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[–]azureknightgx 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I wouldn't pay no mind to internet slags. They're probably the most toxic thing for you. I'd try to get it on with ladies locally if you can manage it even if its hard and avoid online dating sites. They're a cesspool for overweight middle aged women with daddy issues who hit the wall and can't find a young lad, even if average, to fuck and provide for them.

[–]DEG23 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

I think it's simply the availability of choice online compared to the old days where you had to meet in person. I hope this doesn't come across as arrogant but I recently reactivated my OkCupid account and really put a lot of effort into it (mainly with the pictures) and I am actually surprised by how many women are messaging me. (Pictures with my dogs seem to be the thing that attracts most of them.) At first I felt very lucky despite the majority of them being unattractive or giving off a weird vibe but after a few months I do feel like I can be a little bit pickier. I can only imagine what it would be like if I was receiving 100 messages in a week.

Having said that I do think there is a social mindset that women can be pickier where as men have to be the chasers and prove themselves. I think it's interesting that men are told to put effort into their profile and messages and not just send the standard "Hey, what's up" and yet the majority of women who have messaged me have done just that and put almost no effort in their profile.

I originally reactivated my account because I was feeling lonely but after only two months of using it I am remembering why I walked away from dating in the first place.

[–]2045_revolution 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

internet dating is a losing proposition for men, you have to lower your standards there. Pick women in real life if you can.