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[–]rayyaal 114ポイント115ポイント  (10子コメント)

I think that the single greatest boon to my confidence and self-worth as a man was the week I spent on here after having spent close to a month trying to understand why my ONEitis and "best-friend" at the time was treating me like dirt.

She was someone I talked to on a daily basis, and after "sharing my feelz" she distanced herself, made me insecure, and was maliciously manipulating everything I had come to trust and adore. She had no respect for me, AND she was in control. I felt like my ability to judge character was stunted, like I was chasing after something that I couldn't even understand. None of what I had been taught made any sense.

I was writing journal entries every day trying to understand the source of my pain and confusion, trying desperately to rationalize it myself (the hamster was running a marathon). Then I remembered being told about this one misogynistic community on Reddit that I should avoid at all costs because it's full of hate and bigotry.

So I started reading.

I was shocked to realize for the first time in my life that I had never been offered the opportunity, or motivated by my peers and teachers to look honestly at myself and understand fully the value I had as a man.

While I was orbiting my so-called "best-friend", I was going to the gym three times a week, I was in great shape, I played an instrument, I read books on politics and history, and I was a genuinely valuable man. I went to the gym before work, and practiced shredding solos on the guitar afterwards. I had a healthy social life with trustworthy and supporting friends. I had traveled to 32 countries on 4 continents. The fucking problem was, I didn't even recognize it. To me, she was worth more. To me, none of my accomplishments were more valuable than a fucking pussy. Why? Take a wild fucking guess. Feminism WAS my dogma. My first LTR was a rape victim who would genuinely use it as a means to grab my attention and keep it. It was a means of getting me to react emotionally to her, and I just swallowed it all up and became more of a white-knight and more of an orbiter. My value WAS to women. I had no measure of self-worth

What TRP gave me isn't more plates, sex, or game. That wasn't the real problem anymore and I knew it. What TRP gave me was a new lens through which I can accurately measure value. I can see, truly, what I have to offer; at the same time I can see, truly, what they don't.

[–]PragmaticRedTruth[S] 17ポイント18ポイント  (2子コメント)

This is huge. It isn't just about your status as a valuable male, it's how you are able to communicate that.... AKA how you view yourself.

You can be the greatest person on earth, if you don't have self awareness, graciousness, self worth and esteem, and you don't communicate that, people will eventually see you as much lower than you're worthy.

[–]rayyaal 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Agreed. One of the most difficult things to understand as a BP male is how effective self-love is at making others love you. We're so conditioned to sacrifice we don't for a second consider what we get out of it.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 10ポイント11ポイント  (1子コメント)

To me, none of my accomplishments were more valuable than a fucking pussy. Why? Take a wild fucking guess. Feminism WAS my dogma.

...and this is the problem. The women were playing chess while the men were brainwashed into playing checkers.

Great story.

[–]Cant_Tell_Me_Nothin 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Feminism has allowed women to be player 1 playing Nintendo with the plugged-in controller, while men were deceived into playing with the unplugged controller.

[–]Endorsed ContributorCopperFox3c 7ポイント8ポイント  (1子コメント)

My value WAS to women. I had no measure of self-worth.

Poignant story, and well said. Good lesson that probably resonates for many newbies. If you had more of a posting history, I'd give you a point you for this. Stick around, post/comment more.

[–]rayyaal 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

It'll take the full force of the patriarchy to remove me from TRP at this point.

[–]Yujiro_Hanma_ 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm right where you were brother, except I'm just hitting the gym as a skinny fat, unfashionable pud.

My oneitis is killing me, but screw it. When my SMV is up I'll truly appreciate it.

[–]BlackJ1 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Jesus your story is so common it's not even funny, but I'm glad you found TRP because it to has helped me understand that I had no self-worth.

I never valued who I was or my feelings. Once I valued it I lived a happier life.

[–]etotheitauequalsone 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

These red lenses are amazing but they reveal the true ugliness of the world

[–]3 Endorsed ContributorSkorchZang 35ポイント36ポイント  (3子コメント)

Based on my plates, I have figured out what it is that women want. They want more.

[–]postreformedpua 16ポイント17ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's exactly what my wife said as she walked out the door to fuck someone else 'I want more'.

[–]jackandjill22 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Kind've vague. Thanks though.

[–]whats_the_deal22 10ポイント11ポイント  (1子コメント)

This shit is chess, not checkers.

Lmao, I watched Training Day the other night.

[–]Banned_For_Opinion 6ポイント7ポイント  (4子コメント)

Am I a beta for not wanting to deal with it? I still fuck good looking chicks, I just don't give any fucks about putting useless effort into Fucking that 10 because quite honestly, I have better shit to do with my time and she's most likely going to be nothing but a pain in the ass and a mediocre lay (judging by previous experiences). I mean, I know I'm not beta. Id just love to hear TRP's diagnosis.

[–]PragmaticRedTruth[S] 9ポイント10ポイント  (3子コメント)

Doesn't make you a beta. What makes you a beta is whether or not you're a high quality male. In other words, alpha males make up 20% of the population, this is the top tier.

Beta has many different meanings... typically all associated with push over, low quality life, and lower quality genes in males.

It's your life do what you want, and if you're getting pussy and happy with your life, so be it.

[–]HS-Thompson 7ポイント8ポイント  (2子コメント)

This is a common TRP fallacy. Being an alpha is not a thing that you are it is a position that you hold in a group dynamic. An alpha is a leader, and a beta is a follower. A person can be high quality, muscular, good looking, whatever, but if they are weak within the context of the group they are a beta.

