I mean, I’d say I’m new to this. At least the community part. I’ve formed a very similar mindset to all this over the years, but just now found a community (this, MGTOW) which I feel fits it pretty well. It’s great to feel more understood generally.

I mean I don’t have issues with women really, I tend to try to get along with pretty much everyone without letting them use me now. I used to be a magnet for emotional leeches, that really got to me. But that was mostly other guys really.

I mean, I do still have an issue with how I’m treated by women, but that’s not so much because I’m a guy but more of because I’m gay.  It’s the whole, “gay best friend” mentality. It’s degrading and I hate it. But even then, I’m pretty good at avoiding people who treat me that way.

It’s good knowing that others feel the same as me on society expecting me to be one specific way just because “hur dur ur a man”. Either way, I guess this post is just me trying to get my foot in the door to this community. So, hey and thanks for existing. It’s nice knowing I’m not alone with my mindset.