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Its been years since Ive gone MGTOW but looking back I see that a majority of my friends went away too. We just diverged too much. I’d try to wake them up but only come off looking like a fringe lunatic who ‘hated women’ etc.
I didn’t lose a single one. In fact they make a joke that
“I have a bad picker” because I keep picking losers.So they pushed me to redpill when I was resisting them.
My kids get all over my ass when I just look at a girl and my eldest daughter has promised to shoot me If I even think of getting married again.
Basicly I got so fucked over in two marriages my real friends and family think I should finish out my days solo. Of course, I have my kids and I could see where a young man with no kids would get a lot of pressure that I am not going to have to endure.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
The red pill and MGTOW can not be taught/ forced into a mind, in essence to go one’s own way it is a decision and conclusion they must make themselves. I do not think going your own way calls for waking up others in the slightest. Let them ask for opinions and beliefs on their own, but be careful on how you word it. Blue pill programming loves to misconstrue. Going your own way means it is your way and yours alone, do not make it your life’s mission to convert others to your cause/beliefs that’s what feminist do and is counter productive to a man going his own way. I have not lost friends over going my way, how ever I do not project my beliefs and opinions of such upon them every chance I get. If they ask, which never really happens, I tell but make no mention of MGTOW or red pill itself. When they tell me I ought to have a girl friend or abide some other blue pill action or belief, I tell them no thanks that does not work for me and I do not believe in such. I present my beliefs as my own which they are, not as a philosophy that must be preached to all who hear, again that’s what feminists do. MGTOW can not be a preach able philosophy, there is no definition of MGTOW for any of us to meet or it would not be men going their own way. Each is different, to say one must hold to certain pattern to be a MGTOW is bullshit.
My friends accept me for who I am and do not judge me for my beliefs and opinions that differ from theirs on the whole. Red or blue or what ever when you try to wake up any one to your cause you only end up pushing most away. I find people to be resistant to many outside ideas unless they believe they came to the conclusion themselves.
Honestly some posts I have seen from you in the past sure sounded hateful to me and if that’s how you are/have been talking to people you try to wake up no wonder you have lost friends.
"We will meet in the place where there is no darkness" 1984
Basicly I got so fucked over in two marriages my real friends and family think I should finish out my days solo
Wow.
How many lost friends by going mgtow/redpill?
If you lose them, they aren’t “friends”, and never were. I have never really radically “changed” for my friends to suddenly begin re-evaluating me…. but I did intentionally and permanently carve at least 2 out of my life (in the last couple of years) since I couldn’t stand to be around them anymore. And I un-friended a bunch from social media. years ago. Great call.
If you try to push a man around enough.... eventually, *around* becomes *away*.I lost practically all of my ‘close’ friends but not because of my Red pill itself but because of who they chose to associate with. Lets say that relatively recently they brought in an other guy into the circle, someone who they thought was cool but had a severe class of personality with me due to his far left politics. Things escalated resulting in him openly threatening me in front of them.
Lets say that they remained ‘neutral’ in a way that took his side.
I gave them a way out to realize how much they fucked up but they didn’t take it and I disassociated myself from them because of this.
I do not tolerate threats from even the spineless coward that I know the fucker to be, they chose poorly in who they associate with so I chose to stop associating with them in return.
The betrayal from their part hurt the most but I cannot consider someone a friend if they do not back me up when shit like this is openly on the table.
I don’t think I’ve lost any friends from going MGTOW…but I’ve lost two to the power of pussy over the years. One got married and had kids and just dropped off the face of the earth. There wasn’t any hard feelings anywhere…he just changed a lot once he got his first gf, which is the one he ended up marrying, and we just kinda hung out less as his life revolved around her to the point where I haven’t even talked to him in years. If I ran into somewhere I’d be happy to shoot the shit with him for a bit but I’d never try to be a close friend like we were again.
The other was just because of some whore that liked me. The girl was just bad news. I went out with her a few times…she was just a slut who was into drugs and who after just a few dates I had already caught in several lies, so even then when I was more interested in a gf I knew being single was better than her. After she realized I wasn’t interested she chased after my friend. I warned him about her, and let him know if he just wants to use her for some pussy I’ve got no problem with it, just don’t get too caught up in her shit. She fed him a bunch of lies about me though, and blue pillers are always going to believe the woman who just got done sucking their dick over their buddies…so needless to say that friendship ended. It was kinda funny though, because he kept acting like a total tough guy around me trying to start shit, which was comical because he was just some whores second choice, and in the end our whole mutual circle of friends ended up having nothing to do with him anymore. His little sweetie ended up cheating on him within 3 months(probably sooner just took him that long to catch on)…wonder if a few months of some rotten pussy was worth losing a few good friends over lol.
One, but as Key said, he wasn’t actually a friend to begin with.
When people look inside my memes- I'm not dashing.
MGTOW can not be a preach able philosophy, there is no definition of MGTOW for any of us to meet or it would not be men going their own way. Each is different, to say one must hold to certain pattern to be a MGTOW is bullshit.
double plus good brother.
