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30F Am I ugly ? (self.amiugly)

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https://m.imgur.com/a/0ACLE Do you think I could date interracially ?

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[–]powerslave118 13ポイント14ポイント  (4子コメント)

4/10 - Far too big and you wear far too much makeup. I feel like there is potential, but the weight and makeup HAS to go.

[–]MrWROLguy 15ポイント16ポイント  (31子コメント)

FAT VERY FAT

[–]Nyong41 1ポイント2ポイント  (17子コメント)

Sorry but yes you are, to me. I'm not into black girls naturally but your lips are massive. Everyone has different tastes.

[–]Lisajane24[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (16子コメント)

You've never met an attractive black girl ?

[–]Nyong41 2ポイント3ポイント  (15子コメント)

I can't think of one, sorry.

[–]Lisajane24[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (13子コメント)

You don't find any of these women attractive https://m.imgur.com/a/Ehhuo

[–]Nyong41 -1ポイント0ポイント  (12子コメント)

Yeah. You really picked some bad examples too. A lot were hideous and one even looked like a tranny.

[–]Lisajane24[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (11子コメント)

I guess beauty is subjective because these are all supermodels .

[–]Nyong41 -2ポイント-1ポイント  (10子コメント)

Yeah and? The model industry seems to be chosen by gay people.

[–]Lisajane24[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (9子コメント)

What do you dislike about black women ?

[–]Nyong41 -1ポイント0ポイント  (8子コメント)

It's kind of a two part thing. One is the fact that I don't see them the way I see other women. Kind of like how my brain would never find men attractive. Two, features why, I really don't like their hair, large lips and usually their nose.

[–]Lisajane24[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (5子コメント)

Do you live in an area with a large black population?

[–]epistellarjovian 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Many of the black women she linked to above had none of those features. For the sake of everyone living on the planet with you, please do some introspection about why you feel this way.

[–]Terran_Too_Stronk 7ポイント8ポイント  (11子コメント)

3/10 overweight and I wouldn't date you.

[–]Lisajane24[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (10子コメント)

Is it just the weight ?

[–]MrWROLguy 8ポイント9ポイント  (8子コメント)

Yes its the weight.. Eatless Move More.

[–]Lisajane24[S] -5ポイント-4ポイント  (7子コメント)

I workout every other day . You shouldn't assume every overweight person is a gluttonous slob .

[–]NAHthatAINTmeYo 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Unfortunately your pictures do nothing to prove otherwise. Work hard at it and focus yourself to a better lifestyle. Both you AND your body will appreciate it.

[–]MrWROLguy 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

See is believing... your fat. If you eat more calories than you need you get FAT. only way to get unfat is EATLESS MOVE MORE. Calorie deficit.

[–]WhatIsThisAccountFor 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Just because you work out, doesn't mean you're actually doing anything productive. You can go to the gym and take as many selfies as you want, but if you're walking for 5 minutes then using the steam room for 25 it's not gonna do anything for you.

How about this, run 2 miles every other day, then call the workout you're doing now an actual workout.

[–]24isnotreal -1ポイント0ポイント  (3子コメント)

What's your workout routine like? You ought to smash it in whatever cardio you do.

Run four to five times per week. Start short, maybe half a mile, if you are consistent you'll be running at least 3 miles four to five times per week within about two months.

The pounds will drop off.

[–]Lisajane24[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

I walk around the block .

[–]24isnotreal 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's a great start.

But if you want to lose weight (not that you have to, you can do whatever you want) but if you do want to get to a more healthier weight, somewhere between a size 10 to 15, and if you want to do it quick. Run. It won't take long, 6 months max IMO.

[–]AnalObserver 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

That....is better than nothing, but if you are hoping that is going to lead to noticeable amounts of weight loss I think you will be disappointed.

You're burning maybe 100-150cals, possibly less, doing this.

As a rule of thumb, you need to be running a caloric deficit of 500cals a day to lose 1lb a week.

I do think you could find an interracial relationship, but I can't say I personally find you attractive in large part due to your weight.

[–]slightlynormal 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's hard to say. You look like you would be very attractive without the weight, but I can't really say for sure until you do lose it. You have nice skin, decent symmetry, full lips, and soft eyes, but it's all overshadowed by the weight.

[–]miss_originality 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hi, bisexual female here.

Listen, you are overweight. That's just a fact. And being overweight isn't typically attractive as it's a sign of unhealthiness and can be seen as a sign that someone doesn't care enough about themselves to stay in shape. I'm not saying this is your case, but this is how we, as humans, subconsciously process it.

To be considered pretty to just about everyone, get within a normal, healthy weight, and learn how to do makeup. Right now I think your makeup, especially the brows, is too much. I'd suggest keeping it somewhat natural, using foundation, concealer, powder, eyeliner, mascara, eyebrow pencils and powders, and some tinted lip balm as your regular routine. But please PLEASE watch some beauty guru makeup tutorials (Michelle Phan is pretty much good universally) on YouTube before. Always have that as a reference.

Also, look into how to dress yourself. A "flared" top with a horizontally striped skirt isn't the best combo, and only makes you look larger than you actually are.

Hope this helps 😊

[–]Maxwell_RN 1ポイント2ポイント  (5子コメント)

2.5/10. Not good

[–]namidya 1ポイント2ポイント  (5子コメント)

Would it be weird if I said I want to bite your lip? Looks appetizing.

[–]Lisajane24[S] -3ポイント-2ポイント  (4子コメント)

Thanks , your the only one who answered nicely/ truthfully.

[–]throwaway53k5 21ポイント22ポイント  (0子コメント)

Everyone else in this thread says you're fat. So what do you do? You cherry picked the ONE answer that says otherwise. Clearly everyone else was lying to hurt your feelings. Delusion at its finest.