A corporate CEO could be a top notch alpha, end up in prison after a drugged out car accident, and suddenly be the lowest in the heirarchy. But that prison gang member is not the alpha in the room when he's in a Federal courtroom, the judge is.

I see this misconception on TRP a lot. There's no such thing as an alpha or beta when it's one person in the woods. The concept of being an alpha is always contextual. It's a position held within a group.

If you're trying to figure out if you're the alpha or beta in the context of interacting with a woman, just ask a simple question: which one of you is actually calling the shots? Are you the leader?

[–]PraetereoBonobos 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is a great point and should be said more.

[–]Hakametal 11ポイント12ポイント  (1子コメント)

Highly recommend the Women's need for drama post.

It goes into the idea of the juxtaposed duality female sexual strategy (security and anxiety) aka BB;AF. If she feels too secure, she'll grow bored and her hypergamy will kick in. If she feels that she can't tie you down, she'll feel insecure and find someone who will comfort her.

At the end of the day, it's a balancing act. You just have to find women who are more stable.

[–]Rebikhan 14ポイント15ポイント  (0子コメント)

Every human relationship is like this. At work, if you don't ever fear being fired you will become complacent, but if you always fear it you will become a neurotic unproductive mess.

[–]PlusGoody 10ポイント11ポイント  (2子コメント)

It is NOT ENOUGH to be a man of value.

The world is full of men of extraordinary value who don't get proper return on that value in their relationships with women. There is NOTHING more common than a great man with shitty wife or even shittier ex-wife. A man with both is pretty darn common too.

No matter how good you are, you have to be disciplined and demand the best. There are no guarantees in life but you sure as heck can give yourself an edge. The world is full of young educated women with good values, good families, and good genes (neither she nor her mother is or ever has been fat). Deserve one and get one, and accept no substitutes.

[–]PragmaticRedTruth[S] 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yes, this is what I meant when I said self awareness and knowledge of the game is also required.

[–]graffix13 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

Great post. The problem is that most of us (I'm guilty too) put that pussy on a pedestal. We KNOW better, but we do it anyway. We're like moths drawn to that flame (pussy). The trick is to kick down that pussy pedestal, and put our own self worth on the pedestal instead, and then the new moth (pussy) will be drawn to OUR flame.

WE are the fucking prize.

[–]Jax77789 8ポイント9ポイント  (0子コメント)

Agree totally. The pedestalization thing is so incredibly strong. The thing is your brain confuses good sex with good person. Most of the time chicks are just good for sex, their personalities....well, even the ones who look good on that side all turn out to be insufferable cunts over time.

Bitches ain't worth shit indeed.

[–]samenrofringslikeLBJ 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

High quality post, been a rarity lately. Puts it all nicely summarized together. You can be Brad fucking Pitt and "it don't impress me much (uhh ah ahhh)" straight from the horses mouth. Thats a Shania Twain song for those wondering. It sort of has the key right there, she mentions all the qualities a man can have and then goes on to say its not good enough. Its built in to the hardware to constantly clamour for more looks, more money, more status.

[–]PragmaticRedTruth[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Could you imagine how confusing it is inside there hahaha.

[–]Thebilboestbaggins 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Women are dogs chasing cars. Drive up to a dog, put the car in park and say "here, this is yours". It'll piss on it and walk away.

Want women to chase you? Don't stop driving your car. They love a good chase. The more women chasing you, the more they want you.

If you know what you're doing, its like taking candy from a fucking baby.

[–]eylizo 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

This really is an amazing analogy, love it.

[–]victor_knight 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

What does a woman want?

It doesn't matter because it's always changing. Women want/should be dominated and kept in isolated harems for breeding by alpha males. That's how nature intended it, sorry to say. Unless we wait another 10,000 years for evolution to select for the formation of new female brain components. The way things are going, I don't think the species has that kind of time.

[–]Endorsed ContributorNeoreactionSafe 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

 

The tetragrammaton (from Greek Τετραγράμματον, meaning "[consisting of] four letters",[1][2]) is the Hebrew theonym יהוה, commonly transliterated into Latin letters as YHWH. It is one of the names of God used in the Hebrew Bible.[3][4][5] The name may be derived from a verb that means "to be", "to exist", "to cause to become", or "to come to pass".[1][6]

 

יהוה --> Yod + Hei + Vav + Hei

The most direct translation is something like:

"Masculine male has sex with woman to create life."

 

Why do women love Assholes™ ?

 

Because the portion we call the "Asshole" is the Yod which represents the spontaneous unpredictable energy of creation.

Women cannot supply their own Yod.

The energy of Chad Thundercock must originate in the male and pass through him as raw uncontrolled energy of the universe and into the female who is ready to receive that energy.

Women want Access to the masculine Yod energy. (creation)

They catch what we throw.

We are the prize of masculine energy that they need to be completed.

 

[–]Ray_817 -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

PMMEYOURTHIGHS, your comment and view point is so misguided and borderline trolling, either your extremely uneducated or a SJW/Feminist, your user name explains a lot in the fact you have no level of maturity in your bones. Women come in all colors you idiot!!!! The point of this post summarizes the main core points of TRP, and you advocate you like this Sub yet you seem to have very little understanding of it, and probably life in general. So you took it upon yourself to say this post does some injustice to the rest of the sub, I'm trying to be polite as I can, but for fuck sakes man pull your head outta your ass.