Burnout? – Why WE quit – There is only so much woman bullshit a man can take

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    Gargamel
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    On “Burnout Syndrome” or:

    Why we men leave “the plantation” – There is only so much woman bullshit a man can take

    However you look at it. Feminism or not…

    Any man has a “maximum exposure limit” to woman bullshit that he can swallow before burning out.

    In earlier days, men also had the constant nagging, swearing and bitching from the females around them.

    And that takes it’s toll an any man’s mental and physical health.

    Back in the 70’s and 80’s there was the trend developing, when men would stay at work longer than needed just to escape their wives at home.

    The term “Workaholic” was born and became fashionable.

    Since women moved into the workplace, they are now everywhere. Men can no longer avoid them.

    The average man now has to walk on eggshells 24/7 and is also bullied around the clock, just like his “mama” is watching him like a surveillance helicopter.

    There is just no way to escape the hamster wheels anymore. And men have to put up with their illogical ways of arguing and poisoning friendships.

    Back then, a “workaholic” would at least get same kind of appreciation and respect out of his work. Because women don’t give any respect or valuation anyway. To her, the man only has to function like a radio. He’s just a money making robot. (Shut up, eat, work and gimme all your money)

    But “at work”, men used to get some feeling of being needed. Some feeling of success and accomplishment that every man needs to keep up his motivation.

    But since the Mid-1980’s, women with their smartness of “knowing everything better than we do” have also poisoned the workplace.
    Women don’t work together with you. Just like at home where to bully you into quitting all of your hobbies, they just want to push you out.

    And they were good at this. By infiltrating the workplace, they have taken the man’s fun out of working as well. Now the stupid nagging and over-complicating of every little thing is also all over the workforce.

    So what does a man do now?

    He has to work for a living. Or go hungry and die…

    But his mind needs “time off” from woman bullshit. Women’s recklessness, selfishness, self-centeredness and general low respect for male colleagues is spoiling the fun and motivation of men in the work environment. And I saw that wherever I went…

    So the only way to have some free time from bitching, yelling and blame shaming is to stay alone in his private life.

    Men coming home from work had enough of women’s needs and women’s unpeaceful nature, that they are just glad to have a safe space.

    My “safe space” from women was my private life.

    I had to deal with them at work, and this sometimes took more energy out of me than the work itself. And mounting antennas on rooftops is hard work.

    Everyday, when I got home, I said to myself: Oh, my god, so glad that this place is woman free, and it will always stay this way…

    Always!

    If I had had more bitching and demands put on my after 8 to 12 hours of walking on eggshells…

    I would have snapped.

    And so I had to stay woman free to keep me from snapping. And it was mandatory for retaining my sanity.

    Actually, any psychiatrist will confirm that it is us men that really need “safe spaces”.

    Women cling to their hive anyway and their social circle is more important than their relatives.

    But in earlier days, men had their “safe space” at work, now he has to build his “safety zone” at home.

    For “empowered” bitches, the game is up. They took over the workplace, “burning us out”.

    And now they have to live alone because no man can put up with woman bullshit around the clock for long. Only cats can take so much shit.

    Of course, men can get lonely. But what is better? Being a little lonely every once in a while or getting driven into suicide by a nagging wife and nagging female workmates or customers…

    Loneliness?

    It’s woman “bullshit lingo“ to get us back to slavery. A man having 6-figures all for himself can start unimaginable things with it. Women don’t comprehend that, because they have no creative interests themselves anyway.

    Being successful in your job can result in having so many people “on your trail” everyday, that you are glad for every second of silence in your free time. And women don’t give you that time of day. They ruin you with their “pain in the ass” character.

    Ever growing is the rate in which men become unable to work due to “burnout syndrome”.

    Nobody ever dares to mention the “woman factor” in this problem.

    I have experienced it myself, that “she” thinks that when you come home after 12 hours of professional “combat”, your are still fresh out of the box to “take all of her shit”.

    Why is it that the pressure in the workplace has gone up so dramatically?

    In my opinion, this is because so many women are in the workforce.

    They lean back and let men handle their “heavy work”, so men burn out faster.
    Then they blame everything that went wrong on men’s mistakes.
    (That is why women sometimes fail so badly when they are on their own and have no man to blame)

    Or they put the same stress on men in the workforce than they put on him at home.

    Maybe employers should read this here…

    It seems that I am the first human being that dares to put up a reason for the problem of “burnout syndrome”.

    Because all official sources only talk about the problem and that it exists. Nobody dares to say why.

    Speak out.

    MGTOW is life management at it’s best.

    It is the way to stay out of burnout and suicide.

    Everything else is misinformation and P.C. brainwashing bullshit.

    Women are the cause of “burnout” and erasing them from your private life does half the trick.

