27 year old incel here in Toronto. Born and raised here.

I find it really hard to find a girlfriend here if your career only involves guys (i.e. working in IT) and your an introvert or really shy.

Here in Toronto the culture is such that your a creep if you talk to them on the bus subway.

If you do talk to them, their reaction is not "hey this guy is talking to me" its "this guy is talking to me, he must be desperate"

Funny thing is im not really ugly, just really shy and introverted.

I feel like the amount of effort I would have to put in to dating a 6/10 without her flaking would get me a 8-9/10 in countries like Ukraine

Thoughts guys?