You guys will appreciate this. I'm a 42 year old MGTOW, recently freed of my shackles and fortunate in that I actually earned less than my career-driven ex wife, which caused her not to want to pursue alimony during our divorce. Anyway, there is a woman who I have known since I was 11 years old and she was 6. She and I have been in and out of each other's lives since then. I have seen every bad decision she's made. I saw her get married and pregnant straight out of high school to the guy that pissed off her parents the most. I saw her have three kids with the same guy. I saw her both get and lose disability insurance, WIC, and just about every public assistance program the state offers. I saw her try to scam everyone around her for sympathy from everything from brain stem lesions to impending blindness. To be honest, i did fuck her a couple of times when her hubby, who is effectively a zombie because of all her harping and shrieking started to lose interest, but this was before i got married myself.
So of course she finds out that I'm no longer attached and tracks me down and starts her overtures. It seems that her husband is now to the point where all he does is work, fix the car, mow the yard and sit bolt upright and silent in the house, mainly for fear of setting off the ticking time bomb that is his harpy wife. She appears to have projected this entire white knight fantasy onto me and is clearly and obviously begging for me to rescue her from the consequences of her choices and behaviors in life.
So imagine her surprise when I explain my newfound philosophy of life to her. I give her all the MGTOW without the label, everything from hypergamy, to my marriage strike, the risk/benefit equation, her not bringing anything to the table but tits and vag, the fact that shes about to hit the wall like a bullet. I tell her point blank that I dont want anything to do with women unless it's lining my pockets with cash.
The response was amazing to behold. Since I have told her this I have recieved unsolicited tit shots, the obvious nawalt argument, pleas for sympathy about a blindness that was supposed to happen about 5 years ago but keeps miraculously delaying itself, the constant attempt to use me as an emotional tampon while she gripes about her poor husband...all of which I have responded to with silence. The woman is basically throwing a fit. The last few days she has resorted to attempts at small talk, but with this undertone of her acting like she cares...so..SO deeply about me and shes so concerned and sad that I have chosen to leave "love" (ie her) behind.
Its like she doesnt realize that I have seen it. I have seen the real her. I saw her turn her hubby into the dessicated husk of a human being and she thinks that I would want to sign up for that. No accountability, no responsibility, no ownership, just the hamster, and its in overdrive because she can't figure it out. I will soon be moving to another state, and I'm not going to tell her. Let her lie in the bed she made. I'm outta there.
ここには何もないようです