Extremely high rates of promiscuity amongst both men and women is another very important reason that some men choose MGTOW. The problem is societal wide and cultural and does affect both women and men, but as the purpose of this essay is about men choosing not to marry promiscuous women, the focus will remain on women, and why they are being outright rejected by MGTOW men as possible wives or mothers due to their promiscuous lifestyles.
It cannot be disputed of the exceptionally high rates of promiscuity amongst people of all ages now. Starting while still in high school and then continuing on from there, sex is cheap, worthless, and is given away freely at a whim, and often done in some rather nasty ways. Sex can be given away anywhere, at any time, and to anyone or with multiple people at once. The numbers of intimate partners means absolutely nothing to so many men and women any more, and the numbers of partners can be shockingly high.
And as most are also aware, the nature of the sexual acts being done is now far more feral and debasing. And both men and women will do these basest sex acts with strangers, and with many many partners in one night stands and short term flings, or when monkey branching between multiple boyfriends and girlfriends.
Everyone in society knows this to be true.
And while there will be some people who do not participate in this highly promiscuous lifestyle, who exactly are they and how on earth could we spot them?
The problem arises when men and women get into their 20s and 30s and are wanting to find someone to marry, yet realizing that when they look around for possible marriage partners, the problem of the sexual history of that person becomes highly troubling.
How does a man or woman find a husband or wife who hasn’t had 20, 40, 80, or even 180 sex partners?
How can we tell who has kept themselves pure as much as possible, and who may be lying when they say they have, because they know they will be rejected for marriage and children if the truth were told?
It’s an impossible task and an impossible ask.
Realizing The Ugly Truth
Many men nowadays, including MGTOW men, are fully aware of these facts. And as men who are looking around at the potential marriage pool of women, they don’t see anyone which is of any interest to them at all. They are choosing not to marry and not to have children, for this very reason of high rates of promiscuity.
These men don’t want to be man number 147.
They don’t want to marry a woman who has had 146 men before him, while also knowing that she has done the basest of sexual acts with these men. They don’t want a wife that 100 other men have naked photos of, or that has sex tapes of her and 20 other men. They don’t want the risk of disease, nor the extraordinarily high expectation of adultery and divorce that comes from those people who have led a highly promiscuous life.
They don't want to "Man Up" and marry that woman who has had who knows how many family planning procedures done.
These are the men who went to high school and to college and witnessed first hand all of these acts going on, and was repulsed by it. In their workplaces and in social gatherings they see people living this lifestyle and they are repulsed by it.
And no, when age 30 hits and one of these women are looking for a husband, they don’t want to put a ring on it. In fact, for many men and MGTOWs, they really don’t want any sort of association with it at all. Not as friends, nor for casual encounters, nor for anything else.
Some MGTOW men turn their backs on it all, and walk away from it all.
Seeing what is available today, they say no thank you. Not today, not tomorrow, not ever.
Not All Women Are Like That
Well, that may be true, just like not all men are like that. But how do we tell? And how do we know we aren’t being lied to? When the overwhelming majority of the population is exactly like that, the safest option for many MGTOW then becomes to say no to all women.
No marriage, no children, no relationships, no encounters.
Now it is true that this is not as important to all men or women as it is to some. Everyone is different and every MGTOW is different and has different reasons for going their own way. Just as some women will also avoid marriage with today’s men. But for the men going their own way, high levels of promiscuity is a very significant reason for many of them going MGTOW and refusing marriage, children and relationships with women.
They don’t want to put a ring on it.
And they don’t want to call it wife, nor sleep next to it, nor have it be a mother to his children.
Nor do they want to deal with the adultery, the divorce, losing his children, losing everything he owns, and being put into forced servitude for the next 20 years to her. After however many years he already spent providing for her and spending on her, and sacrificing for her.
So these men go their own way instead, and politely say no thank you.
