How do you full MGTOWers deal with the lack of physical intimacy?
Intellectually, I understand MGTOW's tenets, but emotionally, I can't overcome my need for physical intimacy, sex or otherwise. This is especially true now that I've been working out for regularly for a couple months. Honestly, attracting a female remains a good chunk of my motivation to achieve in life, probably around 70%. Unfortunately, despite the fact that I'm relatively young and aware of MGTOW and the truth about the mating game, I think I'm likely one of those guys who will need a life-changing reality check to break my biological imperative. Basically, when it comes to my sex drive, I'm simply not in the driver's seat.
I'm hoping things get better with aging, but I think for a lot of men who were physically neglected when they were children, the need is unbreakable outside maybe intense therapy or drowning themselves in an outlet, like work, alcohol, working out, etc. Romantic/sexual touch feels so good that it might as well be heroin, because living without it requires enormous physical and mental strength most days, and it's nearly impossible to not think about previous experiences many times in a day.
If nothing else, this post is just a vent about my own biology while I seriously hope to find the reigns to an addiction that I admittedly have no control over.
Hope you all have found peace with yours!
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