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What's your beef with incels? (self.TheBluePill)

UglyIncelThrowaway が 投稿

As an incel, I just don't understand why you hate us. We never did anything to you. I don't know why feminists have such an issue with men who weren't blessed with good looks.

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[–]WestsideMoonWalkerKing of the Chadettes 3ポイント4ポイント  (2子コメント)

Hint: It's not because you guys may not be attractive. It's because some dickbags who identify as incels say ridiculously terrible things that are rightfully terrifying, and because some people who identify as incels speak high of Elliot Rodger. Not all incels are bad people, but the bad people who are incels are absolutely horrifically terrible human beings who create their own misery.

[–]UglyIncelThrowaway[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

I agree. However, if you look at /r/incels, it's mostly guys supporting each other. It sucks not being born with good looks. I took the test on this site called "prettyscale", which is where they take a photo from your webcam and rate you based on facial symmetry. I got a 39%. So as soon as I found out that I was ugly, I knew that I was an incel, and it wasn't just my shyness why I'm 27 and never been in a relationship.

But you gotta realize, that whenever you go throughout life without emotional intimacy, it can lead to some very bad mental health issues. That's why Elliot Roger, and other incels are crazy.

Also, the bitterness towards women is justified. Imagine being ugly as shit, unable to get a woman. Meanwhile, your female counterpart can do a lot better than you can. For example, a 4/10 woman can get tons of dick, where as a 4/10 man can't get as much vag, if any.

[–]WestsideMoonWalkerKing of the Chadettes 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

It sucks not being born with good looks.

It does, and it sucks that sometimes people are treated poorly due to their looks. However, there are still worse things, and it's not like only the most beautiful people in the world are capable of having relationships.

I took the test on this site called "prettyscale", which is where they take a photo from your webcam and rate you based on facial symmetry. I got a 39%.

My facial symmetry is not great, as far as I can tell, and people have still called me attractive in the past (and tbh, unless someone is into extremely skinny guys, they probably were not talking about my body). Facial symmetry isn't the end all be all. (FWIW, I gave it a shot just to see and I got 53%. TBH I think that site is kinda silly, especially since I have been dating the same girl for the last two years. You learn to stop second guessing yourself as you gain confidence).

So as soon as I found out that I was ugly, I knew that I was an incel, and it wasn't just my shyness why I'm 27 and never been in a relationship.

Are you sure it's that? Have you approached women enough to know that? It sounds more like a self-esteem issue than a shyness or looks issue. Being scared of rejection sucks, but it seems like the case with you. I was a bit of an ugly duckling back in high school (which I graduated from 3 years ago). I was never the most confident or most attractive guy in the room, but when it comes to forming relationships, as long as there is some attraction there (and it seems like you are closer to average than not), you have something to work with.

I get that a lack of emotional intimacy was difficult, and I felt bad about that in my life at one point, but at the same time, the only way to do anything about it is to go out there and build relationships with people, be it friendly or romantic. Hell, I have friends who are not great with girls, but just by putting themselves out there, they are able to at least make connections with people.