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She is getting breast implants. (self.marriedredpill)

Bulk_king11 が 投稿

Although I'm not married, you guys have your shit together and I feel like you can give me a good perspective on this and let me know if I'm overreacting. My LTR is getting breast implants. She is a great girl. She has stuck with me through an addiction, other woman, all our ups and downs. It took me a while but I finally went from semi beta to being the captain of the ship and she is very receptive to that. And things have been going great

She supports me with everything. Cooks, cleans, sex, all the works. Has a low partner count. No where near a slut, made me wait a while to fuck her (before red pill days), she's foreign, I can trust her, has a great father figure, the whole Shibang. But she scheduled to get breast implants. I like her tits the way they are. She said she wants it to help improve her self confidence and better match her figure and that she has always wanted them even before we met.

Being a guy I feel that the only reason to get breast implants is for attention. Am I wrong here? Idk why but I'm so against it. Usually she cares what I think but for this She doesn't care and is still getting it done she says and doesn't like to talk to me about it when it's brought up because I'm against it and she can't explain to me why, beside she wants to improve her self esteem and she always wanted them. She says she has supported me with everything why can't I just support her with this, that I'm the only one who isn't.

I needed to take time away and think about this and get a few different perspectives. I'm more of an ass man and like I said I like her boobs the way they are. Breast implants kind of turn me off. What do you guys think about this. Is this a reasonable thing to do on her part? Is breaking it off because of this a little extreme?

Edit: no I'm not gay. I just like real bouncy non silicone tits

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[–]PersaeusMarried - MRP Approved 8ポイント9ポイント  (18子コメント)

I have only personally known three women that got breast implants. All three were divorced within 24 months. Just an observation.

[–]SteelToeShitKicker 1ポイント2ポイント  (15子コメント)

Can confirm. I know 5 who got implants, all except one were divorced in 2 years. The one that isn't divored has 5 kids and the husband makes 500k+ a year.

The stay plan is the same as the go plan.

[–]PersaeusMarried - MRP Approved 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

The one that isn't divorced has 5 kids and the husband makes 500k+ a year.

Chad is pounding it on the side, 10 to 1.

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 0ポイント1ポイント  (11子コメント)

I wonder how their husbands were? Beta schlubs?

[–]PersaeusMarried - MRP Approved 1ポイント2ポイント  (4子コメント)

2 of the 3 I knew had beta schlubs for husbands. The third was outwardly a complete stud. At home, alone with the missuses I don't know. I think in that case it may have been vetting as much as anything. Turns out she had been getting railed for years; and bleeding him dry through cash withdrawals at the wal-mart checkout.

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

So, 3/3 pathetic men. Shit, I would have left them before I got tits .

Heh

[–]PersaeusMarried - MRP Approved 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

Ignorant and pathetic are not the same thing. Anyway, he traded up after her. His new wife is hotter than the last; and makes fat bank.

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

pathetic in her eyes.

How can MY husband not realize how I am taking his shit... shit he must be pathetic.

So... he got married again.... still ignorant, But I don't know him.

[–]PersaeusMarried - MRP Approved 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Still ignorant - check

[–]SteelToeShitKicker 0ポイント1ポイント  (5子コメント)

There was a spectrum. The bar is very high once your wife gets fake tits.

If mine got falsies, I'd probably have a lawyer start drawing up the paperwork just so I didn't have to go through the downward spiral...

[–]PersaeusMarried - MRP Approved 1ポイント2ポイント  (4子コメント)

I'd probably have a lawyer start drawing up the paperwork just so I didn't have to go through the downward spiral...

Agreed. Fake tits might look ok behind clothing; but look odd naked in any kind of hanging position and feel disgusting. You can literally feel a squeeze ball inside of the tit. Those tits are my toys. She can do whatever she wants; I am free to go find better toys.

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

Those tits are my toys.

Nah, you are renting

She can do whatever she wants; I am free to go find better toys.

Yup

[–]PersaeusMarried - MRP Approved 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

Nah, you are renting

Thanks for the correction.

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I was reminding myself as well.

[–]PineleroMarried 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

those tits are my toys I like my toys to be spongy like a firm loaf of fresh bread. A silicone bag is for grip strength training. I had a girl that had the bags, and I couldn't squeeze them without her complaining it hurt.

[–]PM_BOOBS_FOR_PUPPIES 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is my experience almost exactly.

4 got boobs, 3 divorced in 2 years, the one who didn't was married to a 350K+ super-alpha dude she had 4 kids with.