    And that again confirms another societal development: Men are leaving the workforce as well: Reducing their income to what is needed to survive…

    … and go fishing…

    Because you only live once, and definitely not for “somebody else’s spoiled daughter”, which invariably all women are…
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    USA Today article: Burnout up among employees

    http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2012/10/23/stress-burnout-employees/1651897/
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    Ten Occupations with High Burnout Rates

    http://stress.lovetoknow.com/Which_Professionals_are_Prone_to_Burnout
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    Burnout rate physicians and doctors:

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dike-drummond/physician-burnout-rates-top-50-percent-and-thats-not-the-worst-finding_b_8795006.html

    :::::: Living with a woman is like a dead GPS in the desert – and you have no map, clock, compass and no water on you ::::::
    #325592
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    Prefer Peace to Piece
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    MGTOW is life management at it’s best.

    Gargamel,

    Great post. Burnout is real.
    Men used to stay at work to avoid all of the nagging and complaining dumped on them by their Western bitchy women. Unfortunately, women invaded the workplace. And women grew even more shrew-like.

    Now with MGTOW, men can achieve peace and tranquility at home. No longer do we have to endure the aggravation.

    I have a doc friend who resigned from the hospital, gave up his practice, walked away from his abomination of a marriage and got a job working on sailboats. The guy has never been happier. MGTOW works and it is indeed life management at it’s best.

    #325598
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    Gargamel
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    I have a doc friend who resigned from the hospital, gave up his practice, walked away from his abomination of a marriage and got a job working on sailboats. The guy has never been happier. MGTOW works and it is indeed life management at it’s best.

    Yes but that is so sad. We need qualified people and doctors to save our lives.

    But here goes one more. Even if I would miraculously recover from my poisoning, I would never go “back to the machine”. Nagging and picking women customers were giving me the sendoff, but now they run after me and ask when I will come back. Because they have no replacement. No real high-tech guy will put up with their shit. I was the last one with real “electronics knowledge” that was able do plan and mount satellite and cable TV systems that worked perfectly and reliably. I would do smart work as well as crawling though the dirt…

    Soldering Micro SMD chips with bare hands as well as pounding in grounding rods and digging in cables in customer’s gardens. No work was “too dirty” for me.

    I would do everything as best as I can, that’s why I got almost every job. And the economic downturn was almost non-existent for me…

    But women were picking on “my bachelor person”, not estimating or valuing the high quality and reliability of my work. I stayed profitable even in the last business year with 6 months bed time…

    I was one of the last professionals in my field. But I’m gone. Even without my poisoning problem, I was planning to give up my 6-figure company just to get rid of woman bullshit.

    :::::: Living with a woman is like a dead GPS in the desert – and you have no map, clock, compass and no water on you ::::::
    #325610
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    Gargamel
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    1671

    One more thing on “Burnout Syndrome”:

    It is not the high job requirements or demands that burn people out: I had a job that was going round like a carousel, sometimes 80 phone calls within 4 hours…

    That didn’t burn me out. The biggest turn off was entitled women, bitching because “you don’t drop what you are doing” and RUNNING OFF to take care of their problem the second they call you.

    Reality: I didn’t have a mobile phone in these 18 years. That is why I was profitable. Because the job gets done not by talking but by focusing on your work. And if that piece of shit rings every 5 minutes, you get nothing done.

    And women would nag, because I don’t make myself available 24/7 via phone. I said, call “nobody” next time because I’m out…

    Getting calls at 3 am in the morning for a “fallen off antenna plug” or “empty remote batteries” was not in my personal job definition. But women wanted that. And nagged. And I gave them the sendoff.

    The story goes deeper, than I can describe here. But now they have to call careless and mostly less qualified repairmen that have no brains and work “one armed” with the smartphone in the other hand.

    That is why women are so nice to me since I “shit before their suitcase” (German saying: Take a shit in front of them, take your suitcase and leave in disgust).

    Enjoy your smartphone and your cats. Hope your smartphone gets the job done…

    :::::: Living with a woman is like a dead GPS in the desert – and you have no map, clock, compass and no water on you ::::::
    #325624
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    Gargamel
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    And women grew even more shrew-like.

    And Land Whales became

    ELEPHANT SHREWS!

    :::::: Living with a woman is like a dead GPS in the desert – and you have no map, clock, compass and no water on you ::::::
    #325625
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    Redpillbible
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    And women grew even more shrew-like.

    And Land Whales became

    ELEPHANT SHREWS!

    LOL

    He Is The One "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.(John 14:6)

    #325671
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    Old Sage
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    I am long past the point of burnout with them. For me the worst of it is there voices.I find them intolarble.

