As a woman, I agree with 95% of the ideology of MGTOW. I'm so glad I found this community. These have always been my ideals, but try discussing this with any other female and you get attacked. Everyone disagrees with me. I'm writing this at 2:30am on mobile so apologies for any errors.

One of my best friends identifies as a feminist, I absolutely do not. She has told me on many occasions that she is "disappointed that I don't call myself a feminist" as if I am disrespecting myself and other women. She says "I've been brainwashed by men." What bullshit.

Feminism is literally just a hate group towards males. I understand that historically females have been disadvantaged. But expecting men of today's society to pay for something that happened long ago, that is just perpetuating the problem. Not to mention that the gender argument is ridiculous. Neither gender has it harder. Yeah women have to go through crazy hormonal mood swings every month, go through the nightmare of pregnancy, and generally being weaker, scared to go out alone. But men have just as many problems. Society's idea that men should 'man up' and get over their problems with no support, leads to a higher suicide rate in men. Society tells men that they should pay for dates and give money to their wives even if she isn't upholding her duties. Custody battles are biased towards women. Both genders have their problems, but everyone deserves respect. Feminism is not the solution to anything. Feminists do not respect men.

The main problem feminists seem to have is not understanding that men and women are fundamentally different on a physical and psychological level. They take it as a personal offence when people say that men are stronger, or better at maths or driving. But you don't see them complaining when people say women are better at anything, like multitasking. A lot of women just have this strange sense of superiority, which doesn't really make sense considering how many women don't actually accomplish much in life apart from popping out a few kids. And really, all they needed was for a man to cum in them. They're biologically programmed to do the rest. Instead of arguing with these differences, I don't understand why feminists can't accept them.

My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and the only thing he has ever paid for is our first date. Everything else we split evenly between us. I think it is so wrong of women to expect men hand over THEIR hard earned pay basically because they think they're entitled to this in exchange for sex. If a relationship is based on mutual respect, sex is not a bargaining tool. It does not entitle you to anything. I'm a strong believer that women should be employed instead of sponging off their partners income. If they are being a freeloader, they should at least pull their weight in the relationship through looking after the household.

I think in a relationship it's important to have a good balance of give and take. And really, if two people truly love each other it should just become effortless. I think a lot of people get lazy once they've settled down, and forget to appreciate how much their SO does for them. For people to cheat after knowing how much their partner has done for them just makes no sense to me. Even if I wasn't sexually satisfied in my relationship, I would never cheat. I'm in love. It's unconditional. We are best friends and we make each other happy. I don't understand how anyone can have a good relationship when it is so one sided. In my opinion women are especially good at taking and not giving enough back.

There are so many double standards I don't know where to begin. It scares me so much to think women generally get less time in prison than males who commit the same crimes. The same with race, but that's a whole other problem. The justice system is so fucked up. If you commit a crime, you should be willing to accept the consequences. When women are let off lightly or without consequence it sends a message that they are above the law, just because they have a vagina. And the fact that two drunk people can have consensual sex and when the woman regrets it the next day and can file false rape allegations. That absolutely infuriates me the most. That some spoiled little bitch can just ruin someone's life with one false allegation. No one deserves that. Even if he's proven innocent, the allegations still would have such a negative impact on his life. It makes me so sad for the men who have been through this.

If women ever want to be treated the same as men, maybe they should actually do something about it instead of trying to bring men down. Want to close the wage gap? Find a job in a better paying industry. Want men to respect you? Live independently. Make your own wages and learn to actually look after yourself. Don't sleep around. Some men will never respect women, but respecting yourself is at least a start. Women can sleep around if they really want, just don't go expecting respect from anyone.

Most of the time feminists haven't even experienced first hand disadvantage. Maybe if they found something better to do with their time other than continuing the problem, they wouldn't be so miserable. Out of all the people I've met in my life, men are by far the nicest. They have a good sense of humour, they are good at including everyone, and are so easy going. I completely agree that most women have a stick up their asses. Women love to exclude people. It's our biggest flaw no doubt.

Good on you all for doing what you do. If I were a man I'd probably do the same. Women are generally entitled and disrespectful. I can completely understand why you chose to go your own way.

That's my view, I could go on forever. Everything I've ever wanted to say but no one would listen. Please just remember that not all women are completely insane. It's just a shame there isn't more of us.