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Need a little inspiration (self.MGTOW)

Jhonka93 が 投稿

I came to MGTOW for the first time around 6 months ago. What brought me here was that I was dumped out of the blue brutally by my ex gf of two years for no specific reason which hurt me pretty bad. At the same time this all happened my friends (who are also mutual friends with my ex) began ghosting me. The pain of this made me grow and go my own way, I got a new job, started saving more money monthly, enrolled myself in school for the following year, and am currently working on picking up a new hobby. Even though all the good things in my life that are happening I feel extremely lonely at times which I find lowers my motivation, what is your secret to not staying lonely when there's no one around to talk to?

Thanks in advance

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[–]muscacavalcade 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Please, give me a hug so you can feel better about your loneliness (ops, no hug boxing allowed).

Even though all the good things in my life that are happening I feel extremely lonely

Being single is not all "sunshine and rainbows, this is a very nasty and mean place". Most people dislike being with their only thoughts and feelings (Gosh, they prefer to receive shocks!)[http://www.sciencemag.org/news/2014/07/people-would-rather-be-electrically-shocked-left-alone-their-thoughts]. Learn to appreciate and contemplate such state, maybe you are not familiar with being tranquil and peaceful. Your zone of discomfort is the conflict (FOO issues + learned helplessness).

your secret to not staying lonely when there's no one around to talk to?

This is the secret: run from your feeling of loneliness! Keep yourself working overtime, binge eating, promiscuity, self-harming, etc.

Seriously, adopt a dog and just do what makes time go by without you realizing. Preferentially, something that use your mind and body together. This crap "just make you feel happy* about" is shallow and people who say that are just washing their hands by saying something devoid of meaning (the same goes to "follow your dreams/passions" {it is not because you love something that this thing will make you at peace with your inner anguish[which anyone honest with himself acknowledge, accept, and accommodate it.]})

*prefer to be content as this is a more stable state (closer to plenitude)

[–]TVTestPattern 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hang in there brother... it will get better.

She likely torpedoed you with your group, which is why they ghosted you. And it's the females that enforce that shit... I have a friend who isn't allowed at my house since I'm single... someone I have known for 30 years.

Consider this a valuable lesson.

What's the secret?

Sorry to say, but there is no secret... it just sucks. You will get better at dealing with it, but that takes time. (Something you now have in abundance) I can count the number of attached guys who are still actual friends on my cock after my last LTR poisoned the well... the rest are either related to me or single guys.

Female friends? 0 Because females don't have friends like you and I think about it.

They have assets... not friends. It's just female nature.

I was having a conversation with a group recently and we were talking about longtime friends. I asked how many friends this girl in the group had for over 10 years and the answer was 3. When I remarked that I had around 25 or so... she stared at me like I was an alien.

It's part of the reason why the red pill is such an apt analogy.

"You have to understand. Most people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured and so hopelessly dependent on the system that they will fight to protect it."

Hang tough friend... you can do this.