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The hardest thing about MGTOW (self.MGTOW)

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I'm a long time lurker and still finding my way after divorce from a complete nutjob ex-wife.

The hardest thing I've found about MGTOW is that men who go their own way must find validation of their beliefs, personhood, and physical self in something other than women.

This was a foreign concept to me for most of my life, as my worth was closely tied to the validation I received from women. If we want to be powerful men, we must learn to generate validation of ourselves from within, and for many, me included, that's not an easy feat.

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[–]project_mayhem_ 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

it sucks you had to go through whatever it was. it's good that you've found this place.

I suggest you focus first on modifying your behavior. your thoughts will organize themselves around your new habits. the old kneejerk responses in certain situations will start to slip away. your appetite for tearing down other men to build yourself up and to serve women against your own interest will evaporate. you will replace the illusions they gave you with meaning you decide for yourself. right now, it feels like you won't. right now, you feel like you are probably crazy for even reading what somebody called project mayhem on the MGTOW sub says. that's normal and even good. just take stock of what you need to do to survive day to day and be content. stay away from women and you will start to feel better.

some here will suggest having relationships with women, and merely avoiding emotional and legal entanglements. I am not one of these, though I don't hold it against them. however, for now, absolutely don't even be alone in a room with a woman. your mind isn't right at this time.