Sorry in advance for any errors, my first language isn't English

I don't understand why you hate guys incels, I understand that the community attracts some bad people, but most of us are pretty normal guys who just have some sort of ailment that keeps us from being successful in relationships.

I'm 28, incel(although I don't like to give myself labels, but for the purpose of this post I am). I'm not the stereotype you guys promote on here. I'm a generally good person(at least I like to think so). I have an awesome job that allows me to travel to different countries a few times a year, I have quite a few friends, I'm engaged with my church. I'm still an incel(mostly due to being quite ugly), and that's fine, you might ask why I still participate in these communities. I live a pretty happy life, but I would be lying if I said that it doesn't get to me when my mother or father asks me why I have never had a girlfriend, or if I ever plan to get married, then compare me to my brother who's married with two children. I'm not angry, nor bitter, but I do like having a community where I can share my experiences with other people going through the same thing.

What I'm trying to say that not all of us are like the posts you guys share here, I don't hate women, I'm not angry, and for the most part I'm pretty satisfied with my life. I don't think it's fair to paint us all with one brush.

Thank you for reading.