    "Your lack of empathy has rubbed off on me" Some one on here

    #325703
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    ChauvinistPig
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    My worst days come from dealing with cunts too. I normally eschew my clonazepam, but these cunts are such petty bitches. I cannot manhandle them due to having to be professional so I internalize it. I could make a graph of the data cunt exposure versus pills, and it would be a perfect fit.

    As far as dating goes, burnout is a perfect description. Burned out from being a wallet or just being used to make some random Chad jealous. Chads are prone to jealousy by the way. Women control them with it.

    The worst was when I was younger. The cunts would use the fact that their parents liked and trusted me so they would allow them to go out with me. Sure as shit, some Chad she knew would just happen to show up where we were. Off she went with Chad.

    Thanks to red pill, I know these were not random accidents. One friend still rags me about one incident 30 years ago.

    The rule of law is dead. Therefore, I am no longer bound to follow the law of man.

    #325708
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    Gargamel
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    I am long past the point of burnout with them. For me the worst of it is there voices.I find them intolarble.

    Yes I forgot that. You are a man that plays music. And your hearing is tuned to harmonic sounds.

    And you have a feeling for rhythms:

    And women’s voices have the harmonic structure of a warning siren, a dying electric motor or something going badly wrong.

    If you like 1970’s music, it is absolutely clear that women’s voices will hurt your ear.

    :::::: Living with a woman is like a dead GPS in the desert – and you have no map, clock, compass and no water on you ::::::
    #325715
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    Gargamel
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    The worst was when I was younger. The cunts would use the fact that their parents liked and trusted me so they would allow them to go out with me. Sure as shit, some Chad she knew would just happen to show up where we were. Off she went with Chad.

    You just “triggered” another story: My customers would often say: “You would make the perfect husband for our daughter…”

    And I always replied:

    “I guess not, because women need losers and take losers. They say that they are looking for a good man just to please what society expects of them, then they do everything to get rid of that good man… just to be able to say that “there are no good men”. So that in the end, she has a reason to go out and get married to an asshole. Because only assholes turn them on hormonally”

    Some customers replied, mostly taking a deep breath about so much truth:

    ”You just told me what I needed to know, Thank you, we now know why our daughter always brings (or takes) home these awful men”

    I said: “And there would be no way of getting her to fall in love with someone like me.”

    I always had to be careful and respectful about what I say, that is why I always took the blame on my side like “I’m not good enough for you (or her) anyway”…

    Depending on the setting and the coolness of the customer, I would replace the word “asshole” with something more shallow and non-offensive like “bigmouth” or “welfare king” or “testosterone monster”…

    If a woman wants a good man, she would get one. Any women saying this “there are no good men” bullshit probably has dumped 10 good men before she even gets to say that.

    :::::: Living with a woman is like a dead GPS in the desert – and you have no map, clock, compass and no water on you ::::::
    #325721
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    Gargamel
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    1671

    The worst was when I was younger. The cunts would use the fact that their parents liked and trusted me so they would allow them to go out with me. Sure as shit, some Chad she knew would just happen to show up where we were. Off she went with Chad.

    And my advice to any man or boy experiencing this is to call up the parents and tell them that their daughter left your “area of influence” in an intact way and the place where and why and with whom she took off.

    Anyway, even without reporting her to her parents:

    Make sure you have real, stable and loyal witnesses, for the place and the time of her leaving you. So if something happens to her after she leaves, the police don’t come and grab you…

    And by the way CPig, borderlines do that. Your story reminds me of my sister. Your guardian angel did well for you by making her take off with Chad.

    You don’t “end a relationship” with a borderline, you survive one!

    :::::: Living with a woman is like a dead GPS in the desert – and you have no map, clock, compass and no water on you ::::::
    #325725
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    You Want What?
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    465

    You triggered a memory for me in this thread about this girl I used to take out to clubs, when I could still stand clubs and those who inhabit them, only to have her disappear with one completely undesirable or other. The second time, I got in my car and left her there. Guess who got the blame? Never again. Better yet, None for me.

    #325727
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    Gargamel
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    Never again. Better yet, None for me.

    Women do not only burnout people on the job, they also burn out men who would normally have the will, the money and the cultural status to take them out on dates.

    At the end of the day, a man buys himself new fishing equipment instead…

    :::::: Living with a woman is like a dead GPS in the desert – and you have no map, clock, compass and no water on you ::::::
    #325730
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    narwhal
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    I’m going to tie Trump recent video into this as well. Besides all the damage to Trump, what I’m hearing most about this is the expectation that ‘locker room talk’ like this needs to be policed. We’re told that if we hear another man talk about women in a sexual way, or talk about a sexual abuse act, we are suppose to intervene. The theory is that if they talk about it, then they’re willing to do it.

