Often women do have a good bedside manner. This is that pre-programmed maternal instinct. But remember the 'love' between a female and her mate and the love between a female and her children (or a patient she is caring for in the same way) are two entirely different things.

Remember that her job is making her a healthy salary, why wouldn't she use her natural talents for nurturing to improve her client base and ultimately her business.

In this situation you are like a child to her, you have been temporarily adopted by her maternal nature and also you are paying her.

The love between a mother and a child is biologically pre-programmed and it's totally unconditional.

The love between a woman and her boyfriend/husband is totally conditional.

You are experiencing both...if you weren't making her money...if you met her in a social setting...she wouldn't treat you the same. If you hit it off and ended up in a relationship...she wouldn't treat you the same.

Empathy, sympathy, a conscience for men is one thing that women lack. Opinion is divided among us who have spent time studying female nature. Some of us argue that women simply do not possess these qualities.

I would argue to the contrary. Women possess these qualities but choose to ignore them often telling lies to themselves and others around them to avoid the striking conscience. Women so often make decisions and act immorally...the moment she starts to question herself the tiniest bit about even the tiniest thing the ever growing heavily conscience may burst open and she has to rethink her entire approach to life. Self reflection is kryptonite to the female.

Example - When you date a woman and get to that point of talking about past relationships and why they failed you will NEVER....EVER hear a woman admit any responsibility for the failure of that relationship. She won't even admit responsibility to friends. Women used to tell you that their ex's were 'assholes'. Now they tell you that their ex's were 'abusive'. Their ex's were 'suphocating'. It's always two sided, she always has her part to play in the failings of a relationship and often a huge part but she will never admit it. Instead she will tell a bullshit story to the point that she actually believes it herself and so it clears her conscience and self doubt.

Regardless, make use of female bedside manners but don't mistake it for anything more than it is!