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[–]downbound 4358ポイント4359ポイント  (177子コメント)

Luckily I am way over 5'10" and have C cups.

[–]TITVS-ANDRONICVS 1146ポイント1147ポイント  (74子コメント)

Yeh but you also have an ugly mug.

[–]suddenly_satire 2533ポイント2534ポイント  (53子コメント)

Too true. :-(

[–]impossibru65 382ポイント383ポイント  (31子コメント)

That's fucking awesome, it's like the Evil Dead Necronomicon.

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        [–]Rhyann 361ポイント362ポイント  (27子コメント)

        well this depressed the hell out of me

        [–]the_last_moose 75ポイント76ポイント  (7子コメント)

        Don't let it get to you. No matter what your flaws may be, nobody is perfect. The problem is here on the Western society, we grow up with the stigma that we're special and we deserve the best. This has created the disproportionate environment where we focus on everyone else's flaws, instead of their redeeming qualities.

        A lot of cultures outside of Western (ie. Confucius) actually subscribe to equality; that we are all average people with flaws, living an average life. Even 10/10 attractive supermodels have flaws - it's our media culture who hides away such flaws.

        There's nothing wrong with being average or mediocre, because in truth we're all flawed. There's nothing wrong with being short or flat chested. You'll eventually find someone who recognises your qualities and accept your flaws.

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          [–]bureX 1898ポイント1899ポイント  (1242子コメント)

          I wandered over on /r/tinder a few times, and... well... when did height become such a huge issue with people?

          [–]shatonamime 328ポイント329ポイント  (55子コメント)

          online dating. they can just weed people out based on this stat. Dating sites do surveys and keep track of stats and it is always in womens top thing of what they look for. Dating sites are almost always flooded with men so they carter to women to keep them there and happy. Cause if all the women left the dating sites, they would fail and it wouldn't work. On Tinder, you can't search by height, so it has to stated or asked right away.

          [–]EndTheFedora 94ポイント95ポイント  (46子コメント)

          5'6 here. I've thought about (as a temporary experiment, not trying to mislead people) changing my height to 6 feet just to see if I get more responses.

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            [–]DurtybOttLe 2054ポイント2055ポイント  (872子コメント)

            Women have pretty much always had a huge preference for taller guys.

            [–]0takuSharkGuy 2393ポイント2394ポイント  (774子コメント)

            At 6'2" here, I'm waiting for this to be the case

            [–]lost_in_newyork 2258ポイント2259ポイント  (524子コメント)

            Same boat... turns out we have to be attractive, too.

            [–]porcelainfog 1991ポイント1992ポイント  (503子コメント)

            Tall and attractive here... Turns out you need to be social too.

            [–]TheSacman 2278ポイント2279ポイント  (174子コメント)

            Tall, attractive, and social here... Turns out..

            haha jk, this is reddit after all

            edit: my first gold! Thank you stranger!! My only regret is that it was all for such an obvious continuation of the chain and not my own witty comment or idea. My limo awaits, good day plebs!!

            [–]uriman 514ポイント515ポイント  (139子コメント)

            Actually, all you need is money...

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              [–]SHITTYANDUNFUNNY 1151ポイント1152ポイント  (239子コメント)

              Tall, attractive, and antisocial checking in: We are totally oblivious to the scope of women who would date us, and if you're like me we use some sort of apathy-based avoidance pattern to justify never pursuing women even when we can tell they are flirting with us.

              We are monsters man. What's wrong with us.

              [–]JustDroppinBy 133ポイント134ポイント  (33子コメント)

              And have a high-paying job that gives you time to be with your loved ones.

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                  [–]Utrolig 199ポイント200ポイント  (14子コメント)

                  An almost-clone of you that's like 5'7" will do much worse, I promise

                  [–]xxkoloblicinxx 472ポイント473ポイント  (146子コメント)

                  See, for tall guys they must have a seemingly legitimate reason not to be attacted ect.

                  When youre short, you get responses like "i dont date guys shorter than me." And when you dig deep you consistently get reasons like "well, if im with a short guy I can never wear heels." Meaning a huge chunk of women would rather wear heels with a tall guy they are 80% compatible with than not wear heels with a guy they are 95-100% compatible with.

                  You tell youself "their loss." But the 10th 11th time it happens. It starts to get to you. For me the worst one was a girl telling me she had been crushing on me for years. She came to ME! To confess her love. Only to finish by saying "But I could never date a guy whose shorter than me." Im 5'6". Shes barely 5'7". That was a slap in the face. But not uncommon.

                  Ladies, if you are gonna turn down a guy because hes short, lie. Say anything else. Id rather a woman just said she thinks I'm ugly. At least then I know I should wear a paper bag over my head while dating.

                  [–]jpark28 216ポイント217ポイント  (61子コメント)

                  You know what, I'm a 5'4 guy and I agree it absolutely sucks dating wise. This girl once told me that if I was 5 inches taller, I would be perfect for her because she loves my personality. But this is where I disagree with your last part. When she told me that, I was honestly a bit flattered. There's nothing I can do about my height, but if a girl says she likes everything about me besides my height, then I guess I'm doing everything else right that I can actually control.

                  We will find our soul mates fellow manlets, just be the best you can be! Or maybe we'll all just die alone or settle for someone we don't actually like because we're desperate. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

                  Edit: How the hell do you format the shrug emoji correctly?

                  [–]nowTHATScomedy 50ポイント51ポイント  (15子コメント)

                  Pretty attractive 5'4" chiming in. Some pretty women actually don't care, but you gotta really have the positive vibe and confidence nailed down.

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                    [–]Sir_Fridge 202ポイント203ポイント  (25子コメント)

                    Dude, you really don't want to date women that think like that anyways. Also, I'm pretty sure that a bunch of those women were lying and not being able to wear heels is an excuse.