    So besides freedom of speech considerations, this is really just saying “When a woman can’t be present to enforce behavior, we want our mangina spies to enforce it for us.”. Hell no.

    So as pointed out, we burnout because there is no escape. We leave it all for a job where we can get a way from it all…at any costs.

    Back to the original point, women are not the only cause of burnout. For many jobs, commutes are longer, creating a lot of frustration. I have an hour long commute personally, but I carpool with another guy most days, which helps tremendously. Besides that, I come home to a stress free house where a dog is waiting to show me how much he missed me while I was gone.

    Actions have consequences

    #325731
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    Gargamel
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    I could make a graph of the data cunt exposure versus pills, and it would be a perfect fit.

    Wow, so much truth in your words.

    Many times I would even tell nagging customers that “before I start taking psycho pills I will shut this place down”. All of these women knew that it has become hard to replace me and so they shut up.

    But I wanted out of my 6-figure job. “Good men” say goodbye to these cunts, forever.

    …gone fishing

    Or in my case: Spending the money for “2 kids and a wife” on music albums and stereo equipment instead…

    :::::: Living with a woman is like a dead GPS in the desert – and you have no map, clock, compass and no water on you ::::::
    #325735
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    Gargamel
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    1671

    Back to the original point, women are not the only cause of burnout. For many jobs, commutes are longer, creating a lot of frustration. I have an hour long commute personally, but I carpool with another guy most days, which helps tremendously.

    Most men need to commute to get to their job that pays more, for the wife to spend more…

    “If you don’t take the job in (200 km distance) then I’m gonna leave you”
    “Then you are a pathetic loser”

    Sound familiar?

    :::::: Living with a woman is like a dead GPS in the desert – and you have no map, clock, compass and no water on you ::::::
    #325740
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    Gargamel
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    So as pointed out, we burnout because there is no escape. We leave it all for a job where we can get a way from it all…at any costs.

    It is time for employers to read this and react.

    I was an employer myself and whenever my employee’s bitch at home “fired him up” and threw shit against me, I could not make money with him.

    Until there was a point in 2007, when I finally had to let him go. And then she left him, the day I fired him. We are still friends, because we were “in this together”. And he always knew in the back of his mind who was right and who was wrong. Since then, he is a MGTOW without knowing this word.

    :::::: Living with a woman is like a dead GPS in the desert – and you have no map, clock, compass and no water on you ::::::
    #325742
    +1

    MG-ɹǝʍoʇ
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    The only thing “BURNED OUT” from my vantage point of sovereignty are the vast wastelands of feminism and the demilitarized zone where the green fruitful fields of MGTOW begin and go on forever. I know better than to set foot in places that hate me like North Korea! That’s just the way it is on the gender war battlefield. I use my head and stay away from the enemy that only wants to use me or destroy me if I refuse or resist. Ghost the enemy brothers or be tangled in their sticky webs…

    #325747
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    Gargamel
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    1671

    The only thing “BURNED OUT” from my vantage point of sovereignty are the vast wastelands of feminism and the demilitarized zone where the green fruitful fields of MGTOW begin and go on forever.

    And that is our mission. We have to tell the world what is really going on.

    And if only one employer happens to read this and rethinks his “hiring policy” then we have made a difference.

    Sometimes all a flame needs is a spark. And you and I know why burnout happens. This problem has to be solved at the roots.

    If an employer hires one borderline witch like my sister, then he can write off the efficiency of his enterprise.

    In all these last 25 years, employers would hire my sister as a “chief secretary” for her qualifications and maybe for her looks… But she was always “mobbed out” by the colleagues that probably couldn’t take her shit anymore.

    I guess she made more people sick than anybody will ever know. She always took pride in having “cleared that place up” and that she “put order in it” and she never understood, why they asked her to leave in the end. Borderlines are never wrong…

    Something like 10 jobs she “hopped” during that time span. I haven’t counted. 2 attempts of starting a business on her own failed, one with 6-figure losses. She treated her customers like she treated me.

    Turning customers into “virtual MGTOWs” (smile) is not a good idea. Because an empty chair does not make any turnover anymore and stops all revenue…

    :::::: Living with a woman is like a dead GPS in the desert – and you have no map, clock, compass and no water on you ::::::
    #325750
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    TaxGuy
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    4599

    One of the worst incidents of psychological warfare my ex waged on me was when our first daughter was about six months old. She said she was talking to her mom and she asked if I had started working later. I asked why. She said that men typically do that when the kids are young because they don’t want to be home with them.

    After that I would feel guilty as hell if I actually did need to work past normal time because she would think I was just avoiding them, when I actually just needed to work later. You know, to keep the only job we were living off of.

    I'm just a guy whose a guy being a guy

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