So today I had a pretty fucking horrible day. Figured I'd go off my chest to tell my story. I've kindly uploaded it here incase you want a good read: http://pastebin.com/apcVetA1

I posted it on my alt because I felt pretty ashamed. This isn't the kind of thing I want my friends in real-life to find out. I rarely share these kind of things and it rarely happens that something bothers me this much. Got deleted. So I used another alt, and deleted some bad words from that post "sjw/feminazi" and "bitch" after learning from a friend that that subreddit self-identifies as a safespace which is already cancer on its own.

One of the mods replied to the post "No 'tumblrina' strawmen allowed."

So I was completely angry (maybe a little misdirected) so I replied

You're completely retarded beyond redemption. I mean I'm kind of proving your point with the whole safe-space thing, but I'm not saying this as an insult. I'm saying this because you need to be informed and may need to seek help.

What I said was "Turns out she's on tumblr and she completely isn't my type. Not to bash on that entire group, surely they have the right intention, but they're just not my kind of people." This was a completely minor part of the post, and the fact that she is on tumblr is in no way meant to harm the image of people on tumblr.

Like I said, I don't want to bash or offend anyone. I even defended them, and just stated that it's a personal dislike and nothing more. The entire story is completely true, I don't know why you'd suddenly jump to the idea that I'm making this up.

She replied: "In your last submission you said sjw/feminist types, like feminists are a bad thing. You can go now." I'd already edited my post to no longer contain either of those words. At this point I'm not being allowed to post literally for not being a feminist.

So I sent him/her this as a response

https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/54bwa2/i_feel_like_im_in_a_highschool_drama_series/d80ixbx?context=10

I'm really bothered by what happened today and just want some support from the internet. I did say sjw/feminist types, and I do feel that those people are not my kind of people. But even in that post I specifically said I didn't want to bash on those kind of people, and that I was sure they had the right idea. I even removed the content from the post as I learned that offMyChest really was a safespace area, so even despite apologizing I still went and corrected my behavior so that I wouldn't offend anyone. Yes, I do think that feminists are bad, you can have whatever opinion of me that you want for it. I'm okay with that. But let the problem be with me, and not with the post. Just because I disagree with your view that doesn't mean I'm a terrible person, and I'm hoping that I can still be in your safespace area if I don't mention those views again.

With kind regards, Kaasliefhebber125

Got a reply back "You just called me retarded and suggested I seek help. Kindly fuck off. I can imagine this is why women are put off by you."

So I said

Okay, sorry. Is there some way I can still post this later on, without any triggers/insults? I think we're even now that you've insulted me back.

With kind regards, Kaasliefhebber125

Reply: "Get the fuck out of my inbox."

I figured I'd try and see if we can still come to a solution

I'm really, really sorry. I shouldn't have said those things. I would take them back if I could but I'm just very angry at this point and my feelings were misdirected. Is there anything I can do at all to rectify the situation? If you still want me to leave you alone, I will.

With kind regards, Kaasliefhebber125

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