I met this girl back in 2013, she was literally what I considered an "HB10", a 10/10 in looks. She was a 24 year old tall Norwegian thin blonde, with golden hair and looked like a model. We banged and had fun, and then she returned to Norway.

Over the years I looked at her pictures on facebook, and 3 years later in 2016, she went from a 10 to a 6. Gained weight, face got a little droopier than before, some first wrinkles, basically the product of wear and tear and aging.

Basically, what I learned from looking at photos of girls I liked is:

She will never look as good as the day you met her.

Every day that she ages, her looks get worse and worse. That is the curse of women. They age, at a rate much faster than men. Probably from all their emotions and drama. A girl is in her looks prime from 16-23, then her looks start to wither, by age 30 she's halved her initial score.

How funny yet cruel is this trick that men are played on. Men are attracted to women for their looks, but then they get locked in for the long term and the looks disappear. Looks are something so brief, so quick, that they're gone in a flash.

Men lock themselves into something for a lifetime over something that lasts an instant. It is the definition of short term gain, long term pain. A bad deal.