You dont want to go to the plantation. Its a place of ball crushing suffering and dream killing and I firmly believe that men are nothing without their dreams.

Since when did growing a pair start to imply that you can only do so by voluntarily fucking yourself over. I prefer being "the man" and enjoying life without fatties and kids.

Man up hurr durr. Ask them whats in it for you and enjoy their confusion because believe me you wont get a straight answer.