Thank you, unfortunately will be lookng into it
Thanks im really trying to do this. Time spent on this situation is better spent on videos helping the planet thats for sure. Going to bed now. Appreciate the support :)
I dont think that works online does it? If u find info on it working let me know.
It does feel like that! I’m not claiming to be perfect but who is? I honestly just hope he gets well soon.
Because he IS a good guy deep down, he has a good heart, I have never said otherwise BUT I really believe he is not well in the head. I was also somewhat manipulated at the time. He is also very under slept. I honestly think he loves to help people but if he feels wronged by a person (even if it’s not based in reality) he will do everything he can to destroy them, even his best friend. We’ve seen this vindictive behaviour from him before with others on the internet, I would say “Just let it go! move on now this is not worth it” but he was like a dog with a bone, he had tunnel vision, he would NOT give up regardless if it was productive or not. This is obviously really destructive behaviour and tbh I often wondered whether he would turn on me eventually. With our situation he feels extremely jealous and resentful that I left him and decided to move on. That is why he has chosen to slander me instead of support me. They say jealousy is one of the biggest motivators for murder so it shows you how powerful the emotion of jealousy is. He used to say “as long as you are happy, I am happy for you” but obviously he didn’t mean that. He needs to remember I’m not his enemy and never have been but he has put me in a position where I obviously need to defend myself against blatant lies and manipulation.
This might be one of the lowest lies yet. Think about it. How can I force someone to get a vasectomy?? That statement in itself tells smart people they are dealing with a manipulative liar. Does he think I held the scalpel to his groin and screamed “Get a vasectomy or else!!!” geezuz. The guy that I am seeing had wanted a vasectomy for months before we even starting seeing each other, he will confirm this no problem, he may even have videos talking about it. Of course it was his choice. It’s really ironic Harley aka Mr Vasectomy is saying I don’t like condoms (not true at all by the way), this is coming from a guy who slept with 4 women without condoms THEN lied to his partner of nearly 9 years that he hadn’t slept with any women! When I found out he had slept with all these women he insisted he used condoms then eventually admitted he didn’t use them at all! On a side note he slept with these 4 women in the space of 10 days and went back and forth with them the whole time.. no condom.
It’s obvious HE is the one who doesn’t like condoms and here we go once again Harley accusing other people of what he actually is doing/thinking himself.
Even recently in Chiang Mai I had to remind him to wear condoms! (Yes because I still cared). The irony of this comment below from him.
Well there you go, that says it all about his intentions. Why would someone who is such a ‘helpful cool guy’ threaten such a malicious thing? What a low blow. He is just not well.
Interestingly I also saw him deny that I caught him out shooting up the steroids. Hm. Not a surprise he would lie about that but he says he would never inject at night but Harley you and I both know it wasn’t at night, it was first thing in the morning when you thought I was asleep.
Good advice thank you :)
Oh brother. Ok. I have never EVER ‘lined harley up and punched him in the face’ geezuz this guy is out of control. You can see his goal is just to destroy me now. I agree we have definitely got into some small physical tussles over the course of the last decade spending 24/7 together yes but as expected he is desperately twisting everything! I mean anyone can see from how he is in his videos that he has tendencies towards aggression and domination. I remember when he pinned me against the wall frothing at the mouth during one of his rages and I’ve hit out towards him in defence yes & to get him off me but never aimed to punch him in the face or around the face.
I have pushed him yes, he has pushed me yes. I have hit the camera out of his hand out of frustration yes. I remember when we were having an argument about youtube (ironically) and in response I said a number of times that he was jealous of me doing better than him on youtube (which he is & hates to hear it) and he flew into a roid rage and punched me so hard in the leg that I legit could barely walk for the rest of the day. I think I may still have a photo of that too. One time he came at me swinging a bag and hit me right across the face with it leaving a scrape, he was apologetic but it still happened! Another situation I came up behind Harley when he was on the computer and was massaging his shoulders and then gave him a playful nibble on the ear and he was apparently sore on his ear and overreacted violently by lifting his hands up and hitting my face. It was incredibly painful and I was on the floor crying from it.
I wish he wouldn’t stoop this low now. It’s obvious he is just trying to hurt my reputation with anything he can think of now. It’s sad. If I was such an abusive horrible person then Mr HTFU wouldn’t try to get me back so badly and blackmail me etc, I can’t believe he is trying the victim card on this. Remember everything harley accuses others of, he is partaking in himself, drugs, abuse, cheating, it’s all becoming pretty obvious.
It definitely does sound like Harley
Thank you. It’s just crazy at this point! It’s an obvious melt down but I feel like he has to hit rock bottom before he can heal.
Thanks Ally :)