This is copy/pasted from a highly entitled (fat, which is hilarious) woman I was talking with on OKC:

I can't lie I'm old fashioned in the since where is you are courting me I expect you to show me your stable and able to support me if ever needed witch does include paying for the first day

I know that's why I normally don't date. I own my home no mortgage. I own my own car brand new no payments. I own my own business. I have sole custody of my son and have yet to meet a man who can match me or earn my respect in that. That's why I just stay hopeful but don't actively look.

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So, in essence, a man earns your respect by paying for things you yourself could already afford? No thank you. No thank you very much, go away, and go die alone, you gold-digging tramp.