                    [–]xxkoloblicinxx 29ポイント30ポイント  (5子コメント)

                    No, ive gotten that from women i was dating as well. I wont lie and say i havent had some luck with taller girls.

                    One of said girlfriends basically said "yeah i cant wear heels with you, but thats fine they're uncomfortable anyways." And its been echoed by almost every tall woman ive met with a shorter guy. Which makes it sound like i know a lot but theres really only been a handful.

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                        [–]Electroverted 98ポイント99ポイント  (8子コメント)

                        6'5" and single. While being tall will open the door for me, it won't close it behind me.

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                            [–]Danyol 335ポイント336ポイント  (131子コメント)

                            Height has always been just about the #1 factor for how attractive a guy is, with jawline and income possibly more important.

                            There was a study at Duke that found an inch of height is worth $30,000 in income in terms of attractiveness (i.e. a guy that is 5'9" would have to make $30,000 more than a guy who is 5'10" to be as attractive)

                            http://myfox8.com/2016/03/17/short-men-less-attractive-to-women-according-to-duke-university-study/

                            [–]Lilday 440ポイント441ポイント  (50子コメント)

                            Jesus Christ.

                            Well, at 5'6" I think I'll go find a nice comfortable railway line to rest my head on.

                            [–]Miniassassin 211ポイント212ポイント  (1子コメント)

                            Being that short I doubt it would make a difference

                            [–]Lilday 170ポイント171ポイント  (0子コメント)

                            Haha too short to reach across the tracks 😂 train goes straight over me

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                              [–]WOOBBLARBALURG 47ポイント48ポイント  (11子コメント)

                              I'm a 5'3 guy. Life is usually great down here, but those figures are really concerning.

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                                [–]TwoFingersOfWhiskey 183ポイント184ポイント  (50子コメント)

                                ~1,200,000 years ago.

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                                  [–]perv_bot 1764ポイント1765ポイント  (127子コメント)

                                  Men don't care about boobs. They care about how fat you are.

                                  [–]_SexyWiddleBaby_ 786ポイント787ポイント  (29子コメント)

                                  Yep. I have DD's but no one cares cuz I'm fat as fuck :)

                                  [–]Armored_Fetus 133ポイント134ポイント  (6子コメント)

                                  Nice face. Not fat.

                                  [–]fuzzeenavel 352ポイント353ポイント  (23子コメント)

                                  If I see a skinny girl with c cups I could lift a can of paint with my dick

                                  [–]mynameiswrong 117ポイント118ポイント  (16子コメント)

                                  Have c cups, not even remotely big breasted. I don't think most people understand bra sizes

                                  [–]FreckleBunny 18ポイント19ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                  They really don't. A guy once guessed my bra size was a 36C. I'm a 28G.

                                  Also would say I'm more like medium-chested but when people hear that size they think I have watermelons attached to my chest lmao

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                                    [–]DragosFemale 17ポイント18ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                    FYI Cup sizes is the difference between the tip and the chest area right below the boobs, so a skinny girl with c cup is not as voluptuous as people would imagine (think girl with c cup here)

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                                        [–]tunafishjoe 1094ポイント1095ポイント  (298子コメント)

                                        And then you turn 30 and you settle.

                                        [–]ThatEyetalian 772ポイント773ポイント  (81子コメント)

                                        You settle but you still hold resentment in your heart for having to settle. The resent grows every time you hear your partner chew his food a little bit too loud or you hear her complain longingly about how much better her friend's husband is at something than you.

                                        [–]willbabysit4ketamine 661ポイント662ポイント  (27子コメント)

                                        munch, munch "You know.. um, honey.. Joyce's husband got her a new BMW."

                                        "Yes, I saw."

                                        "Yeah, it's really nice."

                                        "Yes, it is."

                                        munch... munch

                                        "You know.. honey.. I was thinking, well, my half-birthday is coming up and that old Audi you bought me last year is acting up, but.. but I've been reading up on sports cars and Joyce's husband said-"

                                        "WELL IF JOYCE'S HUSBAND IS SO GREAT, WHY DON'T YOU MARRY HIM?!"

                                        "MAYBE I WILL, I'VE ALREADY BEEN FUCKING HIM FOR WEEKS BECAUSE YOU'RE SO BUSY AT WORK YOU HARDLY HAVE TIME FOR ME!"

                                        "IS THAT WHY YOU'VE REJECTED EVERY SEXUAL ADVANCE I MADE OVER THE PAST SIX MONTHS? YOU SAID YOU WERE 'TIRED,' BUT I GUESS YOU WERE ONLY 'TIRED' AFTER RIDING HIS STUPID CHODE ALL DAY."

                                        "AT LEAST HE KNOWS HOW TO USE HIS 'STUPID CHODE' TO PLEASE A WOMAN."

                                        "AND AT LEAST JOYCE LEAVES THEIR BATHROOM WINDOW OPEN SO I CAN PLEASURE MYSELF TO HER TAKING A SHIT EACH MORNING."

                                        edit for your aural pleasure

                                        [–]SuicidalSpaghetti 178ポイント179ポイント  (27子コメント)

                                        Or you could just not settle and be lonely, depressed, and angry.

                                        [–]tunafishjoe 76ポイント77ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                        Yep. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

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                                          [–]TheManOTheHour 197ポイント198ポイント  (117子コメント)

                                          Okay, for real though. I'm a 28 year old dude and I just don't stress about this. Is that weird?

                                          I've been in school and haven't really bothered too much with dating (a few longer term relationships that didn't work out), but I don't have this dread that I'm going to die alone.

