I'm not sure if this message will help you guys but I hope it does.

Try thinking of your last relationship and seeing if it fits into this message.

" This message is being sent for no other person than myself.

I just want to say goodbye...not to you...but to the version of you I thought was real. The person I wholeheartedly wanted and hoped to be real but was nothing more than my imagination.

I was recently thinking about all the things you've done to me in the past and realized, you're not at all a decent person. You lack dignity, honor and have absolutely 0 commitment. You hook up with any guy that wants you because you lack something in yourself. You have a void that you can't seem to fill so you'll whore around from person to person. Trying to fill the void and find validation. while giving off a persona of innocence.

Remember that time we stopped talking for a few days, and in that time you already found someone else to hook up with, well I do. You will spend your entire existence in this cycle. - Void of any self worth so you go to the nearest male to try and validate yourself.

Well guess what. It won't happen

You want validation from a male because you hope he will marry you and take you away from your current terrible life. - nothing more than that. You don't care what guy it is and you'll hook up with as many as it takes to try and hook one that will rid you of your current lifestyle.

You don't truly care about anyone else. All of your acts of "kindness" all come from a place a narcissism. You'll only pretend to love, pretend to find someone valuable, when in reality these acts are only to benefit yourself. And if you think that person is no longer valuable you'll drop them without hesitation for the nearest perceived valuable person.

So this is me saying goodbye, not to you. But to the imaginary friend equivalent of you. The girl who only existed in my imagination. Even when I was near you physically. From my perspective I was with a totally different person...I was never thinking about you. I was thinking about a version of you that...no matter what. Never existed "