I witnessed a man seeing his children for the first time in 4 years today. She left town with the kids and it took the courts that long to straighten shit out. He was emotionally distraught upon seeing them. He could not contain his happiness to be reunited with his children. The 13 year old girl, brainwashed, would not look at him. The 11 year old was shy but gave him a hug by the end of the 2 hour visit. After I chatted with him and he said he had no one to talk to. I told him about MGTOW and he seemed to find comfort in what I told him. I have decided to use my knowledge of the AA 12 step program and put together something for MGTOW. I took out the word "God" and changed a few things up. Tell me what you think:

                                                   The 12 Steps for MGTOW

1 We admitted we were powerless over women and their genetic defects, and they have made our lives unmanageable.

Basically this step is acceptance that things are messed up and gotta change.

2 Came to believe that we need some help to restore our sanity.

Yes, women have driven many of us insane. We can't handle everything on our own. We need some help and encouragement to recover.

3 Made a decision to turn to our MGTOW brothers to show us the way.

We said in step 2 we can't do it alone. Turn to people who have been there and have the experience to help.

4 Made a searching and fearless inventory of ourselves.

We deal with resentments here. We can't live a quality life if we are angry and resentful. We write down who harmed us, how they harmed us and see we have really been hurt. Then we consider these people as "spiritually sick", or just "fucked up". We can't be mad at a sick person. Women are all the same, fucked up. Accept that and move on. We also look at where we were wrong. We look at how we sold out for women, how we did not love ourselves first. We take responsibility for that.

5 Admitted to ourselves and someone else the nature of our wrongs.

Being free of hate, we tell someone else about our shortcomings. We all have them. We tell someone how we sold out.

6 Were entirely ready to have our character flaws removed.

Seeing our ways, we are ready to never get into a relationship with a women again. We are ready to start looking after ourselves and living our life.

7 Humbly ask your MGTOW brothers to remove your character flaws.

We want our brothers to call us on our shit, see when we are slipping into dangerous thinking that can lead to relapse. We need to ask our brothers for help and see how they have recovered. We ask them what makes them happy now, and ask for help to see a new path. Our MGTOW brothers actually remove our defects when we follow them.

8 Made a list of people we have hurt and be willing to make amends to them.

If there are people who we hurt, we need to be prepared to pay debts and make amends. In our new life we can't have the shame or guilt on us. We need to start our new life with a clean slate.

9 Make amends wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them our others.

It can be as simple as a letter, and starting to pay debts. To be a man again, you need the weights off your back in order to fly. If the other person doesn't accept it, that is their problem, you are free. 

10 Continue to take personal inventory and when wrong admit it.

Resentments can come back, or new ones can pop up. Remember that all women are the same.....they are sick and fucked up. It isn't their fault they were born this way. Feel sorry for them, they have no idea which way is up half the time. Look at your own faults and deal with them. If you are feeling pissed off or don't have serenity...you have a resentment somewhere. Go do step 4 again.

11 Sought through asking for help and listening to your MGTOW brothers what your next step should be and how to move forward. They will give you strength to move forward towards your new life.

It takes a while to get over an ex and all the damage. You are getting your manhood back. How will you use it? You need to depend on your MGTOW brothers because they have been where you are. You need your brothers encouragement and strength. Ask for it. Talk to people.

12 Having had this awakening and awareness that you will live a better life without women as a result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to men everywhere, be of service to our brothers, and practice these principles in all our affair.

To recover and grow, we share the MGTOW message to other men. By doing the steps, and asking for help from our brothers, we are happy, joyous and free. The old bitter resentful person is gone, and we will seek out our dreams and enjoy life. No woman can ever bring us down again, because we are MEN and we go our own way.

I hope this helps someone. Feel free to take what you need and leave the rest.

We can be men again and live our dreams and no woman can affect us.