                                          [–]cupcakesordeath 122ポイント123ポイント  (19子コメント)

                                          32 and still Single. It doesn't bother me most days, except when everyone is busy and I just want to go out to a bar or movie. Haven't decided if I just need more friends or a relationship. Also, I like not sharing my stuff....

                                          [–]Filthybiped 35ポイント36ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                          The good thing is there's a growing demographic of singles your age and it looks like the trend will continue as people put off having children or not having children at all. The not liking to share stuff could bite you in the butt a little!

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                                              [–]warpfield 113ポイント114ポイント  (19子コメント)

                                              nooooooooooooooooo

                                              [–]bellwetherumbrella 39ポイント40ポイント  (10子コメント)

                                              Only if you want kids

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                                                [–]skyshade13 1171ポイント1172ポイント  (122子コメント)

                                                For me, it's all 'I don't really want someone but my freaking biology makes me horny all the time' -_-

                                                [–]ThatEyetalian 482ポイント483ポイント  (85子コメント)

                                                So true. I want someone to fuck and be around when it's convenient, but I don't want the commitment and responsibility of having a significant other.

                                                The problem is, even when you find someone that you just have sex with, they usually end up crossing the line and ask you to do couples stuff. And then you feel like an asshole for refusing and trying to reestablish boundaries.

                                                [–]BetterWithoutThis 721ポイント722ポイント  (47子コメント)

                                                I want someone to fuck and be around when it's convenient

                                                That's a prostitute.

                                                [–]Googoo123450 431ポイント432ポイント  (26子コメント)

                                                He forgot to mention "for free".

                                                [–]DarkTussin 289ポイント290ポイント  (13子コメント)

                                                Heh - girlfriend that's free.

                                                That's a good one.

                                                Granted I've dated with some girls who were doing better than me in life a few times and it's nice to be taken care of - you still pay for it one way or another.

                                                [–]1LocutusOfBorg 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                Kyle, every boy pays for kisses. Do you know what I am saying? If you've got a girl, and she kisses you, sooner or later you're paying for it. You've gotta take her out to lunch, take her to a movie, and then spend time listenin' to all her stupid problems. Look, look at Stan right there. [Kyle turns to see Stan, who's listening to Wendy over at the merry-go-round] He's gotta sit there and listen to her stupid motherfuckin' problems 'cause she kisses him. If you ask me, that's a lot more than the five dollars my company charges.

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                                                    [–]ElectronaRhea 19ポイント20ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                    I think that possibly, with your outlook and attitude, you just haven't found the person you want to have sex with AND be around too.

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                                                        [–]HebrewHammer10010 1741ポイント1742ポイント  (131子コメント)

                                                        "I couldn't date her because she wasn't even a C cup" - said no man, literally ever.

                                                        [–]brazil84 623ポイント624ポイント  (101子コメント)

                                                        "I couldn't date her because she wasn't even a C cup" - said no man, literally ever.

                                                        I wouldn't go that far, since there are probably a few boob fetishists out there. But yeah, the ratio of (1) girls who rule out men because they are short, to (2) men who rule out girls because they are small-chested is probably like 1000 to 1.

                                                        [–]HuckFinn69 536ポイント537ポイント  (51子コメント)

                                                        A more accurate reason for why he ruled her out would have been if she was fat, which is a far more common reason than boob size.

                                                        [–]Leporad 206ポイント207ポイント  (7子コメント)

                                                        Yea but nobody would bother watching the video if she was fat.

                                                        [–]brazil84 164ポイント165ポイント  (14子コメント)

                                                        A more accurate reason for why he ruled her out would have been if she was fat, which is a far more common reason than boob size.

                                                        Yes, I agree. I am guessing they didn't do it that way because they wanted to make him seem very unreasonable in his requirements.

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                                                              [–]JonasBrosSuck 469ポイント470ポイント  (15子コメント)

                                                              reminds me of the bo burnham song "lower your expectations" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tKs7rZy0l84

                                                              [–]LBUlises 81ポイント82ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                              Love Bo, lots of his songs are great and criticize the average person/fan/artist. Should also check out kill yourself from his Netflix special Make Happy

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                                                                [–]Dash-o-Salt 87ポイント88ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                                                If this was me, I'd look at her and think a few things:

                                                                1. She's very pretty, I like her red hair.
                                                                2. She's probably already involved in a relationship, cute people usually are.
                                                                3. I feel anxiety, keep on walking.

                                                                It's not an expectations problem that's keeping me single.

                                                                [–]I_did_it_there 607ポイント608ポイント  (744子コメント)

                                                                https://twitter.com/heightismxposed

                                                                [–]HungryMoon 592ポイント593ポイント  (299子コメント)

                                                                I'm 5'2" not usually that bothered by things or people on the internet, but that hurt a little.

                                                                [–]Leporad 421ポイント422ポイント  (42子コメント)

                                                                Why do short men exist...such a waste of natural resources

                                                                Fuck.

                                                                [–]Iranoutofalts 171ポイント172ポイント  (19子コメント)

                                                                Ima be realistic and say anything under 5'11 isn't a man if you're not at LEAST 5'11 then god really hates you

                                                                Damn.

                                                                Edit:

                                                                I thought this was way worse:

                                                                If you are ugly you can get plastic surgery. if you are fat you can workout. But short guys should just kill themselves.

                                                                [–]CheshireC4t 256ポイント257ポイント  (11子コメント)

                                                                Yeah so it's hard not to get a little salty hearing about women's objectification and issues with insecurity when you grow up hearing this shit thrown around unchecked

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                                                                  [–]theseleadsalts 195ポイント196ポイント  (24子コメント)

                                                                  Look at the people tweeting that though. They're bottom barrel Kardashian wannabes. Vapid, useless people who just leech off of others their whole lives.

