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How to avoid gold diggers? (self.MGTOW)

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I am about to start a job that pays well ($200k usd/yr) and I am worried that some woman is going to come along and pretend to be in love with me. I had a divorce from a failed marriage several years ago with a woman from India and I am very afraid of making the same mistake. I have some defenses: I've spent a lot of time living in the Philippines and Thailand where golddigging is part of the culture. Granted I was only making about $15k per year at the time so I had less to lose, but I was able to tell pretty quickly who was just into me for my perceieved value.

However I am going to be moving to a big city in the United States and I am worried that this change will make it harder to filter out the manipulative women from the pure at heart. I'm 33 and not ready to settle down.

I admire the strength of the men in MGTOW. I would like to practice this, but there is an emptiness in my life that it seems only a romantic relationship can fill. I've been working on myself a lot recently and hoping to get to the point where I no longer need this from a woman to feel whole and complete. I would love to hear any advice this community has as I move into this next phase of my life.

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[–]Charles_Offdensen 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Not getting married helps a ton and realize that the vast vast majority of women who show interest in you will only do so once they realize how much money you have and the easiest way to deal with it is to ignore them. Don't get married, don't cohabitate and don't blow money on any woman, if you want relationships fine but by taking these precautions you limit the damage they can do.

[–]360GnomeChild 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

You can avoid shallow people by looking average on the outside.

This means wear clothes and drive a car regular folks who make 50K per year would have.

[–]carjackerwilly 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Why do you seek validation from women ? That is the essence of what you are saying and also the problem. A "romantic relationship" as you call it is only a grooming phase by a woman to get you exactly where she wants you and then she will take the mask off. By then it is too late and you realize that it was all a lie. What is missing in your life that you feel compelled to risk your future, your identity, your state of mind and possibly even your life ?