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I wish girls were nicer (self.ForeverAlone)

qckthr2 が 投稿

I go the gym seven days a week and it's honestly humiliating the way im treated by girls. Every single time I'm on the treadmill no girl chooses the treadmill near me. They either walk past it, wait for someone else to get off, or try to distance themselves as much as possible. I'm not fat, I just have an ugly face. I'm hygenic and clean. And I don't do anything except run. But every. fucking. day. they choose the treadmills farthest from me and go to extreme lengths to avoid being on the treadmill next to me. women even get on the treadmill next to me, and when they look up and see my face, they get off and go to the next available one. jesus christ, i know my face is ugly, but i didn;t imagine it was so ugly that women can't stand to be near it for 30 minutes.

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[–]InappropriatePenguin 21ポイント22ポイント  (4子コメント)

It might just be in your head. People will typically choose whatever is furthest away from other people: seats, computers, treadmills. Think about it: it'd be really awkward to enter a bus full of empty seats with just one stranger on it, and choose the seat right next to him. If you watch what happens when other guys or girl use treadmills, I bet you'll see the same thing.

[–]hxii 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

True. I do the same thing most of the time.

[–]qckthr2[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

that's the thing: it's the complete opposite when I'm not on the treadmills. If there's a facially average or aesthetic guy on the treadmill, the girls all go near him. Girls literally get off the treadmill once they see my face. If there are open treadmills right next to me, and then another one after a bunch of taken treadmills, they'll go to the taken treadmills.

[–]hxii 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I could actually believe that as well. People can be weird.

[–]attofreak -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Got to love the downvoters! They tried the "people are not that bad!" route, and when it didn't comply with your experience, downvotes! Just get everything unfavourable out of sight asap!

[–]rakhan124 M 3ポイント4ポイント  (22子コメント)

Oh no, "below average" guy again.

[–]qckthr2[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (21子コメント)

http://imgur.com/a/LJ7mU

[–]rakhan124 M -1ポイント0ポイント  (20子コメント)

Yes I am aware of your sources. Thanks. The most unattractive aspect about you is your attitude.

[–]qckthr2[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (10子コメント)

http://imgur.com/a/LJ7mU

[–]rakhan124 M 1ポイント2ポイント  (9子コメント)

You really are hopeless. I hope the surgery goes to your expectations so you can stop obsessing over this, but nothing about what you've posted seems to suggest that you'll ever be satisfied until you get some serious psychiatric help.

[–]qckthr2[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (8子コメント)

once i get an average midface and average jawline ill be happy. all i want is a chance like everyone else in the world.

i appreciate your kind words regarding surgery.

[–]rakhan124 M 1ポイント2ポイント  (7子コメント)

Alright good. Maybe then you can stop repeatedly posting your rant about how women are apparently physically repelled from your slightly below average face. Please don't post that screenshot at me again. I continue to maintain that you might be slightly below average but that is NOT horrifically ugly, and you're just allowing most likely meaningless actions of others to dictate your state of mind.

[–]qckthr2[S] 2ポイント3ポイント  (6子コメント)

so you quote sarcastically "below average" then proceed to go ahead and say im below average? that's the irony im talking about. though additionally, i would like to know what about my face makes me below average.

[–]rakhan124 M 0ポイント1ポイント  (5子コメント)

You continue to willfully ignore the POINT of what I and practically everyone else is saying every time you post.

A 4.5 DOES NOT EQUAL ZERO.

Your looks are not causing women to avoid you. They most likely aren't even aware of you.

You are NOT horrifically repulsive.

You are most likely being paranoid because of your mental state.

Your obsession with your looks is what makes you awful to interact with. I hope you don't act like this offline.

I don't need to pile on descriptions of why you're below average. You have plenty of that to go on already. You have no particularly attractive features and a weak jawline. That doesn't make you Quasimodo. Personally, I'd probably have just called you average, but you'd probably reject that out of hand.

[–]qckthr2[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (4子コメント)

You have no particularly attractive features and a weak jawline

all i needed to know. thanks. see how easy it is when people give simple responses?

I never said i was repulsive, i said i was below average. women have said im repulsive because of my face. my obsession with my looks is because women have explicitly said that my personality is fine, the reason im unattractive is only because of my face, which is "way way unattractive".

[–]existentialhack 12ポイント13ポイント  (11子コメント)

Dude. I dug through your posting history. This is my truly honest opinion. You're not remotely ugly. You're handsome. You have great skin, nice eyes, thick hair. You are definitively not ugly enough to garner the reactions you think you're getting, FFS. You're talking like you're the Hunchback Of Notre Dame.

Do not get surgery. You'll only be dissatisfied with the results. Then you'll find out what it's truly like to get odd looks. Instead of hitting the treadmill, get lifting bro!

[–]ApatheticAnarchy 4ポイント5ポイント  (2子コメント)

You're not ugly. You fell out of the average tree and hit every branch on the way down.

[–]qckthr2[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

i read a good quote online from one of the mods saying that when people say you're average online, you're actually below average.

besides, i've post numerous pieces of evidence of people calling me below average online, so you know what that means...

[–]Anotherguy783Shower Mod 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I say that all the time.

[–]FAinMTL 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

Can you just get the surgery and stop posting the same thing over and over again? You won't listen to anyone. If you think this surgery will fix everything, get it done and then come back and tell us how right you were. It'll take time to get the money, sure, but we'll wait.

[–]qckthr2[S] -5ポイント-4ポイント  (0子コメント)

how about i post what i want and if it bothers you then don't comment? i get mistreated and ignored in real life because of my ugly face, i don't deserve the same online. surgery won't happen for a few months if that, i'm still scheduling my second consultation.

there's nothing to listen to. everyone called me below average and when i asked for reasons they say i have mental disorders. afaik that doesn't sound like something i didn't already know nor is it helpful since they won't give reasons.

[–]JedYorksMake FA great again 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I got tired of this shit and just started acting like they don't exist and just did me. I just lift and focus on my shit and stretch. I'm angry but I take it out on these weights. Girls still blow me off but with the hell with them. The only girl's I'm picking up at the gym are on that dumbbell rack.

[–]FETCH_ME_UR_BLOCKS 3ポイント4ポイント  (2子コメント)

No point in reasoning with OP; he's not delusional he just wants an excuse so he doesn't have to work on himself. He'd look above average if he lost weight, but that's too much work for him apparently.

Honestly, if he thought he was ugly he would obliterate every trace of his pictures online. He wouldn't even take photos in the first place. Ugly people hate photos -- they despise their appearance so much they don't a permanent photo to float around online.

There's so many of these fake uglies in /r/foreveralone I'm just gonna start calling them trolls. They say they're ugly even while it's apparent they don't believe so themselves. Usually, they are just lacking social skills or need to lose weight and don't want to be held accountable for their failures.

I encourage everyone to report threads like OP's. These people don't believe they are ugly. They just want an ego-boost or false affirmation that they ugly so they'll have an excuse to not put in effort in losing weight or improving their social skills.

[–]qckthr2[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

keep trying. i've posted direct evidence of everyone calling me below average. i don't "obliderate" photos because then people wouldn't believe my claims. once i gave people my pictures, they all started agreeing with me and stopped disagreeing with my statements about how facial aesthetics are the most important thing in life.

since women have explicitly said the reason for my unattractiveness is "[my] way way unattractive" face, i'm gonna go with that. im actually at a normal weight and even obese people are considered more attractive than me because of their and my face.

keep trying. i want to hear what ridiculous normie diagnosis you come up with next.

[–]charmed0215 2ポイント3ポイント  (3子コメント)

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This is the OP's picture from his public post history. He's NOT UGLY. Several people who have posted on this thread also agree.

[–]qckthr2[S] -4ポイント-3ポイント  (2子コメント)

first, I really wish you would have asked me before posting MY picture

second, what about this thread, or this thread? everyone except for one person agreed I had a below average face.

thirdly, even if i weren't ugly, im still below average, which is still a conspicuous negative.

[–]charmed0215 5ポイント6ポイント  (1子コメント)

It was in your PUBLIC profile. Anyone could have gotten it. It wasn't like you just sent it to me and I posted it for everyone to see. But since you didn't want me linking to it, I removed the link.

And I can't comment on what other people think. I'm telling you MY opinion.

[–]qckthr2[S] -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I understand, but i wish you would have asked me. That picture IIRC was in a link to a different website. if people are that curious they can look through my post history to find it.

and even if im not ugly it doesn't mean im not below average, which if you read my comments is what i say i am, except in certain cases where i say "ugly" in place of below average because it's easier to type. but i would like to know why i'm facially below average.

[–]HeyzeusHChrist 6ポイント7ポイント  (10子コメント)

I wish you were nicer to yourself.

[–]yokaylanewly normie 7ポイント8ポイント  (9子コメント)

BDD is a bitch.

[–]qckthr2[S] -3ポイント-2ポイント  (8子コメント)

It's not bdd when girls confirm you're below average. It's ironic you telling me I have bdd when you were one of them. (y)

[–]yokaylanewly normie 3ポイント4ポイント  (7子コメント)

I'm saying you have BDD because you're obsessed, it's clearly all you think about and you are deeply convinced that you are way worse looking than you are and it doesn't matter what anyone says to you.

[–]qckthr2[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (6子コメント)

BDD is when you believe something about your body that isn't true. All i've said is that I'm below average and everyone here has confirmed that. Thus not BDD.

[–]yokaylanewly normie 4ポイント5ポイント  (5子コメント)

Body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) is a mental disorder characterized by an obsessive preoccupation that some aspect of one's own appearance is severely flawed and warrants exceptional measures to hide or fix it.[1] In BDD's delusional variant, the flaw is imagined.[2] If the flaw is actual, its importance is severely exaggerated.

[–]qckthr2[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (4子コメント)

Oh wow, so the flaw is actual, but because I think it's actually bad to be below average instead of average when it's just "slightly negative" (HUGE difference btw), I have a mental disorder. there's no way in hell it's better to be average than below average, and anyone thinking that is insane and deserves to be locked up

You're totally right! Now women will love me! All those women who rejected me because of my face, said that my face is my only negative aspect, and the women who said my face is physically repulsive, and the girl(s) who said they wouldn't want to be seen with me in public without a bag on my head were wrong! It was all a figment of my imagination! Thanks /u/yokayla!

[–]yokaylanewly normie 5ポイント6ポイント  (3子コメント)

No, hon, there's nothing wrong with being dissatisfied with your appearance - most are. I wish I was higher on the scale myself, and yeah, who wouldn't rather be a 7 vs a 5?

It's the amount of time and energy you've spent on this matter and how much you obsess over it where it becomes a concern. Look at your comment history, it's the only thing you post about. Thousands of them. It's an unhealthy fixation. Washing your hands is normal, washing your hands 20x in a row is OCD.

[–]qckthr2[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

4.5*, which is below average, not average. Big difference. And I'm not perpetuating this argument. You clearly don't see the obvious irony in calling someone below average looking, then telling them they have a mental disorder for thinking it's a negative, especially when your characterization of why they are below average looking despite repeated requests for clarity is "you just are." Whatever, just like in real life, I'm treated like shit by women online too, so I shouldn't be surprised. Life will only change when I go under the knife and finally get a new face, one that isn't defective.

[–]yokaylanewly normie -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

I hope it makes you feel better, but I suspect it won't. Why not see a therapist while also getting your plastic surgery consultants to help you with your new image internally as well?

[–]AldoR23 2ポイント3ポイント  (4子コメント)

Well, just stop being ugly creepy, dude.

[–]IrrelevantTaken 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Those 2 are basically the same lel

[–]qckthr2[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (2子コメント)

I wish I could stop being ugly. I'm currently setting up my second consultation for plastic surgery. But the surgery if it happens won't be for quite some time. I'm not creepy. I've analyzed every single facial movement I make when I run and I don't do a single thing which can be construed as creepy. I look directly ahead or down. Girls just see my face and are so disgusted by my bone structure they can't stand to be near me.

[–]leaction 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

so disgusted by my bone structure

literally no one goes around thinking "oh man, did you see that guys bone structure?"

[–]qckthr2[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

yeah, but they do go around thinking "<insert name here> is unattractive".

[–]georgemitchruined every chance given to me 2ポイント3ポイント  (9子コメント)

Choose the correct answer:

(1) What's the true intention of girls that go to gyms?

A.meet new guys B.exercise

(2) Lets say you are paying 1000 dollars monthly for VIP membership on a dating site. Would you be willing to be matched with the kind of girl you can find on free dating sites?

A. Yes B. No

Do you understand what I am saying?

[–]existentialhack 9ポイント10ポイント  (7子コメント)

I've never been to a unisex gym, but I'd imagine girls are generally super-on-guard there. Unless perhaps you're a 9-10. And OP is probably projecting a meanly homicidal aura, given his hangups.

[–]celestial1 4ポイント5ポイント  (5子コメント)

Exactly. He probably has some weird mannerisms that make women not want to be around him.

[–]Under_the_bluemoon 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

Based solely on his reddit comments, even I wouldn't want to be around him, and I'm very tolerant of weirdness.

[–]qckthr2[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

you wouldn't want to be around me because of my below average face, which you already confirmed.

[–]qckthr2[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

or, you know, women only care about facial aesthetics and since my facial aesthetics are below average im ignored.

[–]celestial1 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Woman also care about mental health.

[–]qckthr2[S] -5ポイント-4ポイント  (0子コメント)

What's the proper courtesy when choosing machines:

A) Avoid the ugly-faced man who hates himself enough already

B) Choose the next available machine and maintain proper spacing but not enough to make the person feel awkward

[–]tupac_fan 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

This level of ugly faces must be seen (or probably not).

[–]eff_you_ck 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

My guess is that you stare the women at the gym down, ogle them profusely and have been branded a creepy guy so now they avoid you. As most posters have said (and you really are either a bit dumb or just cherry-picking like the worst attention-craving person alive) you are not unattractive. You're most likely better looking than most people who'd give you 4.5 or below. But you need a personality adjustment, and no amount of surgery will help you on that one.

[–]FETCH_ME_UR_BLOCKS 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Saw OP's pics, he just needs to lose some weight.

[–]qckthr2[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

and get rhinoplasty and cheekbone implants and maxillary implants and jawline implants and supraorbital ridge enhancement and significant work on my eye area.