When you live within any particular culture, be it a religious culture, ideological culture, or national culture, if you haven't ever been exposed to other cultures or operating systems present within the world, then your culture is all that you know and is everything that surrounds you. When you are young, what you were brought up within seems to be correct. The truth is, there is no right or wrong. There is only differing approaches.

A person living in the 4th world in a stone-age tribe in locations such as Papau New Guinea could absolutely never conceive of what we have on offer to us in modern day society. How could a hunter-gatherer wearing a loincloth wielding a spear comprehend a fusion generator, an airplane, a computer on his own? The only way that you can understand a different way of life, quite often, is to be directly exposed to the differing ways of life other than your own; another culture, a different system. How would a 4th world tribesman who would thinks that their way of life is amazing react to being exposed to the bounty of modern civilization? You think that tribesman would want to go back to hunting in the jungle for hours to kill a monkey to eat with the possibility of no food at all from the hunt, or do you think he would want to experience everything that this world has to offer? If all your life you've been eating shit sandwiches and someone gave you a gourmet burger to eat, would you ever want to go back to eating shit sandwiches? No, you want the burger.

This phenomenon, of people choosing something better for themselves and their lives is an extremely important phenomenon. This phenomenon is why there are ex-Mormons. This is why there are ex-Muslims. This is why there are ex-cult members. People want to go where they are treated best. People want to move towards the truth. People see the flaws in their ideological systems that they were raised from birth to believe in. People who grew up in the Mormon environment for example would realize that their entire life was a lie and that it was all bullshit. They move away, because they seek the truth, and they seek the environment that they believe is best.

You know what happens when a Mormon leaves the faith? Their family completely cuts off contact with them. They excommunicate the individual. They chastise, rebuke, and insult the individual. They insult the individual all because he's doing something that they don't agree with, something that does not benefit them, something that does not follow the life script that they all have indoctrinated themselves into believing.

This same principle applies to going MGTOW and eschewing gynocentric society.

When people get upset at you for not wanting to be in a relationship or date a woman. When people get upset at you for not wanting to be a provider for a woman. When people get upset at you for not wanting to get married. When people get upset at you for choosing to have sex on your terms. When people get upset at you for not wanting to be tied down by child support, alimony, etc.

They are upset at you because you're not playing by their rules. They are angry because you are doing something differently. They are angry at you because you are not cooperating with the life script that they were raised to believe in. They are angry at you because you are following your heart, doing what you believe is best, and going where you are treated best. They care about what they can get from you, and not your true happiness and well being. There is no logic and reasoning whatsoever, just pure disgust because you are threatening the survival of the ideology.

I once told my mother my logic and reasoning as to why I do not ever want to get married or bother with relationships in general. It was very simple. It was pretty much everything that you could expect me to say. I explained to her that I don't want to pay for the cost of the wedding, told her that 70% of divorces are initiated by women, 50% of all marriages end in divorce, 80% of men lose custody of their children, 97% of alimony recipients are women. I explained to her everything. That I don't want to lose all my stuff, all my inheritances to a women that is not blood related to me. You know what my mother said? My mother called me a selfish and shallow person. I'm selfish because I want to keep my assets and not give any of my shit away needlessly via divorce rape. I'm a shallow person because I understand risk and want to protect myself from financial ruin when 50% of all marriages end in divorce. Getting married is the equivalent of playing Russian roulette with 1 empty chamber and 1 loaded chamber. Are you really going to take those odds and play the game, or are you going to opt out?. This is what Western women actually believe

I had a college professor who was in her 50's that ACTUALLY said to 30 people in class that men are supposed to provide resources to women and fulfill the needs and desires of women. This same woman would spend valuable lecture time talking about how she loves going shopping for shoes and dresses, saying these things to a classroom full of broke college kids. This is what Western women actually believe

I once was at a wedding wherein a morbidly obese bride in her speech told the audience that from the time that she was little, her parents always told her that she was special, that she was beautiful, and that she was a princess. She said that she expected to be treated like a princess, and that she deserves only the best. I'm not lying, this is what she said in her wedding speech. This is what Western women actually believe

What do I actually gain from getting married? What do I gain from holding a wedding? What do I actually gain from taking out a woman on dates? What do I actually gain from hitting on a woman in a nightclub all evening long? What do I actually gain from taking out a mortgage on a McMansion and buying bullshit furniture?

Go where you are treated best. There is a world out there where EXACTLY what you want exists.