#Foreveralone - Why you need to stop chasing women

Its hard to ignore that there are in fact, a lot of men still out "chasing" women today. Go out to any bar, club, or party and you will find a gaggle of men surrounding any half decent looking chick as if they are waiting for their turn. Well their "turn" isn't coming. It seems like no matter what year we are in or what new place I decide to go, this one factor remains consistent with every venue. Men place FAR too much emphasis on women


Now you may say, "It's a bar/club/party why ELSE would we be here? It's the SETTING for it!!" Well, there are two sides to this. Yes of course, meeting a girl is a nice by-product of going out and socializing...but if we are going to be completely honest here then we can take this at face value. Most men are going out to socialize for SOLEY that reason. The "bars/clubs/parties" what have you, are nothing more than a clever guise for how you apply your thinking to most settings.


I completely enjoy going out and having a good conversation with friends, intellectual or nonsensical. It's when they begin to throw the kitty chasing into the mix where things start to get awkward, and downright annoying. The worst part is, this has nothing to do with social skills or "game" (I love that one) but all the more to do with the shit setting they are trying to accomplish this task in. When you think of a nightclub or bar, what's the first thing that comes to mind? Loud music. Flashing lights. Overpriced drinks. How does one expect to use such venue as a medium for meeting women?

There is little to no benefit in these conquests. It's a waste of a man's time, money, and dignity. I had recently stumbled upon an article on Lovepanky.com titled: "Why do men like a chase? - How to use it in your favor". It went on to describe (from a woman's point of view nonetheless) their take on why men chase them and how to twist it to their advantage. You will see subtle narcissisms to downright blatant manipulation.

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These are actual bits taken from the article. You can get the general premise of it. Men are starving desperate animals that need to work for this woman who is "every guys dream" yet the man is the one with the ego. Maybe I am missing something here.

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​The level of complete hypocracy and entitlement is astounding. Look at the way these men are though of. A bunch of pawns or options. Male pursuit is treated like it's some twisted hunger games that has a "Winner" at the end. The girl is essentially the "prize" which then the article goes on to say the chase is for the male ego.

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Edited for bullshit: Give the man little doggie treats here and there to keep stringing him along into your mental fuckery games. He's nothing more than another orbiter..easily disposable and on call should you so ever need a favor.

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This one really made me laugh. "Give him a glimmer of hope" incrementally each time. Sweeten the pot and buy a little more tasty treat each time. If you need to hang on to a glimmer of hope and hang on to her fucking checklist hoping to make the cut each meeting I've got news for you buddy, you need to grow a pair and get a damn hobby or line of work that gives your life some meaning.

Seriously, cut it out and stop chasing women. Stop making them a priority in your life and basing entire nights out, financial decisions, and for the love everything, LIVELIHOOD off of them. You are wasting so much time and effort that can be put towards bettering yourself as a man, and becoming some people naturally gravitate towards.