Of learning about men going their own way and of their resoluteness in following their own path, which in one way or another avoids relationships with women as a core principle, an immediate question will come to mind for the man or woman finding out about MGTOW for the first time. In Truman Show like fashion, the question is always asked “how will it end?”. What is the goal of MGTOW, that men will know that their purpose has been achieved and men will once again return to marriage and other long term relationships with women, as well as willingly becoming fathers once more?
This same end goal question is constantly asked of themselves by newcomers into MGTOW. Which is the ongoing questioning of their own newly forged path, what is it they are wanting from this, what will need to change for these new initiates to return? After all, going your own way is a set of self imposed restrictions of a man, and what man who yearns for his freedom wants to be under any type of restrictions, whether they be self regulated or not. And thus the questioning of oneself is always there for so many new men going their own way, as well as for those who are researching it for the first time, just what is it that MGTOW want so that they will return home again?
The Harsh MGTOW Reality
The stark brutal reality of MGTOW and the men who are following this ideology is that the only likely answer anyone will ever receive from any MGHOW, is that what they want, is nothing. That what they are trying to achieve, is nothing, That what they are trying to change, is nothing. Therefore the answer to the question of when these men will return: is NEVER.
Most MGTOW perceive the system as entirely broken, so broken that it cannot be fixed. Most will see what women have done to men over the past decades as something so vile and so inexcusable that they cannot forgive what has been done to men, nor forget. Especially so when this multi-national destruction of men, so often at the hands of willing women, still worsens every single day. They speak of the devastation which has been wreaked upon men and children, counting into millions of lives brought into chaos and ruin, by women as the instigators and perpetrators of the worst forms of abuse ever seen from within any society against its own people and by its own people.
MGTOW know of all the horrendous misandrist statutes, backed up by state power of force, lawyers, courts, judges and police, who all sit waiting to pounce on any man at all, at the whim of any woman at all. MGTOW may cite the corruption of legislation and its enforcers to enable such horrendous acts to take place at all, but it will always come back to the women. The wives, the mothers, the girlfriends, who all willingly and with a clean conscience thoroughly destroyed their own husbands, the fathers of their children, who took everything that man had worked his life for, who put him into bondage to her, who sent these men to prisons to endure even worse forms of abuse… the women who would spend decades after a marriage, chasing after this same man who was once her loving husband, to continue to make his life a living hell on this earth. The women who took this man’s children from him, via the force of the state and all its instruments of power.
When MGTOW speak of the sheer betrayal of so many women, their words are solid and unshifting. These mens speech will not waver of their complete and utter abandonment of all western women who have willingly committed all of these acts, and so much worse, all done of their own free will, to destroy the men in their lives. The men and husbands who sacrificed everything for them, who did everything necessary to provide for his family, to love his wife, to be a devoted husband and father, the men whose entire life’s purpose is the wellbeing of his family. Then these men will speak of the betrayal of their wives, or the wives of other men who share their lives, of the knife they each took in the back, of all the horrors that followed, of the scars that they carry every day, and will do so for their entire lives.
No. These men are not forgiving, the injustices against them were too great.
No. These men are not returning, they do not want these women any longer.
No. These men will not marry, as the risk to their very lives is too great.
No these men will not be fathers, for the risk to his children are too immense.
All these men see around them every day, is a field of the littered wreckages of millions upon millions of men, children, and families all around them. The wounded are growing in number every day, and every day another set of wedding bells rings; MGTOW see this as yet another ticking clock set in motion until that happy groom is also left broken and shattered on that field of broken dreams and betrayal.
And the men who have gone their own way before they’ve fallen victim to these machinations, and before they too fell on that same field of destroyed men and children, are now fully aware of all the risks they now face from any woman they go near, not only in terms of relationships and marriage, but also at school, at work, and any place else. These MGTOW know the risks all around them, they are wise, and they are protecting themselves.
When Will MGTOW Return
Once again, NEVER!
MGTOW have gone!
For good.
Even if every misandrist statute was removed, even if every form of traditionalism of marriage and family returned once more, even if feminism was forever crushed, even if the white picket fences came back into vogue, and the laughter of children playing in backyards was heard again, or if family Sunday roasts were back for good, even if the women stopped tattooing themselves and started putting their clothes back on in public and stopped with their family planning procedures and carousel riding adventures…
MGTOW would still never return.
To understand the obstinance and the resoluteness of so many MGTOW, is to first understand how so many men have been betrayed, by their own wives, by their own girlfriends, by the women they loved and gave their lives in service to providing for and protecting their families. It is that betrayal, that willingness for so many millions of women to do these things to their own husbands, that these men will not forgive and cannot forget.
And it is not just when it comes to matters of marriage and divorce. It is the adultery. It is every hateful word which is spoken every day by so many women against good men. It is the cuckoldry. It is the hypergamy. It is the incredibly high rates of promiscuity and the crude debasing debauchery associated with that promiscuity. It is all the cruelty of women against men, the good men, which is incomprehensible to understand for anyone who has never been through these horrendous acts.
Yes, for MGTOW, it is that bad.
And no, they are not returning.
What If Society Collapses. Will MGTOW Return Then?
So many men in MGTOW do see that same imminent collapse coming at full speed.
As do so many other people and groups around the world, so many see the system on the verge.
No, MGTOW are not doing anything at all to stop it or slow it, they are going their own way.
MGTOW are not trying to fix anything, as most see it all as beyond fixing. And even if something could be fixed, the same underlying causes to all these problems would still remain. And for what reward would there be should anything be fixed? Because they still will not want to return to the women in this modern society, and they would always still be at risk of laws and customs turning against men once again.
Neither are MGTOW necessarily helping to speed any decline, though some say they are by taking their own opting out of society to even greater levels, whereby they no longer contribute anything of any real worth back into our present system, which then may possibly speed any decline which is already happening.
As for any dystopian future after some hypothetical societal meltdown? Who could predict anything about such an event? And for the majority of MGTOW it seems that their own thinking doesn’t even go this far into the future, for what point is there in such vain imaginations? No, MGTOW do seem to be of a very straightforward mindset about what they are doing in their own lives, which is all avoidance of relationships with women and marriage, looking after themselves first and foremost, and no activism of any kind to try to change or fix anything. These men are going their own way, and what will be will be thereafter.
MGTOW after some future fantasy societal meltdown?
Who knows.
But in any society which resembles todays western nations… MGTOW will only continue to grow!