[–]BradLightningRooster 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

She's reached the top of what she can get, but hypergamy makes her want more, she gets a set of bolt on tits and now uses the boosted SMV to branch swing a little higher.

[–]FireTemperedMRP APPROVED 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

three women that got breast implants. All three were divorced within 24 months.

Then if she is on the way out, open the fucking door for her.

[–]JaneeCatharticaWoman - Unplugging 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Cheating on her would have obviously exacerbated any lifelong insecurities of hers. She probably ended up burying the bulk of the impact from it and is subconsciously expressing it this way.

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

We do not mind read Chick's... Look for validation elsewhere

[–]FireTemperedMRP APPROVED 5ポイント6ポイント  (5子コメント)

She has stuck with me through an addiction, other woman, all our ups and downs. It took me a while but I finally went from semi beta to being the captain of the ship

Now she wants fake tits, for herself, and you are too insecure to allow it. This is not your decision, it is hers. I think you are an ass-hole.

Edit: if you delete this post, you will prove it.

[–]Bulk_king11[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (4子コメント)

The more I think about it the more I think you're right but you don't think it provokes unnecessary attention?

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Boys, this is what validation seeking behaviour looks like. Op is either retarded, or lying about the sidebar

[–]bogeyd6MRP MODERATOR 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

We aren't here to make decisions for you.

[–]cdogg75Married 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I stare at all tits, so seeing a fake set will give her extra attention from me. It also doesn't guarantee she is going to fuck me either. Feeling desired by the opposite sex is normal. How she handles that attention is what is the concern. A confident man will treat this as "that's right boys, i fuck this hot chick with the big titties", not be worried about the attention. A woman will know and see you are not confident in yourself with your worry. That will be the reason she leaves you, not the tits.

[–]FireTemperedMRP APPROVED 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

JFK, do you ever buy nice stuff to wear, knowing that others will notice how sharp you look? Do you lift and keep your weight down strictly for health reasons? Come on man, get a grip here.

[–]The_LitzMRP APPROVED 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

Breast are a big deal for woman. Talk to a woman that has had hers removed because of breast cancer.

I, and most men, don't fully get it.

She wants to increase her SMV. Is it to keep up with you or to branchswing?

And of course, who is paying?

[–]MrSundance57 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Of course she is doing it for men's attention. Your right. Prepare for her to branch swing, she is.

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's really simple. Has she given you evidence that she is a woman that doesn't deserve your time attention and affection ?

If not- don't even think about it. You can have your opinion. You can say " Hey baby I love you and I think you don't need them to he sexy and beautiful. I will be here for you whatever choice you make regarding implants"

And see what happens.

Are you so dependent on her that if she were to branch swing , you couldn't find other women?

[–]BradLightningRooster 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I like smaller natural tits. A chick with falsies would definitely lose points with me. If your chick insists on mutilating herself against your wishes/better judgement then drop her ass and find a girl with nice natural tits. You said she's LTR not wife so you're not stuck.

[–]cdogg75Married 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

If fake boobs are a turn off, then at some point it will show in your interactions with her naked body. At this point, you will probably part ways.

Body image is different for everybody, and to her, it possibly is just a confidence thing. If it's a deal breaker, then walk away. If it is not, then, the let it be.

[–]CasperTFG_808 0ポイント1ポイント  (5子コメント)

I thought this thread would give me perspective but it didn't. My Wife has talked about getting implants as well. My response has always been, she should do what makes her happy. Of course I will enjoy them but at the same time

Internally I'm thinking maybe you should lose the 40 lbs of fat first. Externally I'm not saying anything about her looks because I still have 15 lbs of fat to lose myself.

[–]Bulk_king11[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I thought this would give me perspective also. But it hasn't. That's what my thought was. She's not fat but she can do other things to improve her self esteem in my eyes. I bust my ass in the gym 6 days a week. Idk something about it just rubs me wrong

[–]PersaeusMarried - MRP Approved 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

Of course I will enjoy them

You might want to feel some before you say this. The feeling in your hand is completely unnatural and to me at least disgusting.

[–]CasperTFG_808 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

I'm a boob guy, she used to have perky B's which were good but after 3 kids I can understand why she wants to do them. I was screwing a girl for a few months with implants and I didn't care, thought they were great.

[–]PersaeusMarried - MRP Approved 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

thought they were great.