                                                                  [–]rodwool 60ポイント61ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                                  There is a gay guy there that says he would order a short guy a happy meal if they went for dinner. I clicked on his profile and his pinned post is "queer lives matter, appreciate queer bodies. Our imperfections are what make us beautiful" Seriously? ffs

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                                                                      [–]JonasBrosSuck 1105ポイント1106ポイント  (47子コメント)

                                                                      lmao reminds me of this legendary post https://pics.onsizzle.com/6-48-tweet-tori-when-his-height-starts-with-5-meninist-2509063.png

                                                                      [–]I_did_it_there 663ポイント664ポイント  (19子コメント)

                                                                      Aww.. poor Kristen can dish it out but not take it.

                                                                      [–]StRyder91 177ポイント178ポイント  (15子コメント)

                                                                      http://i.imgur.com/D6l8fu1.gif

                                                                      [–]jamred555 139ポイント140ポイント  (10子コメント)

                                                                      https://gfycat.com/BrutalSavageRekt

                                                                      [–]T-Fro 141ポイント142ポイント  (9子コメント)

                                                                      https://gfycat.com/NippyKindLangur

                                                                      [–]GPAThrowaway_ 82ポイント83ポイント  (8子コメント)

                                                                      What the fuck just happened

                                                                      [–]Nirogunner 76ポイント77ポイント  (1子コメント)

                                                                      Gif above you is original. Gfycat's URL:s are composed of three random words. It got so famous the guy himself repeated the moment but with those words, and Gfycat being Gfycat gave it the URL BrutalSavageRekt.

                                                                      [–]thestaredcowboy 72ポイント73ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                                      brutal savage rekt came first, and the gfycat link was NippyKindLangur, so then the dude said Nippy Kind Langur in which people made another gif. Then gfycat HQ did some meme magic and made the latter gif's url BrutalSavageRekt.

                                                                      It's all one big meme.

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                                                                            [–]WeOwnTheSkyy 285ポイント286ポイント  (79子コメント)

                                                                            I would hope most men (taller or shorter) would never want to date a woman like one of these to begin with. They are vapid, self centered women that feel its ok to tell an entire demographic to kill themselves.

                                                                            Im honestly blown away that so many women feel its ok to say this sort of shit. However maybe its a good thing they are making it public. It may help men in knowing who NOT to date.

                                                                            If i were dating a man that told me he thought all tall women (or fat women, or short women, etc.) Should kill themselves, i would nope the fuck out of that relationship.

                                                                            Most of my close female friends are dating men at or under 5'10". Same with me. Its fantastic.

                                                                            [–]I_did_it_there 83ポイント84ポイント  (50子コメント)

                                                                            Most of my close female friends are dating men at or under 5'10". Same with me. Its fantastic.

                                                                            But they are all taller than you, correct?

                                                                            [–]WeOwnTheSkyy 90ポイント91ポイント  (42子コメント)

                                                                            We are all about 5'5" actually. Maybe a little shorter or a little taller. No really tall men in the group yet. I think we all prefer a guy closer to our height.

                                                                            To be honest though none of us are dating a guy thats shorter than ourselves. Which isnt to say we would dismiss the opportunity to date someone shorter than ourselves, it just hasnt happened. I know a lot of handsome shorter dudes and they get ladies. I love hanging with them and listening to them chat about how they love to "climb trees" when it comes to taller women.

                                                                            Sadly though it does seem that the shorter dudes (like 5'4" and under) definitely need to try way harder and have to exude way more confidence than nornal...which i can imagine is tiring. Much like how it must feel for flat chested (and these days flat-assed) women.

                                                                            [–]over120kholyshit 93ポイント94ポイント  (27子コメント)

                                                                            It seems to me that the 5'10'' requirement is WAY more common (and accepted) for women than any kind of breast size requirement that men have. Only the sleaziest, most disgusting men would even talk like this, even just around other men. It's completely acceptable for women, on the other hand, to have the 5'10'' requirement though. Some dating sites even allow them to specify this.

                                                                            What is it with 5'10'' anyway? Is it a double digits thing?

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                                                                                  [–]Leporad 18ポイント19ポイント  (29子コメント)

                                                                                  I guess heightism ended in 2016 :)

                                                                                  [–]djcecil2 100ポイント101ポイント  (128子コメント)

                                                                                  Jesus, I hope these are mostly troll accounts.

                                                                                  [–]Better_Call_Sel 115ポイント116ポイント  (7子コメント)

                                                                                  Ignoring the fact Amy Schumer is in the video, this just shows the absurdity of height preference and that it exists.

                                                                                  If you watch the girl in the video, the one whose tinder profile is actually being used, you see that she lights up and starts to give a thumbs up as the guy is being described. He's a professional athlete, nice, ripped and from the profile picture, appears to be relatively good looking. As soon as it's mentioned that he is shorter than her, she completely shuts down, dismisses every other good thing that was mentioned, and the guy is rejected.

                                                                                  A ripped, professional athlete... rejected for being short.

                                                                                  [–]Guyote_ 25ポイント26ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                  Damn she didn't even hesitate. Didn't even think about it.

                                                                                  "...taller than you."

                                                                                  NOPE!

                                                                                  Swipe left immediately

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                                                                                    [–]Sixty-to-Zero 289ポイント290ポイント  (109子コメント)

                                                                                    I'm 5'8 and didn't believe "I won't date you based on your height." either.

                                                                                    Until I noticed my brother who is an attractive man have 0 luck with being noticed by girls. Like impossible. And pay attention to my word choice there. It's not keeping girls, or dating girls but just not having any first shot luck of being acknowledged.

                                                                                    He is 5'5 and he told me he's been dealing wit that a lot of his life. The fact is he is shorter than most women. Even my very loving girlfriend who is an inch taller than me said if I was any shorter she wouldn't be nearly as attracted to me. One of the only women he ever dated was shorter than him and I don't think he's had any major relationships after that.

