I'm currently 22 years old and have just graduated college a few months ago. I am trying to build my own career path in a difficult industry, publishing and editing, and as such am by no means able to fulfill myself career wise because it takes time, though I'm successfully freelancing. I was wondering, from both younger and older men going their own way, how do you help keep motivated and defining success outside of your career without it being defined by relationships and their ilk?