Each to his own. Not really sure this is a good idea; but could suggest you'll spring for tits after she loses the 60.

[–]CasperTFG_808 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I will cross that bridge when it's time. Right now it's a few comments here and there so I just STFU.

[–]drty_pr 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sit her down and straight up say "i don't like fake tits". Do this with a laptop and porn site open. Search the tag 'saggy'. Then say "lots of other people don't too". Then walk away.

After that you have to not be a pussy and accept it.

[–]JackBlaque 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

So she didn't ask you if you wanted her to get breast implants?

If the answer is no, then ask yourself who is she getting these implants for?

She'll tell you the implants are for her to feel better about herself. The reality is she's trying to significantly improve her SMV. Why would she do that ... hmm.

[–]saint_chalet 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You say you're captain, that's great. The captain commands the ship but doesn't say what goes in the soup, how beds are made or any other bit of detail that keeps the ship running. Your woman wants to look better, excellent, enjoy it. Acting like an insecure fag about it will basically confirm that this ship, despite now having a captain, will never get out of port. She'll start looking. You'll then believe she wanted out before the implants when, in fact, the two acts aren't related.

tldr; quit being a fag. actually read the sidebar. be great.

[–]WhiteTrashKiller 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Have you accepted she isn't yours, its just your turn? Your plan to improve yourself and enjoy your life should have no bearing if she is there or not.

Want companionship? Get a fucking Dog, A male one! There 10X more loyal!

Here is your task. Take a piece of paper two columns! On the left write down all the awesome things you can do, wanna do, will do! On the Right put down what you have to do, need to do, cannot stand doing....

Got it so far? Now put her name next to each task or activity that you see her doing with you and if it becomes better or worse. I am sure you will come up with what everyone else comes up with.

If she stays great, new titties. If she swings great too! no marriage = no divorce = less air your asshole is sucking........

[–]87_frys -2ポイント-1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Wtf, I think you're in the wrong thread. I never comment in here, but this is nonsense. Are you a trolling feminist, seriously?

[–]BobbyPeru -2ポイント-1ポイント  (6子コメント)

Come on. You haven't given any info on yourself as far as TRP, reading, when unplugged, lifting, dread... Etc

Then, you told us a story about Snow White.

You also didn't describe how the conversation went.

You've given essentially nothing.

[–]Bulk_king11[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (5子コメント)

None of that matters. That's not the point. The point is do you guy think breast implants serve any purpose other than drawing attention from other men

[–]BobbyPeru 2ポイント3ポイント  (4子コメント)

You came to MRP for answers (supposedly) and we are trying to guide you. You are looking at a branch inside a forest. This post belongs in "Ask MRP"

[–]Bulk_king11[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

I've read almost everything. Unplugged for over a year. And I'm jacked.

Anyway I think I got my answer. I'm overreacting and bothered because of my own insecurity about it. Her getting surgery on her tits has nothing to do with her wanting attention from others it's perfectly acceptable. And I should go try to touch a dick to see if I like it because apparently this post makes me gay.

[–]BobbyPeru 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

I get it. My wife has big tits, and she wears bras that make them look gargantuan. I see guys looking at them everywhere we go. It used to bother me, but doing the work has taken away most of that insecurity. Matter of fact, kind of turns me on now, so I direct that energy into good hard fuckings.

I wouldn't be concerned unless she starts showing others signs post surgery.

[–]Bulk_king11[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thank you this is the type of answer I was looking for.

[–]anotherswingingdick 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

My wife has big tits

born & raised with them, got them for free?

Then, it's not really relevant here.

[–]anotherswingingdick -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

if your best estimate is that she's about to embark on a career of attention-whoring.... then accept the reality of what you see.

She is NOT doing this to strengthen her relationship with YOU.

Not even any point in getting grey hairs & a hoarse voice by making a soap opera about it with her, is theere?

Just slowly downgrade her to fuckbuddy. Start approaching other women & getting their numbers. It's only the EXACT equivalent of her getting a boob job, ya know?

[–]redmountainpill -4ポイント-3ポイント  (3子コメント)

I thought this was a forum for straight men, but I suppose we can be all-inclusive this time

[–]Bulk_king11[S] 4ポイント5ポイント  (2子コメント)

I knew this was coming. Fake tits don't turn me on. I want real bouncy ones

[–]redmountainpill 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'd take what you're given and be happy about it or else look for someone else. Unless they're so big they give her back pain just enjoy the ride man

[–]sh0ckley 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Agreed.