                                                                                    Men's height is equivalent to breast size and tolerance for video games as far as importance goes between the sexes if you ask me. Some guys look great, are cool, could be the singer in a band, have money, great fashion sense but for some reason will strike out with ladies immediately as soon as he stands up and she is a head taller than him.

                                                                                    It's pretty cruel.

                                                                                    [–]lostinmalazan 216ポイント217ポイント  (18子コメント)

                                                                                    Men's height is equivalent to breast size

                                                                                    More than that. A man being tall is like a girl being pretty. It's basically a requirement.

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                                                                                        [–]houseQM 189ポイント190ポイント  (58子コメント)

                                                                                        Someone on Reddit said this concerning this subject and bought up a good point. The last acceptable prejudice is height. If you call a woman too tall or too fat, then people will come to her aid. Call out a short dude and very few people if any will stick up for him. They may even join in. I think when people see a guy getting crap for something, they're less likely to help.

                                                                                        [–]I_did_it_there 149ポイント150ポイント  (42子コメント)

                                                                                        Great way to put it.

                                                                                        I have short guy friends and they have a shitty time of things..especially with online dating.. they keep reading "NO SHORT MEN" on most women's dating profiles...and if they even mention that they get looked over because of their height people mock them or pat them on the head and say "what an angry elf" .. it's really sad and nobody sees it as wrong.

                                                                                        [–]houseQM 78ポイント79ポイント  (16子コメント)

                                                                                        Yeah. It's surprising how acceptable it still is given we've changed our views on so many other issues related to physical appearance.

                                                                                        [–]BillW87 33ポイント34ポイント  (13子コメント)

                                                                                        5'6" guy here, I wasn't having any luck on dating websites and was kind of confused because I tend to do well otherwise in the dating scene (not-terrible looking guy, socially confident, in good shape, being a veterinarian is a good conversation starter). It turns out I probably wasn't showing up on about 80% of women's searches because they have the option of filtering their searches with a minimum height. I jumped over to a dating app that doesn't let you filter by height and doesn't show my height until after they've looked at my other information (Bumble)...I have three dates scheduled in the next week now. Most online dating sites are set up such that they totally fuck over short dudes because we're not just getting passed over, we're essentially invisible. I have zero chance of winning someone over if they are given the option to click a box to make sure my profile never even shows up in the first place.

                                                                                        [–]follow585 55ポイント56ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                                        and if they even mention that they get looked over because of their height people mock them

                                                                                        happens a lot on reddit too, actually I'm surprised that the top comment of this thread isn't something to the effects of "ITT: angry short men, lol keep crying and fuck off back to r/short you pathetic little gnomes"

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                                                                                              [–]dwb122 1379ポイント1380ポイント  (182子コメント)

                                                                                              Funny thing about this is in general women are much more discriminating based on height than men are on boob size.

                                                                                              [–]whatahunkofshit 738ポイント739ポイント  (42子コメント)

                                                                                              Absolutely. Hell, I don't even know what a C cup looks like.

                                                                                              [–]greenbabyshit 604ポイント605ポイント  (28子コメント)

                                                                                              Just like a B cup... but bigger.

                                                                                              In all seriousness though, most women don't even know their true cup size. As a guy, I prefer a woman to be in proportion rather than just have big boobs.

                                                                                              [–]AATroop 405ポイント406ポイント  (15子コメント)

                                                                                              I have very peculiar tastes, I am looking to date an alive, female human.

                                                                                              [–]greenbabyshit 94ポイント95ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                                                                              I have some wiggle room on the alive thing, and maybe the human part. Female is a must though.

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                                                                                                    [–]brazil84 112ポイント113ポイント  (15子コメント)

                                                                                                    Funny thing about this is in general women are much more discriminating based on height than men are on boob size.

                                                                                                    Yeah, I think that most men don't think like the guy in the video. In terms of looks, the girl in the video is sufficiently attractive for perhaps 95% of men. To make the video more accurate, they should have made the girl like 45 years old and have the guy think "too old." Or have her be fat and have the guy think "too fat."

                                                                                                    [–]iSheepTouch 45ポイント46ポイント  (10子コメント)

                                                                                                    Men are much more discriminatory based on weight than booby size. Ironically I've found women seem to care less about weight than men.

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                                                                                                      [–]Mechbiscuit 155ポイント156ポイント  (19子コメント)

                                                                                                      Little boobs are cool.

                                                                                                      [–]obsessivesnuggler 160ポイント161ポイント  (21子コメント)

                                                                                                      Women can hide true nature of their boobs with wonder bras and push ups and air pockets and wires and what not. They can shape them and size them in many ways.

                                                                                                      If they all walked topless it would be much easier to discriminate.

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                                                                                                        [–]Zarcodine 23ポイント24ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                                        comment section on this vid is hilarious and depressing

                                                                                                        [–]ThinkingPrimate2 44ポイント45ポイント  (13子コメント)

                                                                                                        I enjoy being single. So much free time for activities!

                                                                                                        [–]Thumpasaur 227ポイント228ポイント  (50子コメント)

                                                                                                        As someone who's struggled with crippling social anxiety and has never had a significant other and is 30 years old, I've just accepted I'm better off as being single and have never been happier.

                                                                                                        [–]kcin 1985ポイント1986ポイント  (305子コメント)

                                                                                                        All those romantic movies put the wrong notions into people's heads. That there is a perfect person for you, you just need to find him/her. Maybe we should have more movies about couples who don't fancy each other too much in the beginning, but they gradually discover the beauty in the other person.

                                                                                                        [–]drewsufff 1866ポイント1867ポイント  (100子コメント)

                                                                                                        That's like over half of romantic comedies. The two main characters can't seem to get along but towards the end they somehow end up together. Who would have seen it coming?!

