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Married Young Miserable no Kids (self.MGTOW)

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Hi, I married young and have been depressed for 8 years with this woman. I convince myself that I love her but masturbate constantly to porn and even to cams sometimes. I come from an evangelical religious background and was a virgin before I met her. We had sex before marriage for a year or two but I soon married her and regretted it soon afterward. I felt controlled. Now I am trying to muster the strength to leave. She is crazy and I feel the smartest thing to do would be to leave a note and go. She and her family are something else when it comes to anger. I have trouble conniving my emotional self of the rational and mustering the self esteem and confidence to leave and head Southwest. I need some help. Signed a man who married way too young yet hasn't had children yet....

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[–]muscacavalcade 2ポイント3ポイント  (3子コメント)

Maybe older guys that managed to divorce with the least damage can help you there. Tip: [in jigsaw voice] you will have to play a game.

[–]ryanrowan[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

yea I just don't j=know what that game is. I hate my job. I feel sorry/emotionally connected to my wife, I hat my life, I want to move and go Alex Supertramp on everyone. I want to throw away my phone and leave.... yet something keeps holding me back from the thing I know I need to do that is holding me back. Weird paradox

[–]muscacavalcade 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Be grateful that you haven't realized that at your deathbed.

Reconstruct your self-respect and self-confidence little by little and let's say that your next 30 years are likely to be peaceful and delightful years. No drama. Increasingly near perfect plenitude.

This regretful moment of your life shall pass as long as you get out of your learned helplessness state.

[–]Eyes_Of_The_Dragon 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Since no kids are involved, you can probably get a quickie divorce. Alimony might be an option for her since you've been married for so long, though. If you are financing your house, there will be a battle over it. And if she hasn't been working, then the court will make you pay.

Find a lawyer with a free consultation in your area.

And for heaven's sake, when you spring this on her, she may try to have sex with you to trap you with a baby. Don't have sex with her anymore.

[–]muscacavalcade 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Good points there. Make sure she is working and watch out for pregnancy entrapment.

[–]ryanrowan[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

ps she hasn't had children either. she dated in high school and she was my first. she is in school and i am desperate to feel free and alive again and not shackled to someone who fills a bitter motherly role instead of a nurturing partner role.

[–]Knotyeti 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Don't worry she'll leave you in the dust soon after she graduates and you can start afresh from there.

[–]binrobinro 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Leave a note and go.

[–]Saintmyname 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Tell her to leave and face the wrath. We gain strength through action.