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[–]spexerMRP APPROVED 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

pretty much my response when guys complain about harpy wives/dead bedrooms:

"Well, would you fuck you?"

I let that sit in the uncomfortable silence for a some long seconds, and then I add:

"I realized I wasn't such a prize about a year ago, and worked on becoming a man again. it's nice that she wants a lot of sex again, but I am still focused on becoming the best 'me.'

[–]bmunny1963Married 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

I was fit, decisive, a leader of men, I had a mission in life, masculine hobbies, and there was a little aspect of mystery

This might be true for some, but my guess is that in most instances, what attracted her was his stability and income after years on the carousel. Any "awakening" you want to help provide to male friends has to come in the form of self-improvement for its own sake rather than to increase or regenerate her attraction.

[–]saint_chalet 12ポイント13ポイント  (6子コメント)

You'll come across like some sort of social retard if you try putting your friends on a program.

Just keep improving, tell people what you're doing if they ask but for fucks sake, stop thinking you can open closed eyes.

[–]FriedHayek 0ポイント1ポイント  (4子コメント)

You'll come across like some sort of social retard if you try putting your friends on a program.

If I'm the strong guy giving a fat guy a program about lifting; why do I care about that? I am going to take a huge hit on my reputation, when fat guys only spend time with other fats?

It's a program of opening eyes. If they're too weak for lifting their eyelids, who would continue coaching that program?

[–]saint_chalet 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

the fat guy came to you, asking for a program. He came into the gym and said, "hey strong guy, can you teach me some stuff".

OP, from how I read this, is walking into Burger King and preaching...

totally different things.

[–]FriedHayek 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

OP, from how I read this, is walking into Burger King and preaching...

If you want someone to throw their drink on you, sure :)

[–]logger1234[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

"OP, from how I read this, is walking into Burger King and preaching..."

Where did you get that idea?

[–]saint_chalet 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Keeping the fat guy metaphors going

[–]agreatfuckinusername 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I've redpilled exactly ONE person. It was a casual conversation and he was already coming to most of these conclusions on their own. So while on a road trip I read to him the first 4 pages of Rational Male. He took it from there, asking me about book suggestions.

Every other attempt I've made has been an absolute failure. He has to already be there on his own for it to work. At which point, is it really red-pilling??

[–]The_LitzMRP APPROVED 6ポイント7ポイント  (3子コメント)

A little less conversation and more action please.

I'm a real life Dr. Fraser Crane. Identical. It is not my profession but somehow, at a BBQ with 15+ people I get sniffed out as the One that guys come to and tell me about how their lives suck and they want to end it all.

Nice guy Litz didn't want to fuck me in the toilets? Let's tell him how I was raped by a popular DJ when I was 15. If it happend just once, it would be a fluke, but it happens often.

Personal problems? Ask Dr. Litz when he comes to work.

The thing is, I care about people. Somehow they feel comfortable to open up and share with me.

I have stopped doing this. It does not add value to my life. It drains value. I get anxious thinking about their shit. Their shit is their shit. I am no longer fixing other peoples problems. Fixit Felix is out of bussiness.

The only thing I do now is point them in the direction of the gym. Of about 5 invitations not one has bothered to accept. Hamster problems/reasons. One or two guys I have told about NMMNG and said they need to read it. They don't even bother to find out who wrote it, because that is work and they just want validation. But that is it.

I chat to fellow men and we exchange RP principles, but I carefully choose guys that have their shit together in life.

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yup, you're only as valuabe as your availability

[–]screechhater [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Yep. Gotta put your time into you and your needs, if you point in a direction and they follow and start the work, great if not, too bad. And, nothing wrong with that

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Hey there. I'm that guy as well. Always been - no matter how fucked up my life seemed to me at that time... Always been the one people want to talk to. It comes with part of my job and my character. I embrace it and don't feel drained from it.

Office girl talks about her boyfriend ( a physical alpha) being needy- I'll say something like " well that's certainly not going to make you want to jump his bones " or simply " that's very unattractive". All of a sudden the girls around start wanting to spend time with me and some offer themselves as cc riders for me.

Guy says " whaa... My gf/ wife talked shitty to me!" - usual answer is among the lines of "huh- I wonder what you did that lets her feel that she can do that". Next thing I know I have a new gym buddy or poker buddy.

It doesn't take from my life ... But I certainly see how it could for people wired differently.

[–]Bread_Pilled 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

There comes a point in time when some men cease to be blind and begin to see clearly for the first time. The faults in their prior behavior become obvious. Their previous life becomes detestable. They have been living a lie, a sham, a life outside of who they truly are. They can finally see and are capable of finding their way here on their own.

Other men are not so lucky. They have been force-fed the mindset of placing women on a pedestal their entire life. It is all they know. These men have always been blind. If the veil is lifted from their eyes before they are ready, they will still be blind. They will not know what it is to truly see. They do not wish to see the reality of their situation.

Unfortunately, some men are just not ready. And if they aren't ready, what reason have you to explain RP concepts to them? Focus on yourself. Internalize your own improvement.

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 1ポイント2ポイント  (4子コメント)

Can barely handle the guys who 'want' to be here and don't bother to put in any work. I don't think I could take the ones who haven't even bothered to look for a solution to their problems yet.

[–]logger1234[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

that's why I don't suggest introducing them to MRP until they have actually done something.

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

I think we advocate the same level of interaction.

[–]SampsonBrass 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Imma run most likely if I see some Carrie Nation wannabe coming at me with an MRP hatchet lol. Most people would. The reformed are always the most zealous.

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah, shitty people need confirmation they aren't fucking up, herds as good as any for that I guess

[–]BobbyPeru 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

This is a decent guide. It might not be perfect, but I only say that because everything can use a tweak here or there and we are ALL on a learning curve, some farther than others.

When I first took the red pill, I was preaching it to just about anybody I talked to.

A lot of blank stares.

I follow the first rule religiously now.

[–]PersaeusMarried - MRP Approved 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

When I first took the red pill, I was preaching it to just about anybody I talked to. A lot of blank stares. I follow the first rule religiously now.

Funny, me too. Seems to be a common arc.