                                                                                                        But I know that's not what you're referring to, exactly. I think you're talking about starting at a relatively neutral point followed by a more mellow and steady process of falling in love.

                                                                                                        [–]kcin 385ポイント386ポイント  (80子コメント)

                                                                                                        And preferably with average looking people, not with beautiful movie stars who for some reason are always alone in movies. But of course people may not watch movies about average looking people falling in love.

                                                                                                        [–]DiaperPartying 946ポイント947ポイント  (28子コメント)

                                                                                                        Yes I'd love to watch some boring looking people have a boring typical relationship.

                                                                                                        Where do I get my tickets?!

                                                                                                        [–]MrJohz 97ポイント98ポイント  (23子コメント)

                                                                                                        I'd recommend watching British TV - there is a lot of stuff about relatively normal looking people doing relatively mundane things. Not a huge amount specifically about falling in love that I can think of off the top of my head, but there's plenty of romantic subplots in shows that feature really fairly average people that are engaging because of real character rather than because of beauty.

                                                                                                        There's definitely exceptions, but shows like Utopia and Happy Valley manage this really well.

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                                                                                                            [–]ToastnEggs 183ポイント184ポイント  (37子コメント)

                                                                                                            • "Life as we know it"

                                                                                                            • "The Proposal"

                                                                                                            • "10 things I hate about you"

                                                                                                            • "We're the Millers"

                                                                                                            • "The Bounty Hunter"

                                                                                                            • "The Ugly Truth"

                                                                                                            • "Enchanted"

                                                                                                            • "A walk to Remember"

                                                                                                            • "Pride and Prejudice"

                                                                                                            • "Beauty and the beast"

                                                                                                            • "Tangled"

                                                                                                            • "You've got mail"

                                                                                                            • "The cutting Edge"

                                                                                                            [–]aishadorable 197ポイント198ポイント  (36子コメント)

                                                                                                            I would also like to see a movie like that. When my boyfriend and I met I didn't think he was cute in the face at all and he was so short, and I wondered if I was going to get used to his stupid jokes. Now he's the only man in the world who's ever treated me the way I've always expected my exes too but they never did. Some people need to try and look past certain things as first and get to know someone. After I fell in love with him now I think his face is so handsome. I also know many married couples who admit that their S.O. was never their type. They just got to know them and found love.

                                                                                                            [–]buscemi100mm 209ポイント210ポイント  (22子コメント)

                                                                                                            I also know many married couples who admit that their S.O. was never their type.

                                                                                                            It's mostly women saying that about men, right?

                                                                                                            [–]8_inches_deep 215ポイント216ポイント  (13子コメント)

                                                                                                            I've only ever heard women say this.

                                                                                                            [–]NoPeopleAllowed 201ポイント202ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                                            Because if men say this they don't have the woman for much longer.

                                                                                                            [–]RedRedKrovy 32ポイント33ポイント  (9子コメント)

                                                                                                            I can't say that I was all that physically attracted to my fiancé initially. As a matter of fact I had a very beautiful woman ask me out the day after I met my fiancé but I turned her down. It was my fiancé's personality that attracted me more than her looks. Now I think she's the most beautiful woman I've ever met.

                                                                                                            Finding an attractive person isn't all that hard but finding someone you click with on a mental and emotional level can be extremely difficult. As a young man I didn't get that but at 36 it's very clear to me now.

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                                                                                                                  [–]thegoodstudyguide 23ポイント24ポイント  (17子コメント)

                                                                                                                  There was this weird reality show thing a couple of years ago (Married at First Sight) where these couples get paired together based on your standard dating app criteria and the first time they meet is on their wedding day in the first episode, then the rest of the show is about these couples trying to make a marriage work with a person they've literally just met.

                                                                                                                  Anyway one bride actually cried when she saw the groom (in a church full of their friends and family), now he wasn't a bad looking bloke but she was a solid 8/9 and he was a average 6/7, from what I can remember after the show had run its course and it played through all the standard reality show drama I believe they were the only couple that decided to stay together they stayed together as did another couple, the 3rd pair divorced.

                                                                                                                  I don't know exactly how much of the show was fake, maybe it was all heavily scripted who knows but I found it interesting nonetheless.

                                                                                                                  EDIT: Just looked it up on Wikipedia, they apparently stayed together and even announced they were having a child this year but lost it.

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                                                                                                                    [–]pkosuda 358ポイント359ポイント  (67子コメント)

                                                                                                                    Sad how true this is. Everyone is looking for the "perfect" person and puts up unreasonable expectations. Are you looking to date robots or a human being? Because if it's the latter then you should realize that no one is perfect and you'll have to accept someone's flaws eventually or you'll be alone. The fact of the matter is people are raised to wait for the "perfect girl" or for "prince charming" as if they're entitled to it, when in reality unless you're rich and look like a model, the perfect girl/prince charming would never settle for you.

                                                                                                                    I've seen so many single people comment on couples saying "woah he/she could do so much better" and "how are they together but I'm single". Maybe the person you laugh at with physical flaws is a better person than you. This is why many dating apps are seen as a joke. It's 6/10's only looking for 10/10's and then being mad they get played by the 10/10 who knows they can do better than a 6 and only look for a hook up from them. Some of the best conversations and connections I've had were with "average" girls.

                                                                                                                    [–]ruinersclub 159ポイント160ポイント  (31子コメント)

                                                                                                                    On the opposite end of the spectrum I have a friend who found her Prince Charming, he's a handsome guy, but he's dim witted as fuck, doesn't have a career path, and doesn't know how to hold a conversation like I would never invite them over because they're dull as fuck. So at this point you're just with him because he looks good? You could see why these relationships don't last.

