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Shaming AFs who like WM (an experiment)Dating (self.aznidentity)

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How do you deal with AF girlfriends who will ocassionally bring up their friends who are dating white guys? I usually just ignore it and move the conversation on, but that seems like it's running away from the problem and it doesn't really make a point in their mind. Next time it happens, I'm going to say "that is disgusting, you're friends with whores. Asian girls that like white boys are dirty." I'm going to try the shaming tactics that white boys use for white girls who date black guys.

The point, when with a girl, doesn't seem to be to attack white guys (because that comes off as jealousy and butthurt), but to attack Asian girls who like white guys (because now there are consequences for their behavior). (Obviously white boys are the root of the problem, no fucking shit, I know this already).

I guess the bigger question is: can you shape a girlfriend's sexual preferences? I pretty much demand that any girlfriend who I fully commit to like Asian guys only. Don't worry, I'm still in a semi-open relationship with this one (read: I'm banging other girls, but she thinks that we're exclusive, although I never said we were. She doesn't deserve my commitment yet).

I understand that there's an argument that on the macro-level it's more about building up AM attractiveness, but I think this is an interesting approach that I want to try. Humor me.

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[–]the0clean0slate 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

The point seems to be to attack not white guys (because that comes off as jealousy and butthurt), but to attack Asian girls who like white guys (because now there are consequences for their behavior).

Then you are just like the asian feminists who attacks asian males, but scared to call out white males, because they only go after easy targets. Admit it that you are a pussy because you are afraid to speak up against white males.

Attacking asian girls who like white guys comes off even more as jealousy and butthurt ffs.

can you shape a girlfriend's sexual preferences?

Exposing her to media to break her preconception about asian males is the obvious and socially acceptable way?

I pretty much demand that any girlfriend who I fully commit to like Asian guys only.

Pretty much impossible and you aren't going to gain new grounds with this strategy. You are just shrinking your pool to a ridiculously narrow level, decreasing your options, therefore decreasing your power.

I understand that there's an argument that on the macro-level it's more about building up AM attractiveness, but I think this is an interesting approach that I want to try. Humor me.

The shaming approach is literally the only approach people know before and keep failing repeatedly. The majority white male effort in their approach to prevent outdating isn't shaming at all. It is through controlling their media and spreading/innovating stereotypes about non-white males and destroy their perception.

But if your GF is bringing it up for no reason, then you should definitely speak up about this. White worship. Asian fetish. Etc. You know the rhetorics.

"that is disgusting, you're friends with whores. Asian girls that like white boys are dirty."

This is pretty stupid. Don't say this. Make her woke about why this happens, instead of saying this dumb shit.

[–]ivanchangarsenal[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Admit it that you are a pussy because you are afraid to speak up against white males.

Nope, I call out white males when they're around. But when it's just me and my girlfriend, how the fuck am I going to call out white males? She knows I hate white guys. But I'm trying a new strategy - shaming her friends who like white guys.

Don't call me a pussy, you just didn't read my sentence properly.

I know this won't work as well because I've been on the receiving end of this. Back in my Chan days, I was with this AF who only liked Asian dudes. Her boyfriend cheated on her with a white girl so she hated white girls and she said that all the time. But my openness to white girls didn't change, until she told me she found it disgusting when Asian guys worshipped white pussy and that she found those Asian guys gross - because there was now a consequence for my preferences.

You are just shrinking your pool to a ridiculously narrow level, decreasing your options, therefore decreasing your power.

Nope, I still fuck girls who like white boys. I just reserve my commitment for those who don't. I have less relationship options, but those options are of a significantly higher quality. My casual sex options remain the same, because I don't care about the preferences of girls I just fuck.

Exposing her to media to break her preconception about asian males is the obvious and socially acceptable way?

Media only does so much. I know tons of girls who heavily consume K-pop and Taiwanese dramas, who still find white boys attractive. Unless she absolutely does not consume Western media, which is a practical impossibility if she speaks English, then media itself cannot remove an attraction to WM. Media does, however, have the very strong ability to create an attraction to AM.

The shaming approach is literally the only approach people know before and keep failing repeatedly.

Is it though? Most of the shaming I see is done online by guys that AFs don't know on a very logical level, which allows Asian females to respond back with some carefully constructed essay on 'muh preferences'. But there are no actual social consequences - I get so angry every time I see a girl waltzing into a group of Asian guys with her white boyfriend, and the Asian guys all seem fine with it. I almost never see any actual social shaming by Asian guys against AF who date white boys. The AM may bitch about it to themselves but they'll still hang out with the girl.

What I want is for an AF to be completely ostracized from all of their Asian male friends once they touch a white boy.

I know you're in Chicago (correct me if I'm wrong) , which may mean different racial dynamics, in that if Asian males exclude that AF, then the AF just goes "oh ok" and waltzes to an all-white group. But in Asia and heavily Asian places like LA, Toronto, or Sydney, I strongly beleive that social exclusion for dating white males is very effective - because most Asian girls in those places will have a social circle with a significant amount of Asian guys.

[–]ivanchangarsenal[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

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[–]0821112 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sounds weak

[–]shadowsweep [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

This is a terrible approach. Instead, just expose them to all the various ways white guys are inferior and despicable and how their children will be fucked up. Plant the seeds of doubt and water it everyday by sharing the fruits of Western culture™ with them. Tell them about white degeneracy and racism all the time. See my comments database post. Here are some but not all. BTW, the following isn't racist because it's true. I'm not making any of this up.

 

Frame her their behavior. They think it's "progressive" tell them it's racist subjugation, they don't respect you, they don't love, they cheat, etc. Ask them "why would you degrade yourself by dating someone who doesn't respect you?". If they are sjw type then call them out for supporting white supremacy, white patriarchy, oppression, show them mra, mgtow and other creeps who go after Asian women, sex pats, pedophiles all over Asia. Re-wire their brains from seeing superman to seeing pedophile priests. It's easy http://i.imgur.com/8aBPl8t.jpg

 

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If you're not an English teacher, you're instantly higher value. Again, I cannot impress enough how deplorable the white man is here. It has to be seen...

Thailand, Taiwan, Korea, China or Japan?

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-28141-page-3.html

I know it sounds like an over-generalization, but it kind of seems that ESL teachers fall into to two categories: white guys with no game who want to give getting laid a try, so they go to some Pacific Rim country and hope the wealth disparity gives them that edge they need; and pedophiles who want to try out the underage hookers in Thailand or whatever.

I don't know, it's just that I've known at least three guys who have gone across the ocean to teach english, and they've all been dirtbags.

Tell me about it dude. Most of them don't even know how to teach or even have degrees. A lot of guys that get discharged in Korea stay here and teach english and make bank and use girls. And they don't even speak Korean!

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