I am so ‘my own way’ that I ghost for months at a time. Once in Oaxaca I did not speak to another human being other than saying “how much?” and “thank you” to a night clerk for 3 months. What are these ‘friends’ you speak of? But no I have several in certain U.S. and European cities. I never utter MGTOW unless it comes up which I suspect it will ever the more what with how bad things are getting out there. Hold fast brothers there is always the next generation these damn fool feminists can’t last much longer.
None for me. They go their own way, and I go mine. Zero fucks to give let them learn the hard way as I did.
I’m not the one who will be getting strip mined in a divorce rape.
The rule of law is dead. Therefore, I am no longer bound to follow the law of man.
None. Then again, I don’t have or need a lot of friends. Most people suck so I go my own way.
lost all friends, and much family
lost kids
lost it all
but found myself.I can’t form friendships at work I can’t relate to them, and they can’t relate to me.
everyone is married with kids deep into mortgage and debt
aww how cute yer husband brought yer baby to work. Oh yer boyfriend took you to dinner, how nice for you.The divorce washed me clean of all that American dream bullshit, now I just want to survive for a little while longer.
I haven’t lost any friends due to MGTOW or the Red Pill.
I’ve had friends choose a different path and I’ve had friends whose path was chosen for them, but I didn’t lose them.
They lost themselves.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. And, above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
I don’t know if I’ve lost friends or not as I have just quietly gone away. I am surprised sometimes when my sister tells me that someone says hi .. someone i vaguely remember from many years ago. Other than my closest neighbors, who are mainly Amish, I guess they’re still out there but since I never frequent any local watering holes where they’d be .. I’ll never know. A couple of times over the past summer cars speeding by and passing have honked hello as i cross to get to my mail box or cycle various places .. I didn’t see the drivers so I guess there will always be some old friends out there who aparently still recognize me.
Naaa. I think I was put on the red pill path after reading The truth be told by Peter Andrew.
The guy may not be a mgtow, or care enough to bother looking to what mgtow means. But his books has been spot on.
http://www.mensbusinessassociation.com/Portals/22/The%20TRUTH%20Be%20Told%20V0.02.pdf
Here is another good book. The-Most-Dangerous-Superstition-by-Larken-Rose: https://www.amazon.com/Most-Dangerous-Superstition-Larken-Rose/dp/145075063X
I have the pdf, but I don’t have the source for that book anymore.
Although. Peter when I talked to him, bugged me that I didn’t donate anything to him. At the time, I wasn’t able to get a visa card, nor did I have a email account until I finished school. Now I can, and will when a reload the card. And honestly, I just forget to pay for the book. It’s been a while, and I have a lot on my plate. And peter is hard to get a hold of when he his changing his location on his main site a lot.
Actions have consequences and consequences have prices. Cause and effect at work.
I never gained or lost a lot of friends. I started out in life with a few friends maybe, and right now the number has stayed the same. I think it’s two right now.
Actions have consequences and consequences have prices. Cause and effect at work.
I lost most 90% of my siblings. I lost my Dad. As for friends; I only have a few and lost none.
When I think about it I was always Going My Own Way in life so it was not a hard transition to take the redpill.
I don’t think I lost any friends.
But now I do things that interest me.
I actually don’t even think about trying to make new friends. I just spend time with people who have common interests.
I didn’t lose a single one. In fact they make a joke that
“I have a bad picker” because I keep picking losers.Same same. No one bothers me any more about being single. They are all, “Yeah, based on your history, you should stay single.” It’s so easy now.
"Freedom from, becomes freedom to." -Paul Proteus
MGTOW can not be a preach able philosophy, there is no definition of MGTOW for any of us to meet or it would not be men going their own way. Each is different, to say one must hold to certain pattern to be a MGTOW is bullshit.
double plus good brother.
I am so ‘my own way’ that I ghost for months at a time. Once in Oaxaca I did not speak to another human being other than saying “how much?” and “thank you” to a night clerk for 3 months. What are these ‘friends’ you speak of? But no I have several in certain U.S. and European cities. I never utter MGTOW unless it comes up which I suspect it will ever the more what with how bad things are getting out there. Hold fast brothers there is always the next generation these damn fool feminists can’t last much longer.
I would be very leery of someone bring up MGTOW in conversation outside the fourm. Considering aside my father all others I know are blue. Even if it is just general curiosity, “Hey Soylent, have you heard of this group of men called MGTOW?” I would obviously say no that I havent and take a good listen to this persons likley blue pill mainstream perception of it. To say yes and even going as far as to admitting to being part of it could cause many problems. That is were I perfer to take a stealth approach and slink on my way avoiding unessicary havok. Especialy in the work place, in that case it is likley a trap.
Awesome about going how your way is taking you, personaly I am not looking to ghost anytime soon, as my line of work is social and for the most part I am as well, have a good group of friends I like to hang with. Although I do see ghosting as being a possible pinnacle of a MGTOW way of life as I see it. Myself ghosting is many years away from now as far as I can tell.
"We will meet in the place where there is no darkness" 1984
I had a little group of friends in middle high school in fact both of my life long friends and me started a band It lasted 5 years . But this one guy in my little circle always made fun and the thing even when we had gettogethers I had to arrange the get togethers I mean 99% I called them .so I left them when I moved said fuck them been five years ago . I have no friends but that’s okay at least I have what’s left of my family .
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