                                                                                                                    [–]5adie5axton 118ポイント119ポイント  (11子コメント)

                                                                                                                    Meh, the relationship might last, but they'll feel really dumb one day when they realize their super hot spouse now looks just like every other fucking old person and their life is insufferably boring.

                                                                                                                    [–]not_charles_grodin 116ポイント117ポイント  (10子コメント)

                                                                                                                    looks just like every other fucking old person and their life is insufferably boring.

                                                                                                                    But it's that life in general? That's what throws me about finding Ms. Right/Mr. Right -- you just need to find someone who you don't mind shagging and get along with. Fire burns out relatively quickly, no matter how much you try to keep is going. What lasts is the friendship and teamwork.

                                                                                                                    Find someone with whom you can fucking deal with every god damn day and still want to get off with fairly regularly. Try to be as fit as them and have overlapping interests. It's not fucking rocket science: try to be the better version of you most of the time and hope they do the same. Sometimes you'll succeed, sometimes you'll fail, but you'll do that shit together. That's all a fucking relationship is. The rest is just Hollywood bullshit to make single people think life is harder than it is.

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                                                                                                                        [–]hyucc 65ポイント66ポイント  (10子コメント)

                                                                                                                        My only requirement is they have to be a women, but I'm getting a bit lenient about that these days.

                                                                                                                        [–]playwithmyzippo 32ポイント33ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                                                                                                        I thought I was the only one. After 3 years of being desperately single I'm starting to think "He's cute, if he had the same interests as me I might be inclined to.... Wait I thought we were straight?"

                                                                                                                        [–]commiecomrade 37ポイント38ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                                                                                        "If gay dudes could deal with a straight relationship decades ago to not be found out then maybe I can pull it off the other way around"

                                                                                                                        I regret to say I've thought this before.

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                                                                                                                            [–]BenjaminTalam 80ポイント81ポイント  (9子コメント)

                                                                                                                            It used to be that simply devoting time to each other and getting along well was enough for two people to be satisfied with each other.

                                                                                                                            Now you're constantly being judged against a million other potential partners who are blowing up their phone 24/7. You're doing the same thing even if you don't realize it. Every time you get bored and open up Tinder or some other app and start scrolling through people to kill time. It's a sickness.

                                                                                                                            Life is so much better when you don't interact with people online too much and keep texting with a partner to a minimum. Face to face interaction with no distractions. Meeting someone in real life and asking them out is so much more satisfying than matching on Tinder.

                                                                                                                            Currently seeing someone I came across on a dating site but already had met in real life before. It's better than any of my online relationships. When the first time you ever see someone is after basically deciding to have sex with each other after flirting on tinder it just doesn't compare to the feeling of getting butterflies around someone and having that develop into more.

                                                                                                                            [–]Returnofthemack3 588ポイント589ポイント  (119子コメント)

                                                                                                                            I get where they're going with this, but a lot of men would not reject a girl over tit size, especially not if she's attractive and fairly cool. It's far more common in my experience for women to reject men for ridiculous criteria like height. This paints a picture where both sexes judge the same, and it always seems to me that women are the more discerning over 'superficial' attributes. And i'm not even getting into how many women reject a man on the basis of his status and income lol.

                                                                                                                            [–]computerguy0-0 327ポイント328ポイント  (85子コメント)

                                                                                                                            Based on some data from OKCupid, you are correct.

                                                                                                                            https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/

                                                                                                                            I have thought this for years and that blog post confirmed it.

                                                                                                                            My criteria? Don't be a religious nut, don't be overweight, don't have any drug/smoking habits. That's literally it. Then it comes down to their personality being a good match for mine.

                                                                                                                            But it's ridiculously hard to even get to the first date. Because I have something, not sure, something that turns girls off.

                                                                                                                            I have posted to multiple sub reddits with throw aways and had people critique my profiles from all over the world.

                                                                                                                            Everyone said my pictures were great and my profiles were well written. The conversations I did get started were just fine. My openers were original. The major critique was I need to gain some weight and hit the Gym. That was fair. So I did join a Gym 3 months ago and am starting to see some great progress.

                                                                                                                            Fuck, even this time around, OKC said I was among their highest rated male users.

                                                                                                                            God, is it fucking exhausting. I'm not even sure I want it anymore.

                                                                                                                            [–]Returnofthemack3 235ポイント236ポイント  (38子コメント)

                                                                                                                            unless you're super attractive and/or high status, online dating is a total shit show for men honestly. I don't even bother with it. You'll see more success improving yourself and meeting women irl. But yeah, the dating game sucks and I partially blame online dating as a major factor. Even below average women get swamped with messages of interest on those sites; it's like a literal buffet of cocks and they have all the power.

                                                                                                                            [–]computerguy0-0 72ポイント73ポイント  (20子コメント)

                                                                                                                            buffet of cocks

                                                                                                                            Ahaha, I'm going to use this.

                                                                                                                            Yup, I really need to find a real place where more single mid 20's-30's females exist. I don't run into any at the dozens of companies I work at or any other time during my daily life. I need to make a change to the places I physically am, just not sure what/where yet.

                                                                                                                            [–]kharper4289 40ポイント41ポイント  (5子コメント)

                                                                                                                            My living room is a terrible place to pick up women - This is anecdotal of course, but I'm almost sure of it at this point.

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                                                                                                                                    [–]Fugggu 434ポイント435ポイント  (69子コメント)

                                                                                                                                    The funny thing is that there are some guys that like small boobs. Some guys prefer big boobs. Some guys like short girls, others prefer tall girls. Some guys say skinny girls are cute, others want girls with curves or even chubby girls.

                                                                                                                                    But I have NEVER EVER heard a girl saying: "I like short guys".

                                                                                                                                    For me the discussion on which gender is superficial is clear with this little example.

