Gentlemen and Faggots, this post will help you more quickly establish and exercise trust with your first mate.

Trust is the essential element in any relationship. Now - the BP faggots reading this will think of trust as "I hope she doesn't fuck someone else" and the RP men reading this will think "she wants to know that she can trust me to be a man and leader."

Women reading this will tell you I am right. So listen up.

Your woman wants to know that she can trust you to be a man and leader. You have been a fag for so many years that she doesn't feel she can trust your masculinity. You want her not to go fuck someone else - but she doesn't have a man around so in reality she has no other options. She obviously likes men but you are such a pussy that in order to fuck you she has to turn into a lesbian.

So, here you are trying to become more of a man and get her to trust you more. I am about to give you a tool that will greatly shortcut the process of building her trust in your leadership.

Compliance Training^TM

Now this is the term I am using here - if you explain this to your wife the tool will lose all of its power so STFU and just try what I am saying.

You are basically setting up a mental framework that today is a "you can't say no" day. This will require trust from her and it will excite her that you are taking some initiative. It will also train her to trust your leadership. It is a deliberate exercise in trust. Rather than letting it happen naturally over time, you are setting up a training exercise for her.

It is also a training exercise for you. If you violate the trust that she gives you then you will have fucked up the whole thing and it will never work for you again. So go slow and don't abuse this tool.

If you have been a faggot and she essentially is not attracted to you - you have to start building some trust.

It starts this weekend - find some shit to do with her and just set it up. Just tell her you guys are going to do XYZ. She will love the fact that you took initiative. If she already has plans or complains, do not get butt-hurt just go do the thing by yourself. Keep trying this until you get some compliance. Do NOT engage this tool until you have started restoring some leadership in your marriage.

Now, let's say you have a decent amount of trust built and she is responding to your plans and activities. This is when the tool can be used.

Today is a "you can't say no" day

As you can see - this phrase will backfire right in your mouth if you try it too soon on a woman you have made into the Captain. Only use this when your Captain status is being regained. And do NOT start with a whole day. Just a few hours to begin with.

The basic premise is that she must suspend all judgement and doubt and pessimism and let you make the choices for X amount of time.

It could be a compliance morning - for example - Saturday morning I have something planned for us and you cannot say no. Say it with a grin and make it a fun thing. Don't be all serious about it.

ALERT: Do NOT wake up Saturday morning and try to shove a John Holmes dildo up her ass and bust a nut on her face. You will have ruined the trust forever.

When you first start doing Compliance Training^TM - you MUST do things that she will enjoy and are mutually good for the relationship. If Sunday morning is your first time using it - then just pick a nice local park or walking trail and go do it with her. After the walk and hand holding go get brunch.

It is easy - "Hey I planned something for us to do Sunday morning and you can't say no." Then no matter how many times she asks, don't tell her what it is. Turns out, it is something fairly mundane but will give both of you good feelz.

This will make her feel good about you and that you set something up, she did not protest or say no, and she had a good time when she trusted you.

Eventually you begin to do longer and longer "can't say no" activities. I have entire days like this that end in whatever/wherever sex I want. By the end of the day she is practically begging for my dick. Just a day full of simple and fun things (motorcycle picnic, rock climbing, art exhibit, etc...) that we both enjoy doing and it ends in great enthusiastic sex. Talk about a perfect day.

Now, for guys who are further down the path - Compliance Training^TM can be used for more adventurous things. Maybe it is a threeway or anal or whatever.

You can use CT for whatever stage you are in. It is a deliberate training tool for both of you. You know that you CANNOT fuck it up and she learns that trusting you is in her best interest.

This is deliberate leader/follower training just like the military would do with field exercises.

Start simple. Make sure the outcome is pleasing for both of you.

I am at the point where "you cannot say no" is almost a daily function of our family. She has reached the point where she knows I will take care of the family and if she just lets me be a man then she will love the outcome. Everything is handled/fixed/repaired, we have fun, our money is good, and her mind is free to think of ways to be more sexy for me.

This was not always the case. I was a faggot just like you at one time and her pussy was like the Sahara.

If I haven't made something clear please ask and I will add it to this post.