[–]FuckYourNarrative 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Why did you post here?

[–]Sarioth 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

White guy here. I'd be alllllll about your look. I'm not exactly typical/mainstream in my tastes but holy shit your lips turn me on. Constructive criticism: i like your hair best in the first picture (although those headwraps are sexy as well), and think you might be overdoing it a little on the makeup game.

[–]ButtersGettingHard 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

24/M, straight guy here.

Basically you're not ugly, but you're a very large woman and personally that's not my thing. I really like your face and hair in the 2nd picture more than I do in any other. Also in every other picture your style can be described as Sunday dress/traditional African attire. I'm not African so I don't particularly care for that kind of cultural wear, which is also why I liked the second pic the most because you're wearing what I consider normal clothes with a bit of style (hat).

Your choices in terms of accessories also adds to your size. The huge earrings, the faux-fur scarf...it all makes you seem visually larger. Now I'm reading through some of your replies to the comments in here and in one you said that you thought men liked women with some meat on them. Some do, but a lot don't. And of those that say they do, they probably mean it in a very specific way. I guess the best way to describe it is with arbitrary statistics. Right now you probably appeal to maybe 2-5% of the general population. Lose some serious weight and maybe you'll appeal to a larger number, maybe 20-30% of the population.

And before you ask me if I'm attracted to black women, let me say that I am, but only some.

So to answer your question, yes I think you could date interracially, but chances of that happening now and as you are, are realistically slim. I hope this post was sufficiently detailed, but feel free to ask questions if you have any.

[–]TheJusteee 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Let's admit it - you are fat. Don't deny it. And if your friends are fat too, that doesn't make you any slimmer (so you can skip the excuse about 70% americans). Also, you are not hourglass - you have big upper and smaller lower body. And men not only like size 2 twigs, but also bigger girls, but not THAT bigger (most of them). So, get rid of excuses, join a gym ("walking around the block" to the nearest mcdonalds is not exercise), fix your attitude problems( judging from your comments - weight is not the only thing that scare away the guys). Good luck!

[–]Lisajane24[S] -4ポイント-3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thanks for comment, I do believe I could lose a few pounds .I think the reason why I'm getting hate is because white men are intimidated by a women with a strong personality.

[–]DudeNudem3 -3ポイント-2ポイント  (3子コメント)

Sorry but yes, you are a bit ugly. the problem is you are very fat.

2/10

[–]Lisajane24[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

Am I ugly because of my weight or I'm just ugly and fat ?

[–]DudeNudem3 7ポイント8ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yes you are ugly because of your weight. Fat is ugly. Fat makes you ugly. You can't divorce the two. There is no such thing as a big, beautiful woman.

Will you be pretty thin? I have no idea because all of your features are hidden in fat. I can guarantee that if you get to a normal weight you will look 100% better though.

[–]itsjurboy 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Best advice in this thread

[–]justarating 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Whether you could date interacially is an odd question. What race do you want to date? I think the head wrap could be a turn off, if youre not in Africa. A head wrap like that in the US is as much a political statement as a style statement.

[–]Drunkest_Ninja -5ポイント-4ポイント  (3子コメント)

Disgustingly fat. You barely have a neck....

[–]Lisajane24[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

Do you like my facial features?

[–]Drunkest_Ninja 5ポイント6ポイント  (1子コメント)

What facial structures? Everything is covered in fat. You don't have facial features.

[–]Lisajane24[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Do you like my eyes , nose or lips ?

[–]DongerTrump -3ポイント-2ポイント  (2子コメント)

Yeah, we're gonna need some verification on this. Every reply reeks of bait.

[–]Lisajane24[S] -4ポイント-3ポイント  (1子コメント)

How so ? where I'm from everyone is my weight so I'm having a hard time understanding why everyone thinks it's unattractive.I don't think I'm overweight .

[–]24isnotreal 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Unfortunately in Western society at least, you would certainly be considered obese.

And you mentioned in your post that you specifically want to know if you could date interracially, well of course there are guys out there who won't mind the weight, but I'd say a good 7/10 guys you come across will not take too favorably to someone who is overweight.

[–]battle-of-evermore -5ポイント-4ポイント  (3子コメント)

Attractive, but overweight. (white male here) Wouldn't date because of weight, not colour.

[–]Lisajane24[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

So if I lost some weight . You would find me attractive?

[–]battle-of-evermore 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

If you got down to a normal weight, then probably. The potential is there, you're not ugly at all

[–]pckp 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Lose the weight and then we'll tell you

[–]ModeratorsAreDouches -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're not ugly. But I think that you need to ease down on the make up, and get in better shape. That's all really. Then you'll be good to go. Best of luck to you when you hit the dating scene, not that you will really need it.

[–]-redditardation- -4ポイント-3ポイント  (0子コメント)

NO YOU ARE NOT ugly but your size isn't doing you favours. You do wear a lot of makeup so it is hard to tell your true features but I think if you dropped to a normal range weight you would be a pretty girl.

I do not see any reason why you couldn't date inter-racially but it really comes down to what the person is into.

Don't let all the harsh posts drag you down. You're NOT UGLY just over-weight.

[–]markofthebeast143 -4ポイント-3ポイント  (4子コメント)

Of course you can date interracial. I've known guys that love thick black chicks, and one them was a Elsalvadorian. Your a niche market.

[–]Lisajane24[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

Am I niche market because I'm thick , black or thick and black ?

[–]markofthebeast143 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Both. Guys out there that love thick black women.

[–]Sadgrl93 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's called Salvadorian, not Elsalvadorian. Lol

[–]Bluebeeb -5ポイント-4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Girl you have a pretty face you just need to drop 40 or 50 lbs. calculate your tdee and eat 20 or 25% less than that each day.