                                                                                                                                    [–]samsonkeane[🍰] 132ポイント133ポイント  (12子コメント)

                                                                                                                                    Thats true in general. Look at the male characters in romance novels, and compare that to the massive variety of body types that are offered for men on porn sites. For all the talk about women being culturally pressured to have a certain body type, it appears it is the male body that has much less wiggle room for what is considered attractive.

                                                                                                                                    Heck the only people you'll find who are sexually attracted to a wide variety of male body types are gay men.

                                                                                                                                    [–]helisexual 61ポイント62ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                                                                                    Heck the only people you'll find who are sexually attracted to a wide variety of male body types are gay men.

                                                                                                                                    I forget where on reddit I read this, but this guy was super insecure about his weight and this guy replied and was just really supportive and was like, "Remember, no matter how bad you feel there are literally bars where men go to meet guys with your exact body type because they're that into men who look like you," and I was like, "Aww that's sweet." Then I remembered there are no bars like that for straight guys.

                                                                                                                                    [–]pcultimate 21ポイント22ポイント  (2子コメント)

                                                                                                                                    It's actually funny because I'm bi and I've had various discussions with women I've been with about preference for guys. When i tell them I don't really care about height, if the rest of the guy is awesome (esp. personality), they look at me like I'm insane.

                                                                                                                                    The shit I've heard man... One ex told me she rejected a guy because of his hands... Over half of the women I've been with have been openly disgusted at guys under 6'... In fact, a lot of them have noted me as so low they're practically "settling" for height, but the rest of me compensates for it... I'm 6'1... Like, wtf I seriously don't get it. Ok, some of them were quite tall. If you're a 6'chick, sure but some of them were like 5'2... And they are so adamant about it. Like, one ex rejected a guy who was frankly incredible... like he was one in a million attractive and was a cool guy... and she rejected him because he is 1 inch under her limit... 1 inch!!!

                                                                                                                                    I'm at a loss... I'll never get this.

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                                                                                                                                      [–]flyingviolin 144ポイント145ポイント  (23子コメント)

                                                                                                                                      I like short guys! My dad is shorter than my mom so always seemed normal to me.

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                                                                                                                                        [–]FuckUandthatFatBitch 81ポイント82ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                                                                                                        And that is why they invented alcohol.

                                                                                                                                        [–]Comille 26ポイント27ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                                                                        "The beating of my heart" by Charlie and the jives and the lyrics

                                                                                                                                        [–]weltallic 46ポイント47ポイント  (15子コメント)

                                                                                                                                        Obligatory:

                                                                                                                                        http://i.imgur.com/TYAb3Pf.jpg

                                                                                                                                        [–]PenIslandTours1 12ポイント13ポイント  (4子コメント)

                                                                                                                                        37 here and never had a girlfriend. What's the world record?

                                                                                                                                        [–]Ihavetheinternets 2014ポイント2015ポイント  (327子コメント)

                                                                                                                                        The reality is that the guy wouldn't give 2 shits about the breast size.

                                                                                                                                        The other reality is that girl could find her "ideal" boyfriend pretty easily where that guy is fucked lmao.

                                                                                                                                        [–]Returnofthemack3 1069ポイント1070ポイント  (113子コメント)

                                                                                                                                        lol right? It'd be easier to stomach if the guy was some attractive high powered executive, but him? Some average unfit looking motherfucker? Unless he's absolutely insane he's probably not rejecting girls because their tits are a tad too small rofl. This is not reflective of any reality i've inhabited

                                                                                                                                        [–]CuddlesMcHuggy 237ポイント238ポイント  (8子コメント)

                                                                                                                                        "C-cup minimum" is the kind excuse a guy makes when he knows/thinks he has no chance. I've heard it, from douchebags.

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                                                                                                                                          [–]Neveri 85ポイント86ポイント  (15子コメント)

                                                                                                                                          Yeah pretty much, I get about one match every 50 right swipes, and that's actually reading profiles, left swiping on anything that seems fake, or girls that are definitely out of my league.

                                                                                                                                          I watched one of my friends who's a girl swipe right on 5 guys and get 5 matches, and she's not even what most would consider a super attractive girl or anything.

                                                                                                                                          [–]kharper4289 23ポイント24ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                                                                          Women have such a huge back-log of right-swipers that they need to go through 30-40 just to get to fresh material (people that haven't seen their profile yet and swiped right already).

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                                                                                                                                            [–]warpedchi 437ポイント438ポイント  (75子コメント)

                                                                                                                                            Thank you. You see this so much on reddit. "Women don't like short guys the same way guys don't like girls with small breasts." Yeah, sure, those two demographics are totally in the same ballpark population wise.

                                                                                                                                            [–]adtrinis 26ポイント27ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                                                                                                            There are a lot more women with height requirements than men with breast requirements I think.

                                                                                                                                            [–]BigShooterGaming 22ポイント23ポイント  (3子コメント)

                                                                                                                                            98% of women won't date a 5'2" man. With every inch, you gain about 5% of the dating pool. That's legit the main driving force of dating for women. Go look outside, you'll see fugly ass dudes with hot short women literally because they are a foot taller. It's weird.

                                                                                                                                            [–]Snailic 169ポイント170ポイント  (9子コメント)

                                                                                                                                            guys don't like girls with small breasts.

                                                                                                                                            notme_irl

                                                                                                                                            [–]airstate 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                                                                            There's literally a subreddit for guys who like small tits. It's not really the same thing as being short.

                                                                                                                                            [–]PacoTaco321 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                                                                            "Women don't like short guys the same way guys don't like girls with small breasts."

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                                                                                                                                              [–]PM_ME_UR_LIPZ 88ポイント89ポイント  (0子コメント)

                                                                                                                                              Or not fucked...

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