Dude's about 30, I've worked with him for 6 years. When he came to work he already had a psycho ex wife and 2 kids by her. He pays child support to her even though the kids live with him. The court of course just lets that go on. 4 years ago he married again. I give him credit, he married "above his status" and married a pretty pharmacist. We're auto mechanics. He makes about 40k/year. He had a baby with her. Over the last several months they started having problems. According to him, "she changed". Now they're divorcing and he's going to be paying HER child support. She makes well over twice what he makes and he already has child support coming out of his check for two kids but the court is making him pay her child support anyway. He lost the truck he bought when they got married, not sure if she took it or it got repo'd. He's back living with his parents and already has a girlfriend. Some men will never learn. I feel bad for him because it is affecting his work but some men just do not learn. So glad to have dodged that bullet in my life! The last gf I had was 2 years ago. Early on when we were dating, she hit me with the craziest question. What would I think of her being a surrogate mother? Knowing what I know now, both about women and about her personally, I have no doubt that she was already fucking around and thought she'd gotten pregnant so was doing early damage control. If she had actually been pregnant, I have no doubt my name would have gone on the birth certificate and she'd be going after me for child support. After we broke up, friends later told me that she had two more "pregnancies" quotes intentional.