Imagine you are told you are amazing beautiful wonderful over and over. You have a decent job so you really only want a partner to buy you things and treat you like you shit gold. And you only orgasm by rubbing your clit or being with such a hot guy that its all mental stimulation.

Then you get married. The guy is weak. You know he would rather post on dead bedrooms and go with you to therapy then divorce you and lose his children. Why would you ever have sex in this situation.

Then these women freakout and get upset if the guy visits a hooker.

You marry someone you may as well chop off your dick and save yourself some grief.