Dear Blue Pill Men:

[Bayerische MotorenParticipant 5731]

Dear Blue Pillers and people wanting to get married,

We all know marriage is a raw deal for men and perhaps many of us were drawn to the Red Pill or MGTOW in some form or fashion because we saw female nature and understood it or at least experienced it.

But even when you consider the rosy blue pill dream of a marriage with the woman you love, you can still derive the conclusion that marriage is still bad and you shouldn’t do it if you just put a few moments of thought into it. We can prove this using Blue Pill logic and reasoning (and some science) without having to apply any Red Pill thinking.

Out of the line of reasoning is anything related to “female nature”, “hypergamy”, the “state (i.e. courts favoring the women in custody, etc.)”, and so on. Anything in the side bar, we can throw out and we’ll still arrive at the conclusion that you shouldn’t get married.

The average man wants to get married with a woman he loves. Already, making a lifetime commitment based on temporary emotions should be a huge flag for irrational behavior. As science or any history of having a “crush” on someone will tell you, these feelings are merely temporary. The technical term for those “butterflies in your stomach” or a “crush” is “limerence” which has been recognized as a transient state of mind that only lasts 18 months to 3 years. In other words, the emotions you feel towards a person will only last for approximately that time. And you want to make a lifetime commitment based on something that everyone knows to be temporary?

Historically speaking, marriage was a contract for financial security but that’s wading into a pool of Red Pill knowledge I’m trying to avoid. Let’s just say for now that temporary emotions shouldn’t be a basis for a long term commitment.

So…. maybe your idea of a marriage doesn’t just depend on love. Maybe it also depends on something else you two share. Well, people change. Whatever you two have may not be there 10 years down the road. The people you’re with, the things you like may change as well and you won’t be the same person 10 years later. You might mature, slow down, and desire stability in life and she probably won’t like you anymore. She might still want to be on that emotional rollercoaster because it gives her something to talk about and adds spice into her life.

Are you prepared for that possibility? And are you capable of accepting the worst case scenario: divorce and her taking half your assets? If you’re not prepared, much like many decision people make in life, you shouldn’t do the action. Namely, you shouldn’t get married.

No matter if you’re Red Pill or Blue Pill, you can fundamentally understand that if you’re making a choice, you accept the consequences of that choice for better or for worse. While it is rational to dodge responsibility because it is just a liability when the consequences are negative, a decent human being knows how to accept it.

And it is at this point if you cannot accept responsibility for your own actions and decisions, nothing anyone says will convince you of anything so why are you reading this?
Finally, maybe you’re utterly convinced that this will never happen to you. That you’re special. That’s a nice ego you have there but really, at that point, if you’re thinking you’re special in every regard and you can disregard facts because they don’t apply to you, then no amount of reasoning can ever help you. You’re trapped in your own emotions and ego that you actually deserve whatever comes your way.

So in conclusion, no matter how you look at marriage, you should understand that marriage is still a choice, not a responsibiltiy. You therefore bear the responsibilty of making that choice. If you believe you’re in that 1 out of a million who can make it work, then go for it because nothing anyone says will convince you anyway. But for those on the fence and still thinking about it, just be prepared for the consequences.
We’ll be sitting on the sidelines watching you guys burn your own lives.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f7euJch719U When I see MGTOW... I see the true greatness of men

[MGTOWParticipant 23011]

Dear Blue Pill Men, keep feeding the monster feminism has created (modern women) and someday you to will be eaten by it’s insatiable appetite!

They say; “to big to fail”

I say; “to big to survive”

Governments mingle to the point of mangle, living proof, Brookhaven Condemned Family Campground, since 1974. Governmental Matrimony; mingled and mangled since 1863. Full speed ahead…

[AwakenedParticipant 79]

You have a very logical post that makes complete sense, and is rationally thought out. Unfortunately, once a man is in “love”, and his brain becomes far less rational and logical. His ability to make rational decisions is comparable with that of your average crack head. Knowing this, I can appreciate why so many men don’t even want to play around with dating etc. because we are only human, and once women begin to MANipulate us emotionally we may get sucked into their trap. This explains to me how men can get involved in multiple marriages etc.

Bayerische Motoren wrote:

But even when you consider the rosy blue pill dream of a marriage with the woman you love, you can still derive the conclusion that marriage is still bad and you shouldn’t do it if you just put a few moments of thought into it. We can prove this using Blue Pill logic and reasoning (and some science) without having to apply any Red Pill thinking.

[NoParticipant 13767]

The children become a time trap.

It takes about 22 years to get them from diapers into their career job, though college.

I have three years to go.

It was interesting how easy it was to get married but just try getting out of it. I CALL BULLSHIT AND FRAUD.

Mgtow will be attacked and attacked because it ends the slave market of men. And pulling over $1 to $1.5M from the lifetime of debt will fuck things up fast in society.

Hitlery will come out of the gate on a witch hunt with her old fashioned shaming of men and then we’ll see mgtow channels on youtube fold.

I do encourage you all to acquire a membership and set it and forget it for Keymaster so he has the resources needed to keep the red pill pharmacy open.

Awakened While Married AWM..many will come here and find freedom.

All men in time are unhappy in marriage.

Mgtow of Honor: Keymaster for being like Moses, Kaido, Hitman for peace, understanding and leading the way, Varun for mastering the word NO. ***You do NOT hate women. They just ARE. Free your mind and focus on YOU. After red pill rage resolves comes peace and happiness. MGTOW TRUTH! ZERO HATE, PURE PEACE. Restarting Your Life MGTOW SUMMARY: THE BIG PICTURE, Why MGTOW?

[may 7 2020Participant 164]

Dear Blue Pill Man,

You are an idiot. Watch my lips, I’ll type slower here… You…..are…..an…..idiot.

If you knew you were going to go through half the shit I have been through because of a woman I thought was special, you would shoot yerself. Twice in case the first one didn’t take.

But hey, what do I know? I am not you, and I’m not in love with the one snowflake who understands you, who completes you and you can’t wait to wife her up.

You are an idiot.

Take a breath, and a day off, and go where there are lots of people with their families, the mall. I will bet you my left testicle that there is not one happy man with his woman there. NOT ONE!. Look at these men. Look carefully at their posture, their walking stride and pace. These men are walking like women, rounded shoulders, short strides, no purpose. Walking slowly, shuffling along, stooped over pushing a stroller, leaned over to hold hands with someone shorter, spine all kinked over. That will be you someday. Don’t be these idiots.

I was at a mall buying pants for work recently. I found the one shelf with the pants, picked my size, tried them on, dressed in what I wore going in, paid for them and left in about 5 minutes. In the changing room next to me was a man and a woman. She was telling him what to wear, what shirt to try on with the pants. A fully grown, fully mental functional man with his woman in the dressing room. Someday, that will be you. Your woman will pick your clothing, help you try them on, and then critique how you look. Don’t be this idiot.

Since being divorced, I spent days wondering why I got mixed up in the special snowflake I married. She was a disaster…big debt that I paid off. Insane family life that I tolerated. Nasty attitude that I endured. Crazy sex that covered all her faults. Jealousy, uncontrollable rage, lack of logic, interfering in tasks I was working on, and threats of driving into bridges when arguments didn’t go her way. I thought she would eventually grow up into a rational human being. Nope, it all got worse over time. I was an idiot. Like you are, only I was an idiot in 1998 when I got married. I had already been put through 3 years of shit tests, and an “oops” baby when I decided it would be the responsible thing to marry the mother of my child, for the child’s sake. That child just turned 18 last week. I would be free except we had another child, conceived after the September 11 disaster. Again, I was an idiot. I am still on the hook for another $22,000 until May 7, 2020. I could have a new Miata, drive it around and in a couple years it’ll still be worth $10,000. Now, my $22,000 goes to a woman who makes nearly $200,000 a year. She spends $22,000 a year on vacations. That money is pissed away on trips to Europe, cruises to third world islands in the Caribbean, and two weeks at Disney World, in the resorts. I was an idiot. Don’t be my kind of idiot.

And I got off easy, no lifetime alimony, not 18 years of child support, no college payments, no constant trips to pick up my kids, no Chad Thundercock sent to pick my kids up from me. OMG dudes she sent her Thundercock to drive an hour and a half to our court designated pick up point, not once, but 36 times! Laugh out fucking loud! Every time she would be in his big ass pickup truck making him drive to the pick up point so she could sleep on the way out and back. This would be a total of $300 in gas and snacks and 12 hours of wasted time a month. He did this for 18 months until I moved 3 states away. Total cash loss for Chad Thundercock, $5400. He is her slave. He is an idiot. Don’t be an idiot.

So Mr. Blue Pill whether you are contemplating marriage for the first time, or are seeing a single mother, you are an idiot. I doubt you will ever find this little tidbit of wisdom, let alone this website. Your woman will shut down any search that leads you here. But if you do find this site too late like I did, let me be one of the thousands, no, millions to say to you, “I told you so. You are an idiot.”

Have a day Blue Piller.

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