I don't agree with your first point fifth point or sixth point, but I do agree with all of your other points. How you feel is not entirely in the hands of other people (unless they are specifically TRYING to make you feel a specific way), and men being bigger and stronger really doesn't have any bearing since that's just an animal fear thing that people should not let influence their behavior, much like many other animal urges we suppress for the sake of social stability. I say this as a 5'5" guy who has been hit on by gay guys in a gay bar (fairly aggressively and repeatedly mind you), and at no point does their size intimidate me, but that's because I don't let it intimidate me. I am of the opinion that these are the kinds of things that individuals need to manage themselves rather than demand that others manage for them.

That being said, yea if they are bothering you while you're busy, won't go away (harassment) and tries to order you around and keeps fucking doing it, fuck that shit. Totally unacceptable behavior.

I also want to say thank you for understanding that men don't really get compliments or any acknowledgement. Most people judge what is acceptable based on their own emotional barometer and social experience, and it's extremely difficult to act in accordance to others because you don't feel what they feel. This is why listening and empathy is important, and I appreciate the effort you've clearly put in to understanding men's perspective. Hope your day is awesome :D.