One of the fundamental ideas of the Red Pill is the difference between Alpha and Beta. It is often said that women will worship an alpha male, even in an LTR.
One aspect of this worship which I often see overlooked is the fact that it is both a blessing and a curse.
This post is mainly targeted at those who have already made the transformation to alpha behaviour, and see the benefits of it- I believe the negative aspect of being worshipped is often overlooked.
Background Biology
We all know that men and women are different- especially within biology. Men are physically larger, but have a greater chance of being stupid and emotionally unintelligent. Up until recently, biology required us to use our brawn, not our brains. We know that women are physically inferior, and in the biological world, this means they must make up for this deficiency in other areas. Most women are far more emotionally intelligent and ruthless than most males- this is by and large the case. Women need to be cunning, diligent and aware to ensure their survival in the nastiness of the world.
The Blessing and the Curse
Anyone who has played the role of the alpha in any LTR or relationship KNOWS that women respect and worship it. It seems you are able to get them to do almost anything, through the sheer power of your presence. This is intoxicating to some new Red Pillers, and they may miss the curse.
As the title says, women are chameleons. They are able to mould themselves into your liking if you are an alpha. If women want to latch on and attract an alpha, they will hide aspects of their character which they know you are'nt happy with. This can take many forms. A conservative alpha will find that many women cover up their binge drinking/drug use/promiscuity and pretend they are all on board with his morals (for the duration of the relationship). A vegetarian alpha will suddenly find women who want him turning vegetarian as if they had been their whole lives. An alpha musician will find women totally love all his music, wear his band shirts, dress like him and talk like him.
Now, this is somewhat beneficial, but it leads to the problem of fake women. Women who secretly disagree with your lifestyle choices but put up with it to latch on to an alpha. Anyone considering an LTR should be VERY careful of this behaviour. Besides the presence of an alpha, women are also extremely prone to trends- they want to fit in. Whatever their friends are doing, they will do it too, regardless of their supposed moral code or personality. Look at how many successful marketing campaigns have occurred through the power of female gossip, groupthink and desire to fit in.
In my experience I have found women who talk badly about their friends behaviour (binge drinking, drugs), only to see them doing the EXACT SAME thing after our LTR ended. I have been with women who claim to agree with me on conservative social opinions, and then live life in the opposite manner post break-up. Women mould themselves to fit your persona/style/morals and this is both a blessing and a curse.
Conclusion
Anyone who is thinking of an LTR or any meaningful relationship should be ultra-aware of the chameleon-like attitude of women. Do not be impressed by the supposed "similarity" of yourself with any attractive girl- she is most likely faking it to attract you, and it often works. Women will do whatever they can to fit in, and be wary of current trends that may counter your personal morality.
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