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Need advice about girl friend.... (self.MGTOW)

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What should I do about my Girl Friend?

Me (31) M

Her (34) F

Pro's

  • Company / Friendship

  • Sex

  • Is attractive

Cons

  • She doesn't have a job

  • We both have bipolar, she may have more than just bipolar

I'm honestly not sure what to do. I tried to break up with her a bunch of times but we ended up meeting each other physically somehow and getting back together, last time it was through the church, however I have recently converted to atheism so it won't happen through the church. Last time I blocked her phone+email for at least 3 months until we both went to same bible study.

Honestly, she's nice to have around (well, as long as it's not like 24/7). She has a stable Dad (programmer) and a crazy mother who doesn't work. For some reason they allow her to stay home and not go to work and go to hospitalization programs instead.

Honestly I'm not sure if I have the heart to break up with her again, but will probably eventually do so the next time she cracks (starts to act AWALT crazy).

I feel sorry for her and I like her company, but I have a feeling it will have to end and I don't want to end up supporting her and a child, because by definition she would be like a child to take care off too with her lack of job.

I make decent cash as a programmer and I'm not sure if she's just in it for the bucks or if she actually likes me, I say this because I have had little success with women in my life, I'm not a chad, probably somewhere close to the spectrum myself.

I think I might just wait until the next time she goes crazy and then try to break things off again? I'm confused MGTOW, even though I shouldn't be. What do you think?

Last time she went AWALT crazy, she got mad at me because she couldn't handle a kitchen stove by herself sigh

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[–]Trilobite96 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Didn't read whatever you wrote because the fact you have a girlfriend is the problem. Dump that bitch and run my friend.

[–]Eyes_Of_The_Dragon 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wrong sub. Head over to TwoX where they'll tell you everything is your fault and you should let her fuck Chads and raise their babies.

[–]Jodasons87 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

RUN

[–]spookyemperor 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Take it from me mate, a woman that has no job and no money is bad news. If she genuinely can't find work that's one thing, but most chronically unemployed people are simply looking to glide through life as easily as possible. Choose what you think is best, but just know that if you ever choose to take her in and financially support her, you'll probably end up with an even bigger headache. Good luck. Selah.

[–]Jodasons87 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

But it doesn't sound like you will, because most men would not have even let it get that far.

Your life, either stand up or be ruled...no one can act for you.

RUN, 34, RUN, get a younger woman.

her babies rabies will be kicking in soon, then you're in for real crazy.

[–]aanarchist 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

you're her dad and she's her mom. it's even down to you both have the same job. look at their relationship and ask yourself if you want to be a watered down version of what they are.

if you want to be with her you're gonna have to stop feeling things when it comes to her. women with emotional disorders need a dark triad sociopath who doesn't respond to her behaviors.

[–]muscacavalcade 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Here, see this animated procedure. This is a different context but it works as well.

https://i.imgur.com/8RXhbLz.gifv

Seriously, this is a wrong sub for you, dude.

she may have more than just bipolar

And you ask what you should do. Deep down I bet you know what should but you deliberately choose to ignore it.

[–]AoriMVR 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

You need to read into BPD (borderline personality disorder). If she has it then stay the fuck away. BIG TIME! Really any mental disorder where shes basically disabled and cant work means youre a carer. Do you want to be a carer for the rest of your life?

[–]Arzu1982 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wrong Sub and you live with her

My advise DTB aka Dump That Bitch