Okay. I think I know what you're trying to say.

My answer is, why do activities have to be gendered? Let's forget this cultural idea that some things are for men and some for women. Women should be able to do things typically (and redundantly) seen as masculine with no repercussions.

Of course, we also need to allow men to do typically feminine things without judgement too. However, most feminists I know have no issue with men doing 'feminine' things, but many RP or MRA types do because they see behaving in a feminine way as inherently humiliating.