simply being noticed is enough to somehow seal the deal, which is why most of the attention they get from this behavior will be from other MALES, asking them why they are taking that class, how much weight they can bench press, and how fast their car is.

That sounds both gay and like a huge waste of time, because it is.

Unless you want to keep attracting male attention and waste your life away without women, get your copy of The Manual today